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Fran Wolfe-Johnson

"sustainable living within my means"

Keystone Heights, FL, USA
female, age 43
committed relationship, 3 children
Speaks: ASL, Osage (learning, a baby's vocab), Navajo (understand but no longer speak), French (read only, grade school level), German (read only), Spanish
Joined Feb 27, 2006


 
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My heritage includes both the pioneers who settled the west and the unfortunate Natives who were in their way. I try to set an example and embrace the best of both worlds.  I am proud of this heritage and I use it as my guide to living and loving.


I'm severely disabled, a bad genetic combination of alphabet diagnoses, and use a power chair to get around on the days when I still feel able to go out.  Chemotherapy has reduced me to a seat on the sidelines, but I still like to get out and play whenever I can.

I chose my family.  I have a loving husband (going on fifteen years together, twelve of those married), a beautiful Cajun girlfriend...and her half brother is my lover.  We are housewives, the husband works for a company which manages other corporations' health benefits, and my lover is a profiler with the FBI (specializing in missing and exploited children).  We have several children, none of which are biologically mine, for which we share parenting and I am one of the legal guardians to a sixteen year old girl with learning disabilities and severe emotional issues.  No, we aren't about sex and orgies and no, we're not looking for more family!

I live on five acres of virgin Florida scrub forest and swamp. I kept it that way on purpose and cleared as little as possible in order to put my home in.  We have been removing invasive vegetation in order to allow the native plants a chance and to protect the habitats of the several endangered species --- seen with my own eyes --- which live here.  We use organic, raised bed, and cube foot gardening to maximize our protection of the environment and to minimize our ecological footprint.  We have no livestock yet, but eventually we'll also have goats, chickens, and horses.

My hobbies include reading, writing, artwork, and making gemstone jewelry.  I work a lot with found items or repurposed items, things most folks throw away without thought.  I like to cook, though my participation is limited since the home was not meant for someone in a wheelchair and we don't have the money to convert it.  I like debate, especially about philosophies and comparative religion, but I don't do politics.  It's too difficult to agree on common ground so I avoid the subject.

In case you missed it:  I'm fat. Obese.  I'm comfortable with this and I work toward accepting my body as it is and making healthy choices which are right for me rather than trying to conform to an unreachable ideal.  If you can't deal with that, we're probably better off not talking.  I don't diet.  I don't want surgery.  And none of my health issues are linked to being fat (they're all crappy genetics).

I'm pagan, initiated third degree in the Georgian Tradition and high priestess of Owl Moon Coven.  My totems are coyote and cougar and, in homage to my Osage roots, I've chosen to embrace them completely and make them part of my soul.  I don't mind that others take comfort from other religions, but I won't be converted. What I've done is right for me and what you've done is right for you.  We can talk and build bridges in commonalities, but I don't put up with any kind of religion bashing.

If you can deal with all this, maybe we can be friends. I don't bite...often. 
 
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Joined Feb 27, 2006 Activist Aspirations Enthusiastic 
Here for Meeting Friends, Support a Cause 
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Groups GLBT Rights
Hometown Montrose, CO 
Homepage http://www.myhappytrails.net  
Birthday Aug 09, 1971  
Languages ASL, Osage (learning, a baby's vocab), Navajo (understand but no longer speak), French (read only, grade school level), German (read only), Spanish  
About Me Extremely fat, severely disabled housewife. My intellect is still intact, but the body has failed me completely.
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Pets Crowley (Rex cat mix), Inu Yasha (eskie dog), Freyja (eskie dog), Anubis (GSD mix), Wobble (blue budgie), Whirr (green budgie), Boss Man (pleco catfish), Jude (pleco catfish), Chester (Dutch rabbit), Rain (domestic black shorthair cat), Inanna (Maine Coon cat), Fest  
Activist Aspirations Enthusiastic
Political Leaning Moderate
Religions Wiccan (Georgian Tradition)  
Eating Habits no processed foods, local and organic when possible, balanced food-lots of vegetables  
Wild Fact About Me My red hair is completely natural, no dyes involved!
My Philosophy Live and let live. I won't tell you what to do and I'd like the same courtesy.
What Gives Me Hope Listening to a child correct an adult's cruel behavior or ignorant remarks.
If I were Mayor, I'd make the world a better place by Standardize health care so that everyone is entitled to the basic preventative care and make certain that the medicine practice is evidence based instead of based on personal perceptions.
What/who changed my life and why "Seven Pillars of Wisdom" by TE Lawrence because it gave me some sharp insight into the mess in the Middle East...and how the western world didn't help.
What Bugs Me rabid and blind political campaigns, stupidity, complacency, fundamentalism, intolerance, ignorance, denial of heritage, Animal cruelty/neglect/abuse, abusive people  
Passions ecological balance, writing, historical preservation, cultural appropriation, sustainable lifestyles, Gardening and growing my own food, my family, nature, music, books, Art/Painting/Drawing  
Inspirations faith, piety, adversity, courage, imagination, music, Well lived lives, loyalty, twilight, nature, Kindness in any form, Cloudless Nights  
What Scares Me War - Cruelty - Greed - Indifference, Violent people, religious fanatics, rape, Religious Extremism, ignorance, being alone, apathy, abusers, "Big Brother"  
  Favorites
Role Models Marcus Arelius, Socrates, Plato, Immanuel Kant, Carl Jung, William Shakespeare, Oscar Wilde, TE Lawrence, Geronimo, Black Elk, Mahatma Gandhi, Chef Gordon Ramsay, Chuck Norris  
Quotation What have YOU done to make the world a better place today?
Interests Travel/Adventure, wildlife, Spirituality/Philosophy, photography, pets, music, Mind/Body/Spirit, meditation, history, herbs, Gardening/Farming, environment, ecology, crafts, writing, art and drawing, books and reading, aromatherapy  
Books Portrait of the Artist by James Joyce, The Mint by TE Lawrence, Seven Pillars of Wisdom by TE Lawrence, Their Eyes Were Watching God (Hurston), The Yearling by Marjorie Rawlings, Inferno by Dante, Candide by Voltaire, People of the Lightning by Michael Gear, Draw  
Music jazz, big band era, ballroom dance, adult alternative, Gregorian chant, country and western, traditional Native American recordings, classical, New Age, Indie, Americana, zydeco, folk  
Movies Flying Leathernecks, A Dangerous Man, Lawrence of Arabia, Casa Blanca, Lone Wolf McQuade, To Wong Foo with Love, Pretty Woman, The Last Unicorn, The Green Mile, The Stand, Dirty Dancing, The Karate Kid (1980s version), Back to the Future  
TV Shows Diners, Drive-Ins, Dives, Iron Chef America, Iron Chef, Heat Seekers, Restaurant Impossible, King of the Hill, The Simpsons, Chopped, Kitchen Nightmares, NCIS, Law &amp, Order Criminal Intent, Law &amp, Order SVU, Criminal Minds  
Favorite Foods seafood, salads, strawberries, stews and soups, Mediterranean, Middle Eastern, Tex-Mex, mashed potatoes, Thai noodle bowls, sushi, pizza, avocados  
Favorite Places St Augustine, Cedar Key, Everglades, Mesa Verde, farmer's markets, book stores, art galleries, museums, mountains, forests, Gulf Coast Florida, north central Florida, Cajun Country, Louisiana (New Orleans), Texas (Dallas area), Colorado, American west  
Can't Live Without nature, music, love, laughter, hope, freedom, family, country living  
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