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Barbara F.

"To be the voice for those who cannot speak. Animal Abuse is NEVER ACCEPTABLE! Stop the Violence in Domestic Violence! GET IT DONE!"

Galloway, NJ, USA
single, 4 children
Speaks: English only
Joined May 15, 2012


Mystic and I met on July 21, 2011. It was, as they say... LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT! Oh... what a beauty she was! ha haa! She was the most pathetic little thing I ever saw and had the goofiest little smile any little furbaby could ever have,too, ha haa! BUT... TO ME... SHE WAS SO BEAUTIFUL, SHE TOOK MY BREATH AWAY! She was skinny and her hair was thick and long, she was NOT pretty at all. But the minute I held her in my arms and she put her little face in my neck, I was lost! She was the ONE! She stole my heart right from my chest! Oh, she's a little thief, too! UH-OH! Now what? ha haa! She looked right into my eye's and I said to her, "Mystic... you will NEVER be hurt again. Not in this life time, not while I'm your MaMa. You will always be SAFE with me"! And, I meant every word I said to her!
She was 6 years old when I adopted her and one day away from being euthanized! Were they kidding? WHY? HOW? She is the sweetest gentlest, kindest little soul I've ever known! I just couldn't understand how and/or why anyone could or would ever consider killing this little furbaby! She's such a GEM! She's so good, she listens to everything and has never had to even have a firm voice directed at her. Of course... WE bonded immediately, ha haa! She's my BEST GIRLFRIEND, ha haa! Where I go... she goes, too! If you see me, you will see her! WHY? JUST BECAUSE! There's no other reason, ha haa! She's a happy, happy girl now and she's going to stay that way as long as she can! Just because she's 9 yrs. old now... that doesn't mean anything. NOPE! She still thinks she's a puppy and still plays like one! ha haa!
Her breed, Chinese Crested PowderPuffs, live to be, on the average, 12 years old. But... I'm not going to worry about that until her time comes! We're going to enjoy each other for as long as we can and for as long as we have each other! No one can say how long, for sure, any one will be with us... so we're not going to worry about that! So... anyway... If you see me, you'll see her, too! ha haa! And... I do change her picture for every holiday AND in between, too! WHY? JUST B/C I LOVE HER! SHE'S JUST TOO BEAUTIFUL NOT TO, THAT'S ALL! ENJOY HER... PLEASE! I DO!
Beautiful Mystic
         June 16th,  2014, my husband, Phil went to Heaven. The Angels came to meet him and in the quiet evening hours, while Mystic was resting her head on his leg and I was holding him in my arms, his heart stopped beating but I didn't give it back to him. You see, he gave it to me long ago and it was mine, he said it would ALWAYS be mine, and it always has been and always will be. I keep it in a very safe place, right inside of my heart, where it has no place to go, but up to Heaven... when it's time for us to meet again.

 I love you, Phil... and I'll see you when the Angels come for me! God will let me know when that time is, just like He let you know. Mystic misses you so much already. I'm sure you saw that she slept on YOUR pillow! For the 1st time ever, she didn't sleep with me. Yep, she misses you already!
Thank you, Phil, for being the man that you were and treating me like the woman I wasn't... the QUEEN of the UNIVERSE! YOU made me feel special every day of my life! (well... maybe not everyday, ha haa). I'll see you when it's time! I LOVE YOU AND ALWAYS HAVE!
Hugs, Love and Kisses, Barbara & Mystic, too!
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Mystic & PaPa

                  Angel Codes                                        Angel Scrap                                                                                                                                                                                                         Guarding Chair #2Mystic spent almost 6 days guarding her PaPa's chair. She would just sit in front of it or sit in it. It had been put in the corner when the hospital bed was brought in for Phil. We were going to throw the chair out b/c it was old and broken. When Phil passed and the chair was still in the corner, Mystic wanted to get in it, but couldn't, not the way it was. So... I moved it back to where it had been. After I 'fixed' it and she could get in it... she stayed there for hours! I WAS NOT GETTING RID OF THAT CHAIR! IT WAS HERS THEN, FOREVER IF SHE WANTED IT! When she was done sitting in it... she sat in front of it and wouldn't let anyone near it. YEP... IT'S HER CHAIR NOW!                                                                                              
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Joined May 15, 2012 Activist Aspirations Casual 
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Hometown Galloway, NJ 
Birthday Oct 01  
Languages English only  
About Me I'm 5', 100 lbs., and 61 yrs. old. I am now a Widow and that's new to me as of June, 2014. I am a mother of 4, grandmother of 6 beautiful kids & a very proud adoptive mother of a furbaby, named, Mystic... now 9 yrs. old, adopted when she was 6... in July 2011. I love sharing laughter, tears, love and life with family, friends and sweet Mystic. This was updated on 8-3-2014. I came to this site on 5-12-2012 and I love it here... I have met so many caring, loving friends... that I have never met before... that I would never think of leaving! It's a wonderful place to be!
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Pets 1 Chinese Crested PowderPuff Dog  
Activist Aspirations Casual
Political Leaning Liberal
Religions Christian - non denominational  
Eating Habits Almost anything... :)  
Wild Fact About Me When I'm passionate about something, WATCH OUT!! I'm very easy going, but If you get me going on the wrong thing, IT'S ON!
My Philosophy If you accept the behavior, then you must also accept the consequences!
What Gives Me Hope God! His Son, Jesus! When I open my eyes in the morning and I'm alive.
If I were Mayor, I'd make the world a better place by Get rid of all the Child Perverts and Animal Abusers!!
What/who changed my life and why Mystic She taught me what it's like to love with no conditions!
What Bugs Me Idiotic politicians, People who are unfriendly, People who see but prefer to be blind, BULLIES!!!!!, ANIMAL CRUELTY OF ANY KIND, ABUSIVE PEOPLE, Any one that would hurt a woman, Any one that would hurt a child, injustice, People on cellphones while driving !  
Passions Mystic, My Grandchildren!!!, MY CHILDREN!!!, animals  
Inspirations My daughter Nicole, Kindness in any form, good people, beautiful stories  
What Scares Me Losing the ones I love, The moral direction of our society!, Is how cruel the people of the world are  
Role Models God and His Son, Jesus, Animals who have survived the worst  
Quotation I would never ask you to substitute your judgement for mine.
Interests Mystic, My Grandchildren, My Children, Animal Rights, Computer, Reading  
Books James Patterson's Books, Mysteries  
Music "golden oldies"  
Movies The Color Purple, Happy Feet, Horton Hears a Who, Fried Green Tomatoes  
TV Shows Criminal Minds, Law and Order, Law and Order SVU, I like thrillers, Cold Case  
Favorite Foods I EAT TO LIVE, I DON'T LIVE TO EAT, corn on the cob, Mashed potatoes and corn, green or black olives, corn, broccoli, strawberries, steak, meatloaf--mine, potatoes, ice cream, cheese cake, italian, chinese  
Favorite Places My Home, My bed  
Can't Live Without God and Jesus Christ, Holy Spirit, Mystic, hope, freedom, love, laughter, friends and family, food  
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    Sep 16, 2014 7:00 PM

    Mary R. (256)
      Enjoy your day Barbara.  Its still super hot and humid here, guess I will be forced to eat a huge bowl of ice cream !  ( love it  ! )   Sending love and hugs.

    Sep 16, 2014 5:22 PM

    Ginger H. (55)
    Sep 16, 2014 11:55 AM

    Arlene C. (126)

    To cultivate the friendship is a success in our life, beautiful Day my friend


    Sep 16, 2014 9:40 AM

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    Sep 16, 2014 1:40 AM

    Ginger H. (55)

    And did you see the stuff others brought to the party???  Hahaha!   They brought cupcakes, a persian kitty, more balloons, roses and flowers, hugs, teddy bears, and Snoopy and Woodstock even showed up!  Did you have a good time at the party Barbara??  : )    Anyway, I hope you have a good night's sleep and have a great Tuesday!  We love you very much!  Poofy and Ginger

    Sep 15, 2014 4:52 PM

    Mary R. (256)
      A Beautiful rose for a Beautiful friend.  xoxo

    Sep 15, 2014 9:26 AM

    Ruth L. (299)

    Sep 15, 2014 4:13 AM

    Ondine J. (133)

    Dearest Barbara, Thank you so much for your beautiful messages, always appreciated. I am so sorry you were sick and hope you are on the mend.Sending you and Mystic love and hugs. XOXOWolf

    Sep 14, 2014 11:02 PM

    Ginger H. (55)

    It has been a rainy Sunday in South Town!  Hope you have a relaxing evening.  Sending love your way~
    Sep 14, 2014 9:34 PM

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    Sep 14, 2014 9:31 PM

    Ginger H. (55)
    Thank you for the awesome Birthday party Barbara.  What detailed planning.  Hahaha!  You thought of everything!  Not many people are blessed with a Mama Barbara to give a party to them with cards, presents, friends, flowers, balloons, presents and a cake!  The party is going great.  What kind of cake is this?  Strawberry?  It's delicious!  Thank you for everything.  I am truly blessed to have you in my life.  I don't know what I would do without you to make me smile.  Love you and Mystic, Too! 

    Sep 14, 2014 8:37 PM

    Ginger H. (55)

    Thank You For Always Making Me Feel Special Teddy Bear With Red Heart Graphic

    Sending love and big bear hugs for you and Mystic, Too!

    Sep 14, 2014 10:26 AM

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    Mary R. (256)
      Have a good day my friend. Its scorching hot here. 100 degrees today. Its almost midnight and still 83 degrees, too hot to sleep.  Take care.  xoxo

    Sep 14, 2014 5:03 AM

    VinnieSick m. (330)

    Dear Barbara my friend. Thanks for all the lovely comments but I just don't have time to respond. Don't ever be sorry for having personal problems and not being here. It's not like any of my friends know you anyway since you've been to busy to join the Frog group.They only know Mystic's photo and that Phil passed away and have said some very nice things for you.I too am a widow for a long time now.Glad to see you around and hope you at least look at the Threads in Play-Date or "Offbeat & Weird" Thread in my "Watersheds" group.Great photos and videos to see. Visibility is Open so no need to join,but look around all ya want hon. I'm still having a hard time with losing Dottie and cry a lot but have good friends in Town who come by and check on me and I ran into some old friends at St.Vincent DePaul, while looking for a cheap used VCR, as mine died. You see everyone there or at the Post Office. Small Town. Got to baby-sit Muffy my frie

    Sep 13, 2014 7:45 PM

    Ginger H. (55)
    Hope you and Mystic are enjoying your weekend.  Love from Ginger and Poofy~

    Sep 13, 2014 5:20 PM

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    Arlene C. (126)

    Happy Weekend + takes care of you, my friend

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