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Feng Shui for Family Happiness April 07, 2006 3:53 PM

When you stand at your front door looking into your home, what is the sense you have of the left center portion of your home? This is the family center of the map of your home in feng shui. Is it clean? Cluttered? What is its story?

 

Most of us want to ensure that the feng shui family section of our homes promotes harmony and happiness, and here are the age-old recommendations for doing just this:

 

I was horrified to realize that the family section of my home is a porch where I stored the garbage in the winter. It was piled with boxes, bottles, and containers that needed to be stored for recycling! I’ve since worked on it using many of the traditional feng shui fix-it recommendations. In my case, the family section of my home is outdoors on a porch and sub-freezing for many months of the year so it took some creative problem-solving.

 

The goal for the family center is to orchestrate your relationship with current family, your ancestry, lineage, and even a more global sense of family such as religious or political icons, if they are important to you.

 

Elements

Wood and Water.

 

Suggestions:  Photos of family members in wooden frames; fresh flowers in water; a water fountain; wooden furniture; a bowl of stones in water; a potted tree. Mirrors are considered water in feng shui, so a carefully placed mirror could benefit.

 

For me, because the space is outside, I put art work that family members have done on the porch, such as a sculpture done by my mother, and a stone painted by my daughter. I hung a a heart-shaped wreath in the space. The best fix was when I realized that because the porch looked out onto a beautiful black birch forest (lots of wood), that if I put a mirror on the wall facing the forest, I would bring the wood from the forest right into the space, and the mirror would represent water. In the summer I will put a water fountain there, too.

 

Color

Green

Second choices are black and blue.

 

Suggestions:  Plants! Other suggestions are green pillows, upholstery, etc.

 

Please contribute your family section feng shui fixes!

 

 

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 April 08, 2006 7:11 PM

Wow.  I had to think about it a moment before I came up with two words -- empty and unused.  Damage from Hurricane Wilma means we lost most of our furniture, and what's left still needs to be replaced.  Despite all the personal items still in the room and its cleanliness, it's...  stark and barren.  Granted, it's a huge space and requires the replacement of furniture, which is money we don't have just yet.  However, it's something I'll have to work on as soon as I can.  It's terribly depressing realize how unwelcoming the heart of our home is.
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Home April 09, 2006 7:08 AM

The left center of my home has a wall that includes a closet/door.  Right now I have a four-paned, wooden framed window that I've recycled and painted in bright colors hanging on the wall, with a woven trunk on the floor below it.

I think that I will move my family photos there, interspersed with several small mirrors.  I've asked my recently retired Dad to teach me some woodworking - so I think one of my first projects will be a slender table to go under the photos so that I have room for my small fountain, statue of Quan Yin and collection of crystals and stones.  The statue is currently holding some dried ferns - it's the perfect time of the year to replace those with a couple of the tulips that are blooming in my yard!

I love this - I've been looking at my home with new eyes recently, and was wondering what to do with this space (among others).  My major project right now, with spring gardening delayed because of the weather, is clearing out clutter.  Even my kids are committed to helping, and we've been discussing feng shui principles!

Blessings!

Cynthia H

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Exactly where is LEFT CENTER!? April 19, 2006 4:42 PM

The very left from the front door is the dining area, and a little to it's right, the middle of the house is a fireplace, then after that to the far rifgt is a sliding glass door to the back yard. If it is the fireplace, it has a glass door on it, and a large nice painting of a place in France above it. I don't know what I am suppose to do!? Tammy  [ send green star]  [ accepted]
 
a square -- start there April 19, 2006 4:56 PM

imagine your house as a square, and your door

at the bottom of it. What is in the middle of the

left side on the far left? that is the family sector.

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 April 20, 2006 4:44 AM

I have a book called

FENG SHUI, The Traditional Oriental Way to Enhance Your Life.

It is pretty good. It tells you a lot from how to choose what house or apartment to buy or rent to how to arrange your furniture in each room. It talks about gardening too and also has lists of the little quick fixes. It also tells you how feng shui works and a bit of the history of it all.

It even came with a feng shui compass

~natalie~

by, Stephen Skinner

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 April 20, 2006 4:46 AM

yeah, it's by Stephen Skinner (on the bottom of the post, I guess I started typing in between without realizing )  [ send green star]  [ accepted]
 
Feng Shui April 20, 2006 9:44 AM

I've read a little bit about Feng Shui but don't really know much about it.  When I stand in my Living Room front door, in the very middle to the left is a wooden coffee table that always has fresh flowers on it, then the next thing you see after the coffee table is the Entertainment Center with the t.v.  Over the entertainment center is a picture of the garden of the Governor of Virginias Mansion.  It's a very pleasing picture and there is a glass shelf with silk flowers on it and glass votives with candles between the picture and the shelf. On top of the Entertainment Center is a brass bowl which contains potpouri, then there's a few other items on top.  To the far left is the fireplace and Mantel which has a large mirror hung over it.  On the mantel are pictures of family in wooden frames and some wooden cats and a wooden box.  There are two chairs on either side of the fire place and the rest of the furniture is in an L shape, with the coffee table in the center.  The wall on the right has a piano against it, which means you walk into the room and go between the piano and the back of a Love seat.  Does this sound okay or should I try to do something different?  Sorry this is so long, but how can I learn if I don't describe it in as much detail as possible?  Thank you, Shirley Ballard  [ send green star]  [ accepted]
 
sounds lovely April 20, 2006 10:26 AM

Your family center sounds lovely-- the

real question is how does it make you feel?

Adjust according to what you really think

of it!

Best,

Annie

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Wow April 25, 2006 9:21 AM

I took a long look at the left centre of my house, finding out I was doing a pretty good job.  My room is the living room, I have green, ( my favorite color)  I also have a cactus, so I guess you would consider this a treed potted plant.  I also have other plants, for more green and everything is place spaciously.  I have just put my babies pictures up, so there is another option.  The only thing that gets clutter from time to time in that rooom is the kids toys, but we are all learning to keep that area clean.  I still would like to put a water concept in that room. With the cats and kids maybe not.  Maybe rocks with water??? I will have to think about it.   [ send green star]  [ accepted]
 
Far Left Center by Compass or Choice? February 01, 2007 8:20 AM

Fung Shui is fascinating and I have read some books and articles on it. I am confused, though, because this article uses the front door of the home as the starting point, and traditional Fung Shui uses a compass to find East, the family space. Using the front of my house for orientation, the far left center is my drive way. Not very exciting? I have an outside chair by the door, and a pot of flowers and hanging basket in the summer. I also park my blue van there. My garage door is white. Should I paint something on it? If I go by the compass, my family room is in the east space, and I have a brown leather L shaped sofa on a beige carpet with off white walls and a lot of paintings I did on the walls, and some photos of family. A marble coffee table is in the middle piled up with reference books and knick-knacks. I have a black TV piled up with more decorative statutes. I have a black Chinese table with a black and gold Chinese lamp on it beside a black reclining chair and next to that is a brown stereo cabinet that is loaded with family photos and knick-knacks. There are two small book cases. What impression does it make? A lot of interesting things, but cluttered with treasures and with all the furniture it feels kind of cramped. It certainly looks lived in. How does it make me feel? Like I wish I had more space, but I don't know what to do with all my stuff. I love each item individually. Oh, using the system in the article, my living room would be in the northwest space. Can you help clarify things for me? Thanks.  [ send green star]  [ accepted]
 
anonymous  February 01, 2007 10:01 AM

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 February 01, 2007 6:27 PM

Annie B. I must say I am lost to.....when I walk into my front door to the left is a window, meaning??? I would like to understand this a lot better.....thanks, Debbie  

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