Im so happy to see you here Sandie! A warm welcome to our new home Please feel free to share your wisdom
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Well, well, well... February 07, 2005 1:12 AM
You ARE a busy little beaver, aren't you, Pisces, my friend? for the invite, hon - oh! and Sandie! Nice to see you here, too! Now, what's for breakfast?
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You're welcome. Anything to help us all focus more on total mind/body/spirit care in the most positive and beneficial ways possible!
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Glad to be here February 26, 2005 5:51 PM
Trying again!
This is a great topic for a group. Keeping focused on the important things can be a challenge. Thanks for inviting me, Wolf Singer!
No one sent me an invite. I just saw it listed on the profile of someone I know, and wanted to see what it was, and decided to join. I definitely wish I could meet some goals! The best thing in my life now wasn't even a goal initially: my new hubby. When my previous hubby who had MS died, I thought that was it. I was 50 then (51 now) and thought I could never find another wonderful man like Grizz (Short for Grizzley, my previous hubby's nickname). But Tom was in a net prayer group with me, knew him for a while as a friend, though not very very close. Then after my first devastating grief with absolute exhaustion was past, I got to know Tom better, went to MA to meet in person, and we married, and are back in OH now.
But goals of getting better or doing various things seem to not really happen. I just seem to get through one day at a time, and cover only the basics and emergencies.
What you've undertaken is, indeed, quite something! But, if we can help you to become motivated, if we can help you find that sense of stick-to-itiveness, then all the better for you, and for us, too.
Please feel free to explore all of the threads, ask questions, post comments, ideas, and suggestions, start threads, and enjoy yourself here.
Hello Wolf Singer, I received the email in regard to being deleted if not participating vocally in groups !!
I am somewhat surprised by this as I enjoy reading what others have written and have learned a great deal from their comments, but that does not mean that I always have something to say with regard to the posting.
I have always found the best way to learn anything is to listen. If we all did the talking and never listened then we would not learn very much from each other.
So I feel sad at your decision but it is your group and your choice to do as you please.
I am but a Co-Host here, my friend. But I know what you're referring to, and if you'll allow me to, I will briefly explain my reason for sending that netmessage.
There have been groups, of late - mine, included - that have had the unenviable experience of nearly being completely disrupted by one who thrives on negativity like a heroine junkie thrives on their "fix." This person has been following me (and others, too) from group to group, joining but never posting, trying to play cat-and-mouse with me, and maybe stir up some trouble in the group, in the process.
Because some of my own groups deal with highly personal, sensitive issues, I did not wish to risk having the confidentiality of my group members compromised or broken completely.
In light of these things, then, I felt it was necessary to act on my concern for my group members - trust is a hard-won commodity, as I'm sure you will agree - by first sending out a message, and then, closing the groups to the public, and then, establishing some strict guidelines in the applications process.
I don't feel I was being unfair, Sandy; I was, in truth, looking out for the best interests of the people who have entrusted their lives to me. I take such things extremely seriously; I would sooner be ridiculed, condemned, and insulted (and a lot of people did just that in reply to my message) than to risk breaching the trust of even one person.
I hope this explanation helps you understand better, Sandy, and I do thank you for having the courage and the maturity to initiate some discussion about it. I appreciate having the opportunity to respond to your concerns.
I am sorry to hear that you and others have been having problems from disruptive persons. I realise that you have to protect group members confidentiality & feelings, I am in full agreement with you in regard to this.
It was rather a shock just to receive a message saying if you don't participate then we will delete you from our group. I am in a number of groups and do contribute on a fairly regular basis but sometimes I enjoy just reading what others have to say. I don't always feel the need to add to the posting for the sake of it.
Perhaps if the message had contained what you have written here then I don't think anyone would have taken offence, myself included.
You have done what you felt is necessary to protect your group members and I am sorry that you have been insulted by care2 members because of your actions. That was not my intention when I responded to the message.
Even if we don't always agree with anothers opinion or action I feel we should be able to discuss the situation in a responsible and adult manner without insulting that person and respect their point of view even if it does differ from our own.
I do hope the problem you have been having is resolved for you.
I worked as an electrical/mechanical assembler for 9 years at Bombardier (building passenger railcars) and, have now been layed-off for about a year. ~ In the meantime, I've been going to school for my Electrician's ticket. I've got about 14 years in electrical experience so, I figured that was my niche!
I have been alittle over a year now in Nanaimo, BC and just LOVE it here! ~ Breathtaking! I'm real bummed about leaving my friends and family back in Thunder Bay, Ontario thou! Yeah...quite torn so, I'm not sure what the heck to do!?
I haven't watched television in about 8 years! I spend my time listening to music, reading, crafts and gardening. OH!!.......And, I LOVE renting and watching movies! { NOT considered television, there is a difference! }
Looking forward to sharing with all of U! *hearsmile*
Its great to see new faces! Please feel free to post new topics & start new threads where you see fit. This group is kinda dead... I'm obviously not covering all the bases myself
Christine, what a great intro! but you forgot to mention dazzling personality I'm so glad you made it!
Hola and Thank You for inviting me to join this group. I am Harlee, 50 this October, living in a mountain village in Andalucia Spain with hubby Del. We came to Spain nearly 4 years ago as Del needed to live somewhere warmer than South West Scotland as he had developed Raynauds Syndrome, which meant he took medical retirement for his job as an automobile association patrol, working outdoors in Scotland is no longer an option for him. Well I won't ramble on too much now, looking forward to getting to know you all love light hugs health n happiness Harlee
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Hello everyone.... Ron, for inviting me to this group. I read some of the posts and it seems that there are really some nice people around. I rarely post but I will try to sometime.
Maria Vivian
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Hi everyone, I am new to this site and just want to say hello and wish you all a wonderful day from New Zealand.
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Marci, Harlee, Maria & Joann April 17, 2005 9:56 PM
to the group! There's lots to read about here, and we're all just one big group of people trying to set and reach our individual goals in an environment of support and encouragement. So have fun!
Thanks for the invite, I already see some familiar faces. I'm hoping to learn from this group, as I have continual problems with setting goals. I seem to often find myself in situations that resemble a race where the finish line is always being moved, and I'm hoping to move forward into a different way of being. Thanks for the welcom and I'm looking forard to learning from all in this group. Carmen.
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Hi Pisces
Thanks so much for the welcome. What a wonderful ideal for a group. I have joined many groups i can`t keep up up with them. I afraid that i am just going too remove some of groups. I am sorry that i have too. i won`t remove this group. lol.
Hugs Arlene *hugs* *hugs* *hugs*
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Glad you joined us & thanks for staying with us! lol
Joanne... Im glad youre staying with us too lol As far as the reverse threads go, unless we get an overwhelming response from members requesting them to be reversed, I think we'll keep them this way. Most groups I have been to do not reverse the threads.
I have been reading through previous posts and topics - how long is the period of time before someone is considered inactive? I wondered because sometimes I don't have anything to say....... *hmmm*
Nice to meet you and thank you for your contributions already!
Its nice to hear from the members but we dont require you to post more often than you have time for Just happy to have you as part of the group, hopefully picking up some info on the way, and maybe posting when you we hit on your area of expertise
I just saw that 7 new members had been waiting for approval to join the group. I forgot I had it set that way. Im so sorry for not responding sooner Welcome new members & thank you Lonni for inviting most of you!
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Hi! I just joined this group, and wanted to say that I think it is a great idea. I feel like I have finally defined my goals and am willing to work toward them, but being the worst sort of procrastinator, I could definitely use all the tips and support that I can get! Thanks!
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Greetings from a Newby... September 07, 2005 9:22 PM
Hey everyone! Just wanted to stop by and say for letting me be a part of this group. I've had to deal with a lot in the past 18 months and it's good to feel like some out there care...
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to the group Michelle. It is good to see you here and I am working on more for the diabetes topic.Look around. Pisces has posted a lot of good information.
Amy, Svetlana and Mike. Good to see so many friendly faces. Pisces has done a terrific job with this group and hope that you find lots of useful and helpful information - she sure has posted a lot on here. If you have questions about diabetes, hopefully I will be able to answer them for you. For now I just wanted to add my welcome to all of you.
Came across this group after checking out your profile page (because you & I are currently involved in a "word association" game in Transitions) LOL. And I see that we share a passion for health & wellness!