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2 years ago
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Webster defines home as a place of one's residence, a familiar or usual setting, a place of origin.  But is it something much more intangible than that? 

What defines home to you, a place, a person, or pehaps just a feeling?

2 years ago

When I am in the deepest meditation and that sense of my body has disappeared and I feel such an incredible warmth of Divine love envelop my entire soul, this is when I feel home. I wish I could meditate this deep daily!

I also feel so much at home when I am near the ocean or a river or mountain lake.

2 years ago
I have moved more times than I care to count.
Home is where my friends are.


2 years ago
I too have moved many times, but all places within the same 50 mile radius.  And I'm still looking for my true home.
2 years ago
There are some things that we do not realize the importance of until they are not there.  Mostly it is our relationships.  Can you imagine what life would be like if you were suddenly living thouseands of miles away from everyone you know.  All those little things you didn't take much notice of suddely have a lot more meaning an value.
Home is feeling 'this is where I belong.'  It is not neccessarlity a permenant thing.  Appleton is my home currently.  That may change after I finish school.
I heard an amusing quote recently.  "Friends are the difunctional family that we choose."  I do not know who it is originally by.  My friends may not be perfect, but they are real friends and that is important to me.

2 years ago

I am trying to think of where I feel at home...  There are actual places of comforting energy in the world, and since I have moved here and there in my life, I can actually recognise what feels 'like a home' and what or where, does not.

And then I discovered, what I can do, that can actually make a place feel like home...  and I plop my meditation cushion down, and smile.

anyplace where I feel comfortable enough to meditate - I am home.

OM Shanti

Anonymous
Home? LOL :D
2 years ago
Home I also searched for the elusive "home" all my life and realised I only found home when I gained an inner peace and connection with all around me. A connection with Earth and all living things.. and an odd sense of understanding of everything and everyone around brings an odd smile to my face and a realisation that your always home. But not only this but I think I also found this feeling of "home" .. of connection to wherever I am at any moment is when I finally let go of ego and desires. Kind of an acceptance of what you really are and then you can start to accept everything around you and fall in love with life itself ... (LOL.. trying my hardest to explain the feeling) then I felt home every day no matter where I am in the world a very peaceful and pure happy feeling.. like you can see a stranger but feel like you accept and understand everyone they do not feel a stranger more of just a friend you have not met or just another human you care for and may not need to meet but respect in any case and are just happy to be alive. An odd feeling but the best thing that ever happend to me. It was a painful huge journey to get to that place and LOL I think there was many events and continous acceptances and battles I faced within to get there but through meditation and continued learning I wish to always have that fabulous feling of not only being home but feeing very alive. I wish everyone can get to know what that feels like one day because you also finally feel very free and at peace. Im not better than anyone else, Im just an ordanary girl however through acceptance and learning even I have this amazing feeling of peace. EVERYONE HAVE A BEAUTIFUL WEEK! Juliaanna

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2 years ago
For me home is somewhere were i feel happy and comfortable and thanks god my home is really that place!But i think i could feel home evrywhere!You just must find your peace...
2 years ago
Wherever I am, I am always at home, within myself.
2 years ago
Well, it was a combination of (physically) this house, and(heart n soul) the town my man lives in - which are on opposite sides of the planet! Soon it may just be a tent...
2 years ago

Sande, you have no idea how much I can relate to what you just said. 

I recently read something
2 years ago
about a family that lived in an RV and was constantly on the move.  They did not know what scene they would awaken to each morning.  How exciting!

As I thought this through, it was about our hanging onto material 'things' and how we can be grounded in ourselves, even as our shelter moved on.  Most of us, me included, are very grounded people who choose to have a home and surroundings.  Most of us like some creature comforts, even those who limit their accumulated material goods.  Some of us are even pack rats who collect so many things.

There is a saying...Home is where the heart is!

Our hearts are the place we can attune to the spirit within and without in our search for spirituality.  The rest can be trappings of a material life.

God bless, J
2 years ago

Because of my occupation I travel allot, Live in Hotels, RVs, Tents, etc ie whatever is available. Thus to me home is not a phyical place, it is an emotional and spiritual place. Home is where my wife and kids are and home is where I can be myself and talk with my maker.  

Rob

2 years ago
Sande and subhadra, I am sorry for your loss.  I can relate.  A year ago I lost what I thought was supposed to be my house and home too. 

2 years ago
They say home is where the heart is. God is in your heart. So you're always home. OM TAT SAT
Anonymous
Home to me
2 years ago

Home to me is when I go to my "House" after work, go immediately to get my lil friend Swirrel the Squirrel from her cage and take her outside and enjoy her antics and romping in the grass, never going to far away from my side, letting me know she loves me and showing me she is happy to be with me outside. She sneezes at me when she approves of something or looks lovingly into my eyes and climbs my shoulder to nibble my ear or give me kisses. Sometimes she will just sit in my hands and wrap her hands around my fingers and pull them under her chin, lol. She is home to me. She is everything to me, she is my life, my love,my happiness. They say nothing good comes from a  hurricaine, well, she came from one and she came to be with me and my family and she is home,.

MM

Anonymous
home?
2 years ago

Life is a journey, not a destination. Home is where you are for the moment , wherever it may be. it is not physical, it is spiritual. lift up your spirit, be happy and be at home with yourself.

MM

looking for my home
2 years ago
i too, am looking for my home. where i live does not feel like my home. i want to run away from this home since my family can not let me live in peace. I live with my boyfriend and my sister lives in the same building as me and i feel like running and i want to run. But i feel trapped and i'm no longer happy in my home. How can i find this home that i could love?
Anonymous
2 years ago
I am most at home in the woods.  I always have been, even as a child I spent most of my time outside.  Being confined indoors is very hard for me...I feel the most peace under the trees.
2 years ago
Home is where Krishna wants me to be.  I will know I'm home when I get there.
HOME
2 years ago

Home is where there is "Love" everywhere with everyone and everything.  Home is where you feel safe to live and love to sing and dance.  Home is where you have the sense of belonging.

A building or a house is not home.  A building or a house become a home when you find love everywhere and in everyone.  You will be able to see love in others and other things only when you have in you the love.

You are in love when you are in the Truth that is in your own very nature and that is Love.  Love is God, God is Truth.

Krishna is you and you are Krishna.  Krishna is one - inseperably one.  You love Krishna as no one will sing and play with you Like Krishna.  He will take away your clothes, he will take away your butter and he will with his pranks make you cry, but still you love Krishna.

You are Krishna and Krishna is you.  Any dispute on it?

As in Chapter IV in Srimad Bhagavat Gita "Completely rid of passion, fear and anger, wholly absorbed in Me, depending on Me, and purified by the penance of wisdom, many have become one with Me even in the past."

Be one with Krishna and be Krishna.  Sing and dance and be at home.

Hare Krishna Hare Krishna, Krishna Krishna Hare Hare;

Hare Rama Hare Rama, Rama Rama Hare Hare.

A.C.Bhaktivedanta Swami Prabhupada - Bhagavad-gita 4.10
2 years ago

Being freed from attachment, fear and anger, being fully absorbed in Me and taking refuge in Me, many, many persons in the past became purified by knowledge of Me—and thus they all attained transcendental love for Me.
2 years ago
home ===> is where i can be myself and be safe...is with someone who loves all of me....is a feeling of happiness, comfort, and contentedness....

This is my HOME....
2 years ago

Are we schizophrenias?

Our lower mind wants to enjoy the color of this world. Our higher mind doesn’t want to play anymore. It wants only Him. Our higher mind want to be pure and simple, still our life becomes often more complicated due to our lower mind. It is hard to control the mind. Only those who take full shelter in the cosmic father are able to overcome the play of Maya.

With the help of pure ideation, selfless service and sacrifice we will be able to cross the ocean.

  Then we are home. 
2 years ago
...and when we really know how to please Him, we can play with Krishna. That's nice.
I truly feel
2 years ago
That my home is where I came from-in Northern Siberia.
Not only is it where my friends are
but it is where my HISTORY is---me as a person and my family, and my culture.
I feel like I belong there more than anywhere I have been.
Wow Ms Genesis...
2 years ago
That was fast. You don't kid around. You join, you post, you speak your mind. I like that. I'll tell you what I've been telling everyone else. I'm encouraging the people I care about the most, like friends and family, "Get out of Merika while you still can." There is going to be major crunch time in the states sooner than most people expect. You'd be better off in Siberia within the next few years for sure. After the dust has settled, the new super powers on the planet will be China, Russia and India. I'm leading an incredibly laid back kind of a fun life here in India and trying to get everyone I love to join me here.
Hey Sugar.... I'm really glad you're here
2 years ago
...and I'm glad you feel at home here. Now, quick... get back to three words and yes no... I'll be looking for you there
Anonymous
2 years ago
I can be "home" anywhere... it's just a question of getting in touch with the cosmos, and for that any place is good!
2 years ago

I have search for my home in the jungle, in the mountains, in the cities and everywhere. I did not find it. So I thought I was homeless in this world, which I gave up. Then I find my home this inside of my hearth. You were there. 

    

2 years ago
What defines home to you, a place, a person, or perhaps just a feeling?

Home is where I have lived for 49 years now. I actually bought a land beside my grandparents where I was raised. In the Mountains of Va. My peace is my garden where I raise most of my food. I have a small green house I sprout vegetable plants just for fun and give them to people to replant in their garden. I am a plant lover I feel a very closeness to God when I am in my garden working and watching what the Lord has blessed me with grow. Been around family and few friends all my life. Went to Dc. to live once for 3 months could take the city life couldn't Waite to come back to my haven. I have always been poor man but rich in God and the Lord  has always provided for me. I love Beagles I have 6 right now. We have geese, ducks, chickens, praying doves and angel pigeons. I have a lot to keep me busy and I love them all. I love the deer and all the animals hear around where I live. Real love and peace is my garden and animal friends I feel closest to God when I am in my little world I call home. God bless you all Michael
2 years ago
Pretty nearly everyone else has lost it Michael. Sounds like you're still living the American Dream. I grew up on a farm like the one you're describing. All your many children and adopted foster kids certainly are fortunate to be raised in such a beautiful place in a family headed up by a good man who loves the Lord. More and more that's become a rare thing in today's modern hectic work-a-day world where most people have to punch a clock and spend the whole day in some hellish factory. The farm I grew up on is no more. The banks forclosed on it and pretty nearly all of the farms in that area. Now people in little tacky houses live side by side, don't even know each other, and commute to pointless useless jobs that they all hate, to work for bosses they despise. It's the rat race. They're all ready for another Terrorist Event. It'll make their lives more bearable. At least it will make their lives more interesting and they may even get to know their neighbors when they lose all their "things" and have to learn to cooperate with real people in order to survive.
2 years ago
In other words, everyone in America has become helpless, heartless, godless and homeless. They depend on the government for too much. They are afraid of their own shadow, they know nothing about God and they live in apartments, divisions, trailer parks and actually more and more are literally out on the street without a roof over their heads or a place to call their own. This is why I now call America, Merika. Merika rhymes with naraka, the Sankskrit word for hellish.
2 years ago
Sarvo its really sad the way the world has become I feel for people. I am uneducated I had to start working at 12 to survive if it weren't for my grand parents I would have been on the street also probably. My grandfather always said it wasn't what you made but how you manage what you have the Lord has given you. So being content with what I have God has blessed me. Happiness is the most important thing if we always struggle and try to keep up with the Jones we can never be happy or I cant anyway. When God made Adam and placed him in the garden to care for it. That should tell us something we don't need as much in life as we think we must have. God bless 
Bhagavad-gita As It Is 9.22
2 years ago
Chapter 9. The Most Confidential Knowledge

TEXT 22

ananyas cintayanto mam
ye janah paryupasate
tesam nityabhiyuktanam
yoga-ksemam vahamy aham

SYNONYMS

ananyah--no other; cintayantah--concentrating; mam--unto Me; ye--who; janah--persons; paryupasate--properly worship; tesam--their; nitya--always; abhiyuktanam--fixed in devotion; yoga-ksemam--requirements; vahami--carry; aham--I.

TRANSLATION

But those who worship Me with devotion, meditating on My transcendental form--to them I carry what they lack and preserve what they have.

PURPORT

One who is unable to live for a moment without Krsna consciousness cannot but think of Krsna twenty-four hours, being engaged in devotional service by hearing, chanting, remembering, offering prayers, worshiping, serving the lotus feet of the Lord, rendering other services, cultivating friendship and surrendering fully to the Lord. Such activities are all auspicious and full of spiritual potencies; indeed, they make the devotee perfect in self-realization. Then his only desire is to achieve the association of the Supreme Personality of Godhead. This is called yoga. By the mercy of the Lord, such a devotee never comes back to this material condition of life. Ksema refers to the merciful protection of the Lord. The Lord helps the devotee to achieve Krsna consciousness by yoga, and when he becomes fully Krsna conscious the Lord protects him from falling down to a miserable conditioned life.

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2 years ago
Michael, unfortunately there are less and less people like you around these days. People have become very hard hearted and disappointed in their lives. You however seem to maintain a sense of thankfulness and gratitude to God. This the very essence of Bhakti Yoga.

‘Bhakti Yoga,’ the yoga of gratitude. Have you
ever noticed that when you have gratitude, you’re always happy. But if you don’t have gratitude, it doesn’t matter how many material things you have, you’re never satisfied?

I find that if I can even remind myself to be grateful for even the air I breathe it helps me be happier about a lot of things. Conversely there's no limit to how frustrated and sad I can become if I dwell on all the things I think I want or figure I need in order to be happy.

There are so many different kinds of yoga. There's kundalini, yoga, kriya yoga, raja yoga, hatha yoga, astanga yoga and the list goes on and on. The thing that really sets bhakti yoga off from most other yoga systems is the emphasis on consciousness and a mood of service. To really enter into a mood of bhakti or service it definitely helps to cultivate a stong sense of gratitude. It's easier for me to do something for someone if I recognize how they're doing a lot for me. So this is the key crucial fundamental part of bhakti that gives it so much potency. Most importantly I have to remember that I have a personal relationship with God and Jesus, not some vague hazy alliance with a field of power or some limitless light. God is the Supreme Being. To the degree I really know that, I increase my chance to achieve my full potential as a human being and am less driven to be a human doing. I become motivated by divine love and less victimized by fear and anger.
2 years ago
But think of Krsna twenty-four hours, being engaged in devotional
service by hearing, chanting, remembering, offering prayers,
worshiping, serving the lotus feet of the Lord, rendering other
services, cultivating friendship and surrendering fully to the Lord.
God is where happiness is 24 hours a day. There is no other way to fine happiness in life except in Krsna praise his Holy name.
2 years ago
When I was small I felt home was with my family, in their house, in their presence.

When we moved and seperated I thought home was with mother, in her house in her presence. 

When she abandoned me I felt I had no home..eventhough I was given a foster home.  I realized home was more than a place to sleep.

As time passed I told myself I didn't need a home.  I had myself.  I said home is where I am, eventhough it never felt like home. 

Then I had a daughter...and home truly was where ever we were.  A car, a bench, or a floor in a hospital...it was home because I was in her presence.

Time went on and I had a whole family.  Now home to me is in the presence of my family where ever they are.  So home is where I am...and in the presence of those I love. 
Dody
2 years ago
I am glad you found a home with the love you have given to your children and a great bond.
All foster children have a bond with there family.
Its vary hard and no wonder there so bitter and mad at the whole world. And the seam to take it out on their foster parents. It does rely take the love of God to help them get through. If we realize God adopted us in to his loving arms and family. We should treat people and children with the love of God in our hearts. God bless Michael
2 years ago
My home, I feel, is literally pulling at my consciousness, from somewhere else, though I haven't found it yet.  I live with my mother, currently, and it definitely doesn't feel like home, as much as I love her and my 2 younger bros.

When I was a teen, on Long Island, NY, I always felt like I needed to be elsewhere, no matter where I was.  The anxiety was maddening, but, I could never pick a direction.  It got more intense, until finally, I followed my mother down to Florida, so I could help her out. 
Now, my mother has gotten to a point where I doubt she needs my help much, and the anxiety has returned, again.

There are times when I can almost feel the environment I'm being called to, and I think it may be near the ocean.  So, when I'm able, I have a feeling I'll be heading west, to Mexico's gulf.  If the pattern of this feeling has anything to it, then that's where I need to be.

So, I guess for me, home is wherever the universe sends me. 
2 years ago
I wish I knew!!!!!  When I have been depressed lately I have a sense of "wanting to go home" but I don't know where that is.  Probably because it isn't a place, home is a feeling.
2 years ago

I have left earthly home. My home is spread out across the universe.

How synchonistic this discussion is!
2 years ago

No place I have ever been has been home - my soul has always needed to keep moving, much to the consternation of family.  At this very moment I am selling 99% of my material possessions with the intent of leaving Costa Rica and returning to the States. 

Sarvo, I noted that you feel we should, "get out of Dodge", so that going to the States is walking into the jaws of danger.  I refuse to let my choices or decisons be fear based as to where I am located.  I know that I will be where I am supposed to be, if I have gone to the place destroyed by chaos or calamity that is perfect.  When it is time to cross the veil, where I am is where I should be. 

Every possession that walks out of the door breaks another link in the chains that bind me.  This exercise of "letting go is so liberating.  The intention once I am free of the possessions that have possessed me, is to go on the road, whether by bus or train.  My preference would be a Dodge Sprinter Cargo Van - I have obviously been surfing the net! 

I should love to volunteer for Hospice in hospitals along the way.  As a registered nurse I did Hospice before, however, as a volunteer I might have more opportunity to bring the light to terminal patients.  I would say that is a more real sense of home.  In this endeavor is ask your prayers and support.  I might add here that I am now in my 8th decade of this lifetime, Glory Be!  What joy!

2 years ago
Violette I wish you a wonderful journey, I am so impressed with your desire to work with terminally ill people, that is truly a wonderful thing to do.  Oh....I think I just worked out where home is and it is not here in Portugal but in France.....because that is where I am needed.  Now just have to work out how to make that happen!
2 years ago

Violette, I am so inspired by you!  I am also in the process of walking away from all my earthly possesions (well, I am taking some things, on does need a certain amount of essentials for life) but hopefully I won't be tempted to take superficial items.   And I'm only in my 5th decade of life.  I can only hope to have your passion and wisdom when I get to be your age.  My prayers will be with you on your travels.

Hare Krsna, Subhadra

2 years ago

This world is a mad house. It is not my home any more. It has even past the stage of degeneration. So now I only shelter is You.

2 years ago

But I start to realize why You are playing this crazy drama. We all have to surrender all our desires. It did not give us infinite happiness. We will see that we want only You.   



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Devamitra
2 years ago
How fascinating, when I was a student with the Society for Ascension my sanskrit name was Mitra.  Anyway, dear heart, my soul has always directed me to be mobile.  Even as a toddler the moment I learned the world did not only exist in my limited sphere, and that there were towns and cities beyond, my soul knew it would go beyond these boundaries.  Where I am is not based on happiness, I do not seek happiness from the external - it is never outside of us.  My peace and connection to Source is within, and my bliss is in service.
2 years ago

A friend just gave me a great definition of home.  Home is the place you never have to leave.

And yes, I might be home now.  I'm certainly quite happy here.

Home
2 years ago
Home...for so long I felt that I had no place to call my home. My father was in the Navy and so we moved alot. The only semi home I had was at my grandparents in upstate NY. But, finally I have come to realize that I have always had a home waiting for me and that I have finally found it...both with my Rick and with the knowledge that God has always been with me. One of my favorite works has always been "Footprints". But, until the last few years I never trully understood how true the words really were.
2 years ago
Home for me is my little trailer out in the country. Where all my animals can run and play.  Where I feel safe and loved and I don't have to leave, unless I quit paying the taxes and they force me to....
2 years ago

I found my "Home" seven years ago,here in a small sleepy little mountain village of Puerto Rico,It is not over developed or over populated  We (my family) live a simple life and I can connect with and enjoy the many blessings of nature.I feel for all I may not have in regard to money and possessions holds no bearing on my wealth for I am blessed each day that I wake to the gentle  breeze that the bamboo trees creak and slowly sway with,which I call the bamboo ballet,and the sight of the horses,cows & sheep in the surrounding mountains,in the evening's that I sit up on the roof listening to the coqui's familiar song amazed at how very close the star's appear and how I can see the twinkling lights of villages a great distance away I know I am home and there is no place I would rather be.



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Anonymous
2 years ago
Wow! Thank you all for sharing where home is or isn't for you! I enjoyed reading the thread very much.

For me, it's difficult to answer the question. I feel most at home when and wherever I'm alone and sensing myself completely. I also feel at home reminding myself of death. Unlike many people, I look forward to dying. I want to be conscious when I pass over, so I practice being fully conscious a lot.

Sarvo, your statement about your laid back life in India is intriguing. What nice situation have you found for yourself? I agree that life in America is about to turn pretty sour, but I'm not thinking that everyone here is as you describe. There are good people here -- spiritual people here. Wisdom is needed here as much as anywhere.
Home
2 years ago
It feels like home to me when I find groups of people like those I have found here who understand the depth of the Spirit.  When we are together in spirit, we are home.

Sarvo is a man of great wisdom.  Many of you here are wise in the ways of the Spirit.  It is an honor to find you.

Love, Hope, Peace, & Christ Be With You,

Cal-el

2 years ago

I was born in a very small town. My parents were well known and respected. My Dad was a mason, a deacon in the church, and ran 3 lead and zinc mines thru most of WW2. Dad had been a pitcher on a minor baseball team before he was hurt in the mines. I had an older brother and lots of relatives in the small town. I was very happy and at home. Then for reasons unknown to me, my dad quit working in the mines and went to work in the rubber plant and it was very hard on him. My parents decided we would go to california as soon as my brother and I got out of school. I finished the third grade there at home.  The family came back briefly about 6 months later and my parents sold the house. I took my dolls, beds and dress up clothes to the little girl next door as we couldn't take much. We left everything, friends, school, knowing who I was and where I was going.  it broke my heart.   I have never been at home again. But later I understood why we had to move. My dad was getting spots on his lungs from working in the mines. So many of the men in town had died of black lung disease that dad got  out because he wanted to spend lots of years with us, his family.

Since then I have moved around a lot. we lived in Calif for 14 years. I was married to a service man and we moved around a lot. But my dad got ill and we needed to move out of the polluted enviroment of the Southern California area, So we moved to Oregon. My husband and 2 kids made the move and my brother and his family did also. Later, more and more of our relatives came to live in the Oregon area. Again, we lived in a small town, a rural town.  I had another child, took part in the school and community doins,became divorced after my children were grown and moved in with my mother after my father passed away. then after being in Oregon for 44 years, 25 of those years were with my mother. I took care of her as she had Alzheimers. My Brother decided he was going to take care of mom. Things were a bit chaotic for a week or so, and my youngest son came to help me leave. He shipped those items that I wanted to take with me, such as my paintings ( I enjoyed painting) and some household items. I didn't need much as I was going to live with my children 3 or 4 months a year in each home.

But for the second time in my life I left everything behind, friends, friends of my children whom I had watched grow up, doctors, insurance agents I had been with for years. And moved to the other side of the world, to Virginia. Since the first 2 years I moved around so often, I made no friends of my own, Had no church that was mine! Homeless again.

But I do look forward to passing over. Always hoping it will be my real home and I won't have the need to leave there again.

with love, Genelda 

2 years ago
My father survived the Great Depression and WWII and became bitterly cynical about life and people in general. Many times I would hear him say, "The chickens are coming home to roost and it's time to push the button." He was not a happy man. I see, however, that the last best hope for Mother Earth is somehow assembling right here in Care2 and the creme de la creme is making itself at home right here in Care2Guru.
home is not
2 years ago
a structure with four walls and a roof.  it is deep within yourself, in your heart.  that is where my home is.  over the years i have felt a deep affinity with water, the ocean.  that is where i have finally settled my physical being and accompanied by my spiritual home within, i am HOME.

peace, loght and love to all
namaste,
sandy
2 years ago
there are some really amazing stories on here, thanks for sharing. Genelda's really moved my heart a lot.

home to me is a place I can relax and feel unfettered even though I'm inside a physical structure.  to me, it's just a house unless there are cats in it.... then it's a home.  *grinning*

on the deeper level, though, I've come to recognize a difference between my soul home on this planet and my physical home.  I usually live in California, which is my physical home -- although I'm increasingly comfortable wherever I am, on the planet.  but my soul's home is in South India, at a holy site where I spent many years in deep meditation. 

Alx
Anonymous
Home is my tue nature
2 years ago
To me home is uncovering my Buddha nature and being my true self. It is resting in the pure mind or perhaps we could say the " big mind" instead of the "small mind." Others may call it "God" but I prefer to call it Buddha nature which is the essence of all things.When I meditate I feel as if I am going home.
A Song I Wrote Last Year
2 years ago
Spread Your Love     by Cal Jennings
 
Ki, Chi, The Source, The Force, are just  
Different names for God.
It's Really very simple,
But to you in may seem odd.
 
It's through the Holy spirit
That God spreads Jesus love.
So evr'yone let's all join hands
And spread peace from above.
 
The world is flled with hatred and war,
Greed, lust, violence, and sin.
We've got to fight a spiritual war
That only comes from within.
 
So if you call God Allah,
Buddah, Krishna, or Id,
It's time to come together in peace.
It's about time that we did.
 
Refrain:
 
Spread your love throughout the world.
Let your light shine bright.
It's time to break the darkness
And turn on our inner light.
 
Copyright © 2006  by Cal Jennings 
2 years ago

I think I was trying to explain that a house is not a home. To me it was my family and extended family. I had grandmothers all over town, because my parents mother's had passed away before I was born. My first grade teacher was the same one that my dad had for first grade. We all called our Pastor "Brother Smith". I didn't know it was an address of respect and love To me it was his name. He and his wife were a large part of my life to that point When they came to our house for Sunday dinner, we always had the most delicious fried chicken. I had a cousin who loved fried chicken and decided he would be a pastor when he grew up because he loved the fried chicken. I think everyone in town had Fried chicken when the pastor came.  The next door lady was one of my grandmothers. I called her Mimmie. I have been told It was my way of saying her name "Mrs Miller" when I first started to talk.  But by the time I was 6years old, the whole town called her "mimmie". And everyone knew she was "MY" Mimmie.  Her husband, whom I also loved dearly, was injured in the mines and died inthe hospital when I was about 4 or 5. In those days the deceased was put in his casket and brought home for a couple of days before the funeral. I well remember going next door and into the dining room where the casket was. No one else was there, so I climbed up on a chair so I could reach into the casket. I pleaded with him to get up because laying there sleeping was making Mimmie cry. I remember putting my hand over his. and his hand was very cold. But he wouldn't get up , and my mom came in and picked me up and told me that he couldn't get up, but he loved me. Hmmm, I am not doing any better with words than I did the first time. What made it home was the town the people  the love the belonging. I had an Aunt. She was the sister of my dad's borther's wife. But she was quite religious. Sometimes God would tell her to go off and talk to someone. She would leave her house work as it was..if she had started laundry it just was left. Sometime later if another neighbour came in to speak to her and saw the laundry waiting, they would rung the load in the washer thru the wringer into the rinse water and put another load in. This would continue all day if she was gone that long until when she did get home the laundry would be all done and folded and out on her bed. It wasn't put away because no one would get into your drawers or closets. It wasn't proper. But when she got home, she would praise the Lord for finishing her laundry. It was that kind of atmosphere, that kind of love. It was the whole community that made it home.

And a lot of years later in Oregon, it was again the friends and neighbours the giving, sharing and careing that made it home. It was all my friends from the company I had retired from. It was leaving my mother. I also left my pet dog because mom needed him as a companion without me there. It was leaving behind some of my dearly loved relatives. It was belonging and being needed and respected, mostly the love as in Cal's song

with love, Genelda

Anonymous
Where is home?
2 years ago
Cal, Great lyrics! I think there's always a problem with trying to clothe the absolute, the ground of being, the unconditioned, the unformed, God, nirvana etc into words or concepts. Absolute truth is beyond all words and concepts - yet can be realised in silence.
2 years ago
It really does help to know that the Absolute Truth is the Supreme Personality and everything comes from consciousness.
Song
2 years ago
Thanks, Geraint, though the lyrics were given through Spirit rather than creative thought.  Perhaps instead of "I wrote" I should say "we wrote" or "He wrote."  It feels wrong for me to take credit.

Love, Hope, Peace, & Christ Be With You,

Cal-el

2 years ago

To me the keyword in this question is: FAMILY. Where is my family, there is my home.

I have 3 home , I live in a house with my closed family (husband , and my 2 sons) but I feel myself at home in my mother's flat and my grandma's flat too. In these homes I feel myself loved and I feel myself comfortable.

2 years ago
I have always felt most ' at home ' in nature. Rain, snow whatever.
Looking up seeing a roof as vast as I feel.
I have family, a good sized one, and they are a home to me also, but my children never belonged to me, they belong to themselves and their beliefs. So home becomes I feel what we bring to wherever we are. It is a radinace form within that warms whatever dwelling we may be in at the moment.
We take it wherever I beleive.

WithIn Love

Darrell

michelle
2 years ago
oh boy michelle, i am packing my few belongings, not paying the rent and i am headed your way.  you have made your home sound sooo serene and peaceful and beautiful.  i want to be there. 

may you find light, peace and abundant love in your most beautiful HOME.

namaste,
sandy
2 years ago
my body is my home , where i am living.
2 years ago
Bharat,  It's too bad you identify with your body.  Our bodies are only temporary vehichles while we are stuck on this planet.  My present body is not my home, it's just the covering I have for my eternal spirit soul this lifetime.  I'm not home yet, but I am hoping, with Krishna's mercy, that I will make it there.  I left there so very long ago and things have never been the same.  It's time to go home now.
I agree Bharat
2 years ago

Home is where the heart is... And the heart is in the body right now. Just as your conciousness is at the moment of typing...

Sure, you can 'float' and 'meditate' and 'transcent' to other realms and other awareness, but than... I can also say: "Sorry you ask for where your home is..." Since the word 'home' is also something 'we made up' to be 'something'.

Is it important to know 'where your home is'...? If so... Than you should also consider 'what your home is'... And how it influence who you are and what you vibrate and... On and on and on...

I'd say... Current home, Zaandam. Where I live. Bigger view: Current home, planet Earth. (I'm not that 'country minded').

Perhaps a better question would be: "What do you feel as your home...?" "What makes a home...?"

Anyway, I hope all of you can 'find' a place to call home. (Or have found a place to call home...)

Peace & Love!

Marc

2 years ago
thanks mark , you really understand what i mean ,
2 years ago

You and I have memories
Longer than the road that stretches out ahead

We're on our way home,
We're on our way home,
We're going home.

2 years ago
Your eternal home is in the spiritual world with the Supreme Lord, Sri Krishna. This temporary body can not bring any lasting peace or happiness.
2 years ago

GYANI SHREE SARVO,

       YOU HAVE ONLY ONE SOURSE TO REACH SUPREME LORD SHREE KRISHNA IS YOUR TEMPORARY BODY. THERE IS NO OTHER OPTION YOU HAVE.

Peace & Hapiness, subject to change...
2 years ago

"This temporary body can not bring any lasting peace or happiness."

But since I'm here now, I'm glad I can enjoy peace & hapiness... Even if THIS peace & hapiness is not for ever.

Some say, nothing lasts for ever...

I can say, the understanding of eternity, for me, is a lasting peace & hapiness for as long as my consciousness is aware of this understanding... If I 'evolve' to a higher consciousness I will most probably experience new and other forms of peace & hapiness. (Thus, you are right, it's not lasting... It's as all things, subject to change...)

Peace & Love!

Marc

2 years ago
The option that most people choose is to go through many of the 8,400,000 different kinds of bodies, be repeatedly caught up in the samsara cycle and practically never return to the spiritual world. Ideally, however, one will follow Bharata's very good advice and make this their last birth here in the material world and go back home, back to Godhead. This is the best use of human life and, as he says, is really our only sensible option.
2 years ago
Yes Marc, I can see with every one of your posts you are evolving to higher and higher levels of spiritual realization. 
2 years ago

i only know because of my body i will joint to supreme SHREE KRISHNA,

I JUST SURRENDER TO lord shree krishna.

 nice of you shree sarvo and mark, you have very high thinkings of life, i feel very nice with all of you.

2 years ago

Sandy, As long as you are not renting in tourist geared areas,or the over developed Golf Course communities,you can rent a house real cheap- the avarage rent for a three bedroom house is $300 a month!  

1 year ago

http://places.mongabay.com/south_america/pink_flowers.jpg

home feels most authentic, most real, for me, with ALLTHATIS.

great love, mercy, comfort, pleasure, experience, safety, and all kinds of simply fabulous things!  freedom from duality, ego and pain...aaahhhhh.

bb, ani 

1 year ago

Home...back home to Godhead, yes.  But on the physical plane, I am soon going "home".  I have never lived there before. In July I will finally move to France.  I have wanted in my heart to go for a year now and it seemed "against all odds"...so many obstacles in the way.  Suddenly so much has been changeing in my life and "impossible" things have happened..all to ease my passage to France.  It is unreal the way circumstances have contrived to get me there.  I don't know why, but I strongly feel that this is where God intends me to be...hopefully I will find out why when I get there! 

1 year ago

Lynn, that is so exciting.   God is in your heart, God directs your steps.  How absolutely wonderful!  Please keep us all posted on your exciting move.

1 year ago

I suspect that people like friends and family, the people that know Lynn the best; they can see that she's a pretty happy person. You know what? They're right about that.

Anonymous
Home
1 year ago

Follow......................Your Heart it's inside there                                          http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=48l8cI5kZ0c

Where is home?
1 year ago

Where is home? God is in your heart. You're there with God. God directs your steps. You don't have to worry. You have the secret to happiness. That's what home is. Home is where we can always be happy.

My Home Is Locked & Loaded City
1 year ago
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Dear Sakhi!
1 year ago

I like the icon/image (of a pathway leading higher and higher into heavens) you use to identify yourself with - it is so beautifully symbolic of one's inner journey to total freedom! I enjoy your posts very much.

May I copy & use this picture in my blogs, if need be, elsewhere (http://blog.360.yahoo.com/praveshksingh)?

Much love!
Pravesh

1 year ago

Almost a year ago, I packed up, walked away from my life, and moved into the temple in San Diego.  I thought I was home.  Now it seems like I am going to have to move from here.  Where is home?  Just when you think you find it, it changes.  Everything in this material world is temporary. 

1 year ago

Where are you going Subhadra? I am sure that will be home too.  I have moved around sooooooo much, home is where you make it!

Anonymous
1 year ago

 

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I always liked the saying, 'home is where you hang your hat,' lol. 
1 year ago

Love the photo Steve....I think I would be very at home there, a horshoe and a hat!  What more could I want?  Except, of course, the horse the shoe belongs to! 

1 year ago

as an 'indoctrinational' aside . . . .

'Home' from the word 'homage', a feudal ceremony by which a man 'humbles' himself as the servant or slave of a lord.

'Humble', to make humble in spirit or manner, to destroy power, independance or prestige.

1 year ago

I think it is from the Old German ham...meaning village.

humble is from the Latin humilis meaning humility in the spiritual sense.

Independance? It is spelt independence.

Pedantic?  Me?!!!!!

1 year ago

You're probably right. Webster's is a shyte dictionary . . .  what more can You expect from an upper crusty American Freemason?

The independance was mine, I'll dance rather than dence any chance I get.

1 year ago

She is right about "ham";in fact, ham is the Old English word for village, estate, etc. which may have its roots in Old German --hard to be sure with the Germanic languages.  You can probably think of many names of English towns and places that have "ham" in them even today.  Nottingham comes to mind.  Hamlet is derived from "ham," obviously.  I had to read stuff in Old English in college. 

1 year ago

Home is where I have been placed, it's a nice place.

1 year ago

Webster's is a shyte dictionary.

My last name is Webster

1 year ago

are You your dictionary?

1 year ago

Webster's . . . .

Main Entry: 1home  Pronunciation: ˈhōm Function: noun Etymology: Middle English hom, from Old English hām village, home; akin to Old High German heim home, Lithuanian šeima family, servants, Sanskrit kema habitable, keti he dwells, Greek ktizein to inhabit Date: before 12th century

Main Entry: hom·age   Pronunciation: ˈä-mij, ˈhä- Function: noun Etymology: Middle English, from Anglo-French homage, omage, from home man, vassal, from Latin homin-, homo human being; akin to Old English guma human being, Latin humus earth — more at humble Date: 14th century
1 a: a feudal ceremony by which a man acknowledges himself the vassal of a lord b: the relationship between a feudal lord and his vassal c: an act done or payment made in meeting the obligations of vassalage2 a: expression of high regard : respect —often used with pay b: something that shows respect or attests to the worth or influence of another : tribute <his long life filled with international homages to his unique musical talent — People>
1 year ago

look at that . . . .

home man = vassal

vassal = one in a subservient or subordinate position

1 year ago

Very interesting...and your point is?

1 year ago

not to buy into home ownership

1 year ago

Who said anything about having to OWN the place you call home???

1 year ago

Subhadra's initial post...................

 

"What defines home to you, a place, a person, or pehaps just a feeling?"

1 year ago

mother womb is best place for any soul where they feel most safe and comfort, home is place where you feel safe and most comfortable to breath.

1 year ago

Where are you going Subhadra?

Anonymous
1 year ago

Where my spirit is, is my home.

 

Has anyone heard from Genna PLEASE ?


Jenna hugs

1 year ago

Hi Jenna...no, I haven't heard either...have sent her a couple of messages but nothing.

1 year ago

Mahabala, I'm not sure where I am going right now.  Things are changing here in the San Diego temple, and it seems they are disbanding the woman's ashram.  So is this my chance to get to India?  Maybe.  I have a few different options, maybe I should just come back to Chicago, huh?  I'll let everyone know when I find my destination.

Anonymous
1 year ago

Good luck Subhadra, and TY Lynn, I hope she is ok, I also wrote.

Jenna hugs

 

1 year ago

Subhadra.......let your heart tell you where you need to be and follow it....it WILL happen!

Anonymous
11 months ago

Home is HERE!

11 months ago

I would just love to know where Subhadra is calling home at the moment! Anyone heard from her?

11 months ago

Last night was our third night in our new home together. We are in Vallabh Vidyanagar, Gujurat, India and have been here now for nearly four months. We love it here. First we were in the four star guest house with all kinds of fancy conveniences. Now our situation is a little more austere but we are definitely members of the community.

11 months ago

Subhadra and I in India

Subhadra & Sarvo in India

11 months ago

Oh joy!!! I am so delighted that you are together! You must be so happy. I just knew it would all woirk out for you, and you both look so beautiful and happy and healthy! Not sure about the friend in the middle though.

11 months ago

Everywhere we go now we drink the tap water. At first that was a real test. Now we've developed immunity. We're doing the native thing. We now have our own flat provided by the temple and every day they bring us more fruit than we can eat. You haven't even had a papaya until you've had one here in India and the first mangoes hit the stands just a few days ago.

10 months ago

Well, IMO, a lot of illness in the Western world is due to the fact that people have been deprived of the opportunity to build up their immunity in a natural way. Go ahead and drink the water! (I was always one of those people that would drink the water, eat the strange foreign food etc................life is dangerous, enjoy it)

10 months ago

Exactly, Lynn, you're terrific. You're right. People are so overly cautious that they practically put themselves and their children in a bubble and then wonder why they all get sick.

Anonymous
10 months ago

Home is where the heart is, no? 

 

To me, home is my house, but also, I can feel at home with people anywhere, as long as they are decent, loving people. 

10 months ago

Darren, you are a decent loving guy. Thanks for posting. Please feel free to start a thread if you like. We need all 1700 members participating. If anyone has any questions, comments or observations about God, Life, Death, Karma, Reincarnation, Meditation or really anything; please go right ahead and say something.

 
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