I learn a lot by observing and I apply that to people that send me friend requests. If I don't know you very well or am not sure about you, I may not accept the friend request.
"I am not an angry girl
but it seems like I've got everyone fooled
every time I say something they find hard to hear they chalk it up to my anger and never to their own fear
imagine you're a girl
just trying to finally come clean
knowing full well they'd prefer you
were dirty and smiling...
and generally my generation
wouldn't be caught dead working for the man and generally I agree with them
trouble is you gotta have youself an alternate plan
and I have earned my disillusionment
I have been working all of my life
and I am a patriot I have been fighting the good fight
and what if there are no damsels in distress
what if I knew that and I called your bluff?
don't you think every kitten figures out how to get down whether or not you ever show up"
~Ani DiFranco,Not A Pretty Girl
But I heal. Worthless story always work- the constant focus. But I heal. I will compromise and I heal.
~ Flyleaf, I'm So Sick
Women observe subconsciously a thousand little details, without knowing they are doing so. Their subconscious mind adds these little things together--and they call the result intuition.
"[And Jesus said] Split a piece of wood; I am there. Lift up the stone, and you will find me there"
~The Gospel of St. Thomas
If you keep thinking "That man has abused me," holding it as a much-cherished grievance, your anger will never be allayed. If you can put down that fury-inducing thought, your anger will lessen. Fury will never end fury, it will just ricochet on and on. Only putting it down will end such an abysmal state.