4. Join a select number of causes where I can make a difference
5. Be joyos, in touch and helpful to my family and friends
6. Love, love and love each and everyday
7. Remember to say Ung Sung Wa-Hay Guru several times a day -- a Sikh chant -- to help make me more aligned to the universe and open up opportunities, possibilities and unhindered generosity from mother nature and God.
8. Be the best Wife, Mother, Aunt, Great-Aunt, Cousin and eventually Grandmother
9. Say Alla'U'Abba 95 times a day for the same reason I say item number 7, to be closer to God and Nature