"People are like stained-glass windows. They sparkle and shine when the sun is out, but when the darkness sets in, their true beauty is revealed only if there is a light from within." ~Elizabeth Kübler-Ross



                   

My friendships are a commitment for me. If you would like to add me to your circle of friends, please introduce yourself first to let me know what has drawn you to add me. If we become friends, please let me hear from you from time to time. Otherwise, I will assume you no longer want to be friends and will delete you from my list. Thank you for understanding!

                       

PLEASE! DO NOT FORWARD CHAIN LETTERS OF ANY KIND! I HAVE NO TIME OR PATIENCE FOR THEM. I CAN ONLY SPEND A SHORT TIME ON THE COMPUTER AT A TIME, AND I DO NOT WANT TO USE IT DELETING CHAIN LETTERS. ..NOT INTERESTED!!!! DO NOT SEND THEM! A TRUE FRIEND OF MINE WILL NOT SEND THEM TO ME! THANK-YOU FOR RESPECTING THIS REQUEST....



After awhile you learn the subtle difference
between holding a hand and chaining a soul.
And you learn that love doesn't mean leaning
And company doesn't mean security.
And you begin to learn that kisses aren't contracts
and presents aren't promises.
And you begin to accept your defeats
with your head up and your eyes open.
With the grace of a woman,
not the grief of a child.
And you learn to build all your roads on today
because tomorrow's ground is too uncertain for plans,
And futures have a way of falling down in mid-flight.
After awhile you learn
that even sunshine burns if you get too much.
So you plant your own garden
and decorate your own soul.
Instead of waiting
for someone to bring you flowers.
And you learn that you really can endure...
That you really are strong.
That you really do have worth.
And you learn and learn...
With every goodbye you learn.