Our Children Need Protection From The Protectors November 07, 2006 11:29 AM
We can never let ourselves forget the Children We as a Society have let down. Too all those who love Jeffrey and all children who suffer or die from abuse.
Our Children Need Protection From The Protectors
To The Premier of Ontario, Dalton McGuinty
By Jesse Wilson and Angel Femia of LoveCry
We are writing this letter in regards to all the Childrenís Aid Societyís and the request from the ombudsman to be able to investigate complaints against the society.
We find it absurd that the Society would put up such a fight not to have someone outside the agency seeing what is going on when its for the safety of our children considering what happened in the Jeffrey Baldwin case and many others. Jeffery was starved to death over a period of years, and the worker still has a good pay check, respectability and a solid position at the society.
Because the Society is putting up such a fight not to have anyone outside the agency look in to any of the deadliest cases makes us wonder how much of what there saying is true. In Jeffery's case we and many others believe that the Detective in charge was denied the full content of information to proceed properly with the case in of itself. We believe that the Society workers on Jeffery's and many others cases should have had to face charges of neglecting their duties as official Society workers.
We believe that the Society should be held accountable for their part of their responsibility within the situation regarding Jeffery's and others whom have died in their care.
It is true that if you have a complaint against the Society you have to go to your worker then the worker and supervisor than the branch manager than the executive director than a meeting with the board of directors than to the ministry of children and youth services These organizations are all under the same roof all have different ways on saying the same thing, but your not aloud to voice your concern to anyone outside the agency.
When you do voice your opinion they discredit you. They lie on reports about what people actually say. The quotes get twisted enough to allow the worst impression to be judged by our lawmakers. (If any of the people being quoted on the Societies paperwork actually testified to what was truly said any judge would see the difference, of course we are never called to speak). Therefore if a worker does not like you, you loose your children or parents and in many cases these Society workers are believed, not through earning this trust but because they are Society workers..
Just last weeks at LoveCry a few of us walked into a meeting with a new mother and a Society worker. The Worker was threatening her and using gossip to do so. There was no fact at this point, only jealous gossipers angry and wanting to hurt this girl. (She is no perfect child but is not anywhere near as rotten as the society has on their paperwork). This girl got scared an lied and thus gave the Society a reason to take the new borne infant. (the Society worker terrified this girl and scared her into lying. Several of us witnessed this incident).
If the Society truly believe that what they are doing are the right procedures to ensure the safety of our children why would they be so concerned to have someone outside the agency investigate parents complaints.
We find this very concerning since they have proven to stand by their workers even if a child dies.
They recently made it a law this February 2006 that it is mandatory to do criminal background checks so what about all the children before this date just because their not dead does not mean they donít need our help.
It is up to us, the parents to stand up to this system for our childrenís future and our own if we donít speak up now they will continue to do what they want even if itís not for the best interest of the children as we witnessed in 2004 when Jeffrey died in the care of convicted child abusers, ( and there were many other before Jeffery).
The fact that many of the Society workers do not have psychological training or personal experience. (many not even having their own children). There Society workers are not required to have a degree in child psychology so how can they really know whatís best for the children.
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