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{About abusers}

-- The 'abuser' has a CHOICE, to either be a loving, 'grown up', 'concerned' partner 'and' LEAVE the premisis (for a "little while") of where the disagreement is happening when he thinks he can 'not control' his hate, his physical abuse, threats, scare tactics and selfishness (because he cares for the other), ""OR"", he can choose to stay there and torment, torture, harass, verbally threaten, be selfish, care for himself only, be selfcentered, love himself only, and beat on his partner's mind, emotions, and body!!!

( 'WHICH' ONE ARE YOU ??!!!!!!!?? )

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Advice: You can NOT discuss, explain, 'speak out to', and work things out with an abuser, because they don't give a 'Rat's  *ss'  what you are going through, what happened to you, what is destroying you, what you are saying and what they did to you. - All you can do is leave (with destroyed life, destroyed posessions, destroyed pets, destroyed friendships, destroyed health, destroyed mind & destroyed jobs), and just let them 'con' their next victim into their lives.))

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I do not like games.


I would like to share life with someone that is caring, sweet, "gentle hearted", loyal, reliable, giving, wants to give respect, has no problem falling 'in love' with his partner and has no problem showing it to them, has 'no problem letting them know it' ((it is not an insulting, "weak, or embarassing thing to them to do")).
I don't mind if you are shy, have a goofy side, are 'not' super skinny or are 'not' a muscle-head, (matter of fact, I'd prefer those who are not muscle heads, or who are so worried over their weight, their looks 'or' their partner's weight & looks, because they are at times the ones who only care about looks, money, being unloyal, unfaithful, and some times even cruel).

I am an outdoor lover. I love being out & taking walks through trails through the woods (something I do not get to do here in sw Florida, at all), caring for Bonsai trees & veggie gardens, I also love going fishing & crabbing (I apologize, but I am not a vegetarian), doing nature photography, love horses & love all kinds of food especially seafood, love cooking food on a grill. I own two pets (a labrador & a cat). I seek someone with 'patience' & who is not abusive towards another (neither verbally, mentally or physically), who takes things in life slow and who truly enjoys nature, the forests, animals, etc.

Other keywords that would describe me or what I like or love: Somewhat old fashion, Sunsets, Sunrises, long walks through the woods or trails, parks, aquariums, shy, rennaissance fairs, classical guitar, native american flute, lakes, respect the elderly, passion for food ((especially seafood and hotwings. I 'Love' food.)), animals, tolerance to a degree, giving, I am not financially rich ((every one is not the same and are not as lucky in all things in life,... that stuff happens, get over it!)), not shallow.

I am 'not' a Man and I am not going to be just like a Man and be able to do 'all' that they do and 'how' they do things, don't expect or ask me to. And I would 'choose' not to be.

I am not an exact image or 'copy' of you or of someone who is rich or financially comfortable, had luck in their life, has really good health, has a perfect body that will permanently always be that way, had lots of education, so GET OVER IT!

I may not be able to equal your 'income making abilities' or your income requirements of me and 'how YOU make it all', ... and I'm about f*cking tired of money being the huge important thing in another person rather then having a great 'human being' in your life or as your partner.