On a strictly sentimental and very external, superficial level the red hat may seem helpful. Unfortunately the problem runs a whole lot deeper. The received wisdom of the culture is unbalanced. Whether people accept any divinity or not in their lives, it's going to influence them in many ways. There is a patriarchal bent that does not serve us well at all. This is because for the last five thousand years people have told each other that God is the Supreme Controller, the omnipotent one, the almighty, all powerful Supreme Being. It is worth noting, however, that there is someone more powerful than God. That's the Goddess. As luck would have it, however, She was shanghaied, abducted and whisked off into the world of the occult fifty centuries ago. It's all been downhill ever since. The Goddess is more powerful than God because She can control Him with Her love. Without knowing this we can only expect continued trouble in this world.