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What can women do when men do not want to commit?
Treat it as a warning sign. One very simple reason a man may not want to commit is that either he is not ready for a relationship or does not think you are the right person. So watch carefully and be prepared to walk away at short notice.
Confront him politely. Men do not find this topic to be an easy one (psychologists call it 'commitment phobia' or 'fear of commitment' and a man and commitment are not always friends) and will either avoid it, give a confusing answer, put you on hold, or simply end the relationship. None of these is a response that you want. So you need to approach this with tact. Tell him that you have been dating for a while and what can you do to make sure that you both can chart a course for the future. If he avoids the topic, then tell him that it is important for you to make some plans and you would like to set some milestones for the relationship. If he still does not want to demonstrate to you that he shares this vision, it is better to diversify your risk by considering other men.
Set some ground rules for your relationship if he is not yet ready to commit. For instance, rules for dating others, evaluating the relationship after one or three or six months and then deciding the next set of steps, etc.
If none of this works, you can switch the relationship to a friendship as both of you evaluate your options. No need to have an ugly breakup if the only issue for your relationship is long-term commitment. In today's America, where it is so hard to find someone who is 'made for you', it is best to give even someone who is remotely 'made for you' another chance.
And of course the final option is to simply dump a commitment phobic man so that you can move on when he doesn't want to.