A group for all Transgendered people of any age.SOFFA's (Significant Others, Friends,Families,Allies)Which is pretty much anyone who cares.Everyone is welcome despite age,gender identity,race,religion or any other identities.Note that discussions are not
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Someone help me, I might just go crazy! Im in such a rough position and i need to know what someone else thinks so...I have a problem with the fact that i think my mother has a problem with my transgenderism and im afraid that it will not be resolved soon enough and we will never be able to talk about getting me closer to passing more as a man, like pronouns and a name change. the only time any of that has come up was when i came out to her, and i fear that it will be the only time. i only have nine months untill i turn 18, and we have already spoken of my plans to leave home at that age. i want to get out of there as soon as i can so i can start being more free and independant to be who i really am! im just scared that i will lose her to this, and i have no choice but to let her go. it seems like family or me, even though none of my other family members know, but the subject of gender does come up a lot around my grandma, who is always telling me "you are a woman, so why dont you clean more?" and shes even asked my mom if i think i am a boy, but this was before i came out! if only she knew, i dont know why she doesnt...theres something that makes me scared and almost a little ashamed because i know that it will be a dissapointment to her.