Just out of an abusive relationship with a man, looking to help people that need the courage. Not gay but bi if drink too much.

Your philosophy is "learning".   Great, and don't EVER stop learning, because enlightenment can give you peace, purpose, and happiness.  Also, don't fear that learning might slow down the "action" you like.  It can enhance your action in a useful way...such as your goals re women's rights.

Nice to meet you.