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Mary Dee

"to find a way to communicate with my autistic grandchild and hear him speak"

Cheshire, United Kingdom
female, age 68
married, 1 child
Speaks: English - my mother tongue, learning spanish and french, learning Romanian
Joined Oct 14, 2009

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Groups Dog Lovers, World Wide - Legal Action 4 Animal Rights
Hometown cheshire 
Birthday June 29, 1949  
Languages English - my mother tongue, learning spanish and french, learning Romanian  
About Me 5`4", brown eyes, blonde short hair, happily married, have one grown son, and one beautiful autistic grandchild who is my ray of sunshine, i am honest, hard working, love my family, and respect and value my close friends,
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Pets sadley lost my 16 yr old dogs in 2008  
Activist Aspirations Casual
Political Leaning Depends
Religions church of england  
Eating Habits i am not a fussy eater, love to eat good well cooked food  
Wild Fact About Me Butterfly Swimming Champion of England for 3 years in the 1960`s, I was a International Swimming Champion in my younger days..
My Philosophy Yesterday is History, Tomorrow is a Mystery, Today is the Present, thats why its called a GIFT.!
What Gives Me Hope my family and friends
If I were Mayor, I'd make the world a better place by only human beings themselves can make this world a better place to live in, by accepting your neighbour with love, respect and tolerance in your heart, and be glad that your alive, our world is a beautiful world and we have such a short time to enjoy its wonders.
What/who changed my life and why The day my son died of ewing sarcoma, he was only 21, a kind gentle soul, wonderful loving son, he had just started his career in the Royal Navy, life was just beginning for him,then he got ill, and got diagnosed, he had terminal cancer, he had a 5x2cm tumour in his lower spine, and it was a Ewing Sarcoma, the most aggressive form of cancer out there, and there was no cure then in 1987 when my son was first diagnoised, but my son fourght bravely, going through the most horrendous chemotherapy with always a smile on his face, the day he died, was the day that my family was blown apart, we had always done everything as a close and loving family, and now gordon had died, and we didnt know how to cope with this loss, it never crossed our minds that our child would die before us, and when Gordon did die a large part of my heart died along with him, people say that time is a great healer, we personally do not find this, we find that we miss our son more and more as the years have gone by, we missed out seeing falling in love, getting married, we missed out on our future grandchildren, and we miss our son`s presence on a daily basis, our family is not complete, it change our lives very much in that we now do not take life for granted, we thank god for every new day we have together, and enjoy the beauty of this world, life can go by so quickly, and all of us should at least one day per week just go out into the country and enjoy nature at its most wonderful, and relax and enjoy the day, nature has its own way of soothing the troubled mind and heart, and giving inner peace to those who need it in their lives, we find now that just to sit together on a bench, out in the countryside, or sit by he ocean, and listen to all the sounds of nature around us, is truly magical, all this now gives my husband and i inner peace, this is what changed my life and how i have tried to cope since loosing my young son.i can still have bad and very bad days, were i miss my son so much, but i have a wonderful supportive family who help me get through these days, and for that i am a very thankful woman...
What Bugs Me liars, injustice, bullying, People claiming friendship that are not!, Pensioners struggling, Politicians robbing this country dry  
Passions My loving husband, My son and Austistic Grandchild, peace, laughter, broadening my horizons  
Inspirations the sound of the ocean, the beauty of nature, Kindness in the face of hate  
What Scares Me rape, illnesses, Disrespect for others, Losing the ones I love  
Role Models my parents of course  
Quotation you can get away from a murderer, but a LIAR can hang you
Interests Books - Author, gardening, reading, crafts  
Books Almost anything worth reading, fantasy  
Music Motown soul, the beatles, oldies  
Movies horror, dirty dancing, Finding Nemo, Forrest Gump, PIRATES OF THE CARIBBEAN, Pretty Woman, Pulp Fiction, shrek, ghost, titanic, The Green Mile, Shawshank Redemption, comedy, Harry Potter, Gladiator, Fried Green Tomatoes  
TV Shows Detectives and Forensic, Darling Buds of May, Only Fools and Horses, history channel, Discovery Channel  
Favorite Foods all home made food, home made ice-cream, home made bread, home made apple pie, all home cooking, strawberries, japanese, salad, shrimp, chicken  
Favorite Places sitting in my back garden in the summer, home, rivers, parks, the mountains, ocean  
Can't Live Without My loving family, my dearest friends, love, laughter, my sewing machine  
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    Oct 2, 2011 8:35 AM

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    Kerstin S. (371)

    Happy New Year

    Dec 30, 2010 3:09 PM

    Ingrid Offline A. (209)
    Happy New Year!

    Sending joy, love and light
    your way! Wishing you, my
    friend, happiness always!

    Much love from Ingrid A.

    Dec 12, 2010 2:08 PM

    Kerstin S. (371)

    Nov 30, 2010 6:25 AM

    Ingrid Offline A. (209)

    Dearest Mary,
    May the Spirits of the Earth
    always guide you and keep you
    safe. Much love from Ingrid A.

    Nov 27, 2010 1:52 PM

    Kerstin S. (371)
     Hi Mary, back from journey? Hope all is fine. Take care of you! Hugs, Kerstin
    Jul 31, 2010 2:29 PM

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    Jul 8, 2010 11:30 AM

    EcoWorrier M. (947)
    Happy Belated Birthday, may your dreams come true for your personal new year. Hugs CAT, Ratty, Eco oxoxoxo
    Jun 28, 2010 11:29 PM

    Catman P. (0)
    Wishing You Joyous 
    Celebrations Of Life
    On Your Special Day

           Hope Everyone Behaves
                  At The Party

                 Love & Laughter
          Today ~ Always & Forever
     Happy Birthday Mary

    Jun 28, 2010 9:22 PM

    Kerstin S. (371)
     Dearest Mary, I wish you the very best, love, peace, happiness and health. Your friend from Germany with hugs, Kerstin
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    ~ I wish you a bright and beautiful week! ~

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    Happy Walpurgis Night!
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    great fun this weekend!
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    Apr 28, 2010 12:20 PM

    Kerstin S. (371)
     Hope all is o.k.? Hugs, Kerstin
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