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Heather O.

"I don't tell you what to do with your body; don't tell me what to do with mine."

Lansing, MI, USA
female, age 41
open marriage, 1 child
Speaks: English only
Joined Jun 1, 2009
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Birthday May 31, 1974  
Languages English only  
About Me I'm a bisexual, polyamarous, gender neutral/fluid, androgynous, disabled, autistic, butch bitch. I'm pro-choice, and do not believe in organized religion; I believe in people.
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Pets six cats, two geckos  
Activist Aspirations Enthusiastic
Political Leaning Moderate
Religions self worshiping heathen, pagan, buddhist  
Eating Habits I wish I could eat without pain., I miss fiber., I miss salad and green food., I miss raw fruit., There is no cure for my disease., Liquid diet sometimes due to illness., I cannot easily digest plant matter., I have serious health issues  
Wild Fact About Me I am actively bisexual and polyamarous.
My Philosophy Be warned, I am very outspoken on various issues and subjects, including but not limited to, gay rights, bi-sexuality, abortion, animal cruelty, spay and neuter, auto-immune diseases (including but not limited to my own), invisible disabilities, autism and aspergers syndrome, domestic violence, polyamory, homeschooling, asian ball jointed dolls, DBZ, yaoi, porn, loss of a child, depression and other mental health issues, legalizing drugs and prostitution, pain management, fat bias, fat-phobia, breastfeeding and general stupidity that I see. I have various soap boxes, and they see alot of use people. If there is an opportunity to raise awareness for various things, I WILL do it.

If you don't like what I have to say then I suggest you not read it. I am both open to new perspectives, and unswayable in my own beliefs. I believe in seeing things from as many points of view as possible, for the greatest good possible.

I also like to argue for the sake of arguing, so there it is then.
What Gives Me Hope Every so often, when I am depressed and have been in pain for too long, sick too long, tired of being sick and tired, someone does something incredible and acts as though it were nothing, as though it were the most natural thing in the world to do what they did.

It restores my faith in people.
If I were Mayor, I'd make the world a better place by I would turn the job over to someone who knew what the heck they were doing.
What/who changed my life and why My son's birth and death four days later in 1997 changed my life forever.

My daughter's birth in 2000 changed me again.

The active flare of my disease in 2003 after diagnosis in 1999, to current continues to change me. You try being sick and in pain for eight years and see if that doesn't change YOUR tune.

Change is inevitable, but I am not a fan of it in general.
What Bugs Me Willful ignorance., Insencerity, Hyprocrisy, Punishing women for having sex., Pro-life zealots., Forcing religion., People who are disrespectful of others., People who want control of my body., Whining without working to change., Arrogent assumptions about me  
Passions loving and being loved, having so much love in my life, remembering my dogs, being healthy again someday, breaking social expectations, rogony, men, women, sex, anime, homeschooling, creativity, my lovers, my spouses, reading, peace, MY CHILDREN!!!, my cats, love, broade  
Inspirations  
What Scares Me What is there to fear after that?, I live hell every day since my son died  
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Quotation "The emptier your head is, the more room there is to pack with dreams."

DragonballZ Opening Theme Song
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TV Shows Couldn't possibly list them all..., Firefly, Dr. Who, The Addams Family, Full Metal Alchemist, Alien Nation, Hellsing, Gravitation, Gundam Wing, Naruto Shippuuden, Naruto, Dragonball Z, Dragonball, Law and Order SVU, Revenge, Castle, House, Bones, Glee, Supernatural, The Ori  
Favorite Foods my single, daily energy drink, whatever doesn't hurt when I eat it  
Favorite Places  
Can't Live Without fire, family, my most awesome homeschool co-op group, my siblings, my beloved friends, my daily energy drink, mah kitbitch, methotrexate, Dasia, Dragonball Z, Remicade, percocet, love  
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    Happy Birthday, my new friend.   Not having much luck sending Care2 E. cards. Thank you for the stars (5 popped up at the same time just now.)  Have a great day.  Hugs, Dotti


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    j sian J. (19)

    Thanks fpr accepting me as a friend, I look forward to debates and chats..

    all the best,
     
    Siân


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