I'm just searching for a true friend, someone who brings the best out of me. I have waited my whole life for this something that everyone is looking for but few ever find. I can relate to all people, but I only want one person to be with, to play with, to laugh with, to share with, and with with.
My name is Bo and I consider myself to be a shy but socialable introvert who is emotionally intellectual and has a knack for seeing the bigger picture and putting into perspective the grand scheme of things. Personality wise I am an INFP that enjoys finding pleasure and contentment in the simple yet compelling pleasures of life. Some of my favorite things include reading, writing, being in nature, meditating, deep conversations, friendship, reflective journaling and spiritual introspection, daydreaming and wishing for a perfect love.
I would like very much so to find someone who is kind, caring and compassionate. Someone like myself who is deeply self aware and intuned to the realities of her surroundings and her own self. Someone who also realizes the essence of friendship really boils down to just wanting to be in the presence of each other. And yes, that is more than enough...
I am hoping to discover a girl whom I might be intrinsically and instinctively compatible with on a mental, spiritual, and physical level as well. We would recognize and acknowledge each other intuitively and subconsciously in the deepest sense, our life stories and paths would merge and converge and become entangled and interwingled as one and the same. We would be each others teacher and student, best friends and soulmates.
It is in each others eyes that we would finally find the essence of a most perfect love embodied and beheld at long last, a divine love expressed through that of two imperfect human beings who just happen to be perfectly perfect for one another. In her arms I would lie for the rest of my days.
I was born in China but grew up here in the North Texas region. Even as a kid I sensed long ago the coming hardships and the ominous ever darkening times in this world. I also understood that anything we tried to do (whether as single individuals or collectively as a society) would be akin to the Red Queen's Race of having to run faster and faster just to stay in place, or taking two steps forwards and three steps backwards. Ironically and coincidentally, I have always had the conviction that the whole point of philosophy is not to find a way to solve the world's largely unsolvable problems (or even our own personal issues of day to day life) but to make them totally and completely obsolete and irrelevant in one broad categorical stroke and instead concentrate asymmetrically on solely the things that we truly want, need, and desire from a pure and positivistic aspect and point of view.
A combination of Qualia (raw experience just IS its meaning, purpose, there is only ever experience/awareness itself) , Evolutionary Darwinism, EROEI, Nonduality, Consciousness as more fundamental then space-time continuum, Zero Ontology, and that the Modern World is a unsustainable Ponzi Pyramid Scheme waiting to go Supernova, and lastly and most importantly that pure perfect love exists and its the most beauty feeling in the omnium multiverse(s), even if only existentially.
What Gives Me Hope
Truth, Beauty, Kindness, Understanding and most of all LOVE.
If I were Mayor, I'd make the world a better place by
I cannot emphasis this enough. Number one priority is to CUT DOWN THE POPULATION. Population is the root problem to every other problem on earth including personal freedom and liberties. The more populated this planet the less resource, freedom, and happiness for all. Either we volunteer or nature will take care of us.
What/who changed my life and why
A Walk To Remember (Novel)
Because it makes you realize whats truly most important. And in that moment you awaken to the truth, to what it is all about.
"" To all the ships at sea...
...and all the ports of call..
To my family...
...and to all friends and strangers.
This is a message and a prayer.
The message is that my travels taught me a great truth.
I already had what everyone is searching for...
...and few ever find:
The one person in the world...
who l was born to love forever.
A person like me, of the Outer Banks...
...and the blue Atlantic mystery.
A person rich in simple treasures...
A harbor where l am forever home.
And no wind or trouble...
...or even a little death can knock down this house.
The prayer is that everyone in the world can know this kind of love...
...and be healed by it.
If my prayer is heard, then there will be an erasing of all guilt...
...and all regret...
...and an end to all anger. ""