"I am making a giant difference at Care2.com. I want to know that our planet will be safer and kinder because of people like us."
Bronx, NY, USA
female, age 46
Speaks: American English, Spanish
Joined Apr 25, 2010
Drnk more margaritas,
Drink more cockyails,
Hug more trees,
Feeling Alive and free,
Laughing more with gusto,
Watch more movies,
Feel beautiful from within,
Be less possessive,
Be someone's sunshine,
Have quiet time for reading
||Apr 25, 2010
||Meeting Friends, Support a Cause
|Group Host of
April 26, 1970
||Hello my name is josy.
My motto is: What is mine is mine and what is yours, is yours. I hate greedy persons.
I suffer from I.B.S. so it isn't easy working or going out with my friends. My situation is more serious than others, I take my medicine regularly, there is no cure for what I have yet, but someday I hope they find the cure to eliminate this embarrassing situation.
I have experienced a lot of humiliation and rejection because of my I.B.S., but I keep on working and making my life worthwhile and productive.
I refuse to give up and do nothing or be taking care of like other people who don't even have what I have.
I enjoy giving good advice to my family and friends.
I believe in giving back when some one helps me out of a complicated or ugly situation.
||Introduce yourself to Jocelyn
Practice harmony and peace,
Universal good witch
crabs and lobsters,
coffee with cream,
ramen noodle soups,
|Wild Fact About Me
||I love watching films on U.F.O. s and ghost stories of real people who experienced that.
I like to get ahead and be ahead of the pack, I have confronted and had people in my life that like to keep me down and last and I am dealing with this now agai
||Bad history does not repeat itself, unless evil people push and pay for bad things to happen to good people.
The though of being used and abused and thrown away, to be taken advantage of, because of physical and mental limitation is a cause for concern to save ourselves and protect ourselves from ruthless bad people.
|What Gives Me Hope
||My mom and dad give me good advice on life, live debt free and go out and do a lot of traveling overseas, the U.S.A. and enjoy a lot of great food. My brothers who I love and look up to and compete a little with, LOL. I am working on living a debt free lifestyle. I hope to own a home or an apartment with by boyfriend. I do not like home competitive environments because it always gets ugly and nasty for me and them. I enjoy peaceful quiet places, it inspires me to work hard to keep that kind of peace and quiet.
|If I were Mayor, I'd make the world a better place by
||I do not like to be a president or Governor because I think it requires enormous brain power, enormous faith and hope and determination and that God, Gods and the universe do pick and make leaders for our planet to lead the way. I admire my present President for his brilliance, strength and persistence to make good things happen for the American people.
If I were like a mayor of my City, a small town I hope, LOL, I would eliminate poverty and ignorance. I create programs that help people learn a useful skill, build better homes and apartment buildings for the poor people and families. Clean up the streets, bring back more garbage bins and mail pickup boxes. Make the transit system cleaner and safer and pleasant. Plant more trees, parks, and plants everywhere. Have restaurants donate their leftover good food sent to soup kitchens or nursing homes for the poor and elderly.
|What/who changed my life and why
||I enjoy watching cooking shows and I watch the chefs travel the world, they inspire me to travel and try as many foods from different cultures as possible. They also teach what they learned on their travels.
|What Bugs Me
Cruelty towards babies and kids,
manipulative people who do bad things,
backstabbers and hypocrites,
people who dump on me,
people who take but give nothing,
Eyes on me GO AWAY!
Candles and incense,
Sage cleansing spaces,
plants and flowers,
Watching ghost stories,
watching UFO documentaries,
playing games with my family,
playing games with my friends,
Eating great foods
my mom and dad,
Orion and Aliens,
Well lived lives,
|What Scares Me
people who steal money and dreams,
women on women hate and envy,
Someone who loves suffering of others,
people who step on us,
Abusers and users,
Cruel and evil minds
I am my own role model
||Accept no one's definition of yourself, define yourself. Quoted by: Harvey Furstein.
Trust yourself. You know more than you think you do. Quoted by: Dr. Benjamin Spock.
Always do your best. What you plant now, you will harvest later. Quoted by: Og Mandino.
Be happy for this moment. This moment is your life. Quoted by: Omar Khayyan.
An effort made for the happiness of others, lift us above ourselves. Quoted by: Lydia M. Child.
Your present circumstances don't determine where you can go; they merely determine where you start. Quoted by: Nick Qubein.
How you think when you lose will determine how long it will be until you win. Quoted by: G. K. Chesterton.
Friendships improve happiness and abates misery, by the doubling of our joy and the dividing of our grief. Quoted by: Marcus Tullius.
Never be afraid to trust an unknown future to an unknown GOD. Quoted by: Carrie tan Boom.
To admire without coveting. By Jocelyn Valdez
Hail Melek Ta'us and the Gods.
I believe in extra terrestrial, there's definitely intelligent beings beyond our solar system and we are just discovering this.
soups and stews,
arroz con salchichas,
New York City,
|Can't Live Without
Hope and faith,
beaches and oceans,
money money money,
Sunshine and breezes,
My Guardian Angel,
music and dance,
friends and family
||Introduce yourself to Jocelyn