Being a veterinarian, I had been called to examine a ten-year-old Irish Wolfhound named Belker. The dog's owners, Ron,his wife Lisa, and their little boy Shane,were all very attached to Belker, and theywere hoping for a miracle.
I examined Belker and found he was dyingof cancer. I told the family we couldn't do anything for Belker, and offered to performthe euthanasia procedure for the old dogin their home. As we made arrangements, Ron and Lisatold me they thought it would be good forsix-year-old Shane to observe the procedure. They felt as though Shane might learnsomething from the experience.
The next day, I felt the familiar catch in my throat as Belker 's family surrounded him.Shane seemed so calm, petting the old dogfor the last time, that I wondered if he understood what was going on. Within a few minutes, Belker slipped peacefully away.
The little boy seemed to accept Belker's transition without any difficulty or confusion.We sat together for a while after Belker'sDeath, wondering aloud about the sad factthat animal lives are shorter than human lives. Shane, who had been listening quietly, piped up, 'I know why.'
Startled, we all turned to him. What cameout of his mouth next stunned me. I'd never heard a more comforting explanation.
He said, 'People are born so that they can learn how to live a good Life -- like loving everybody all the time and being nice, right?' The Six-year-old continued, 'Well, dogsalready know how to do that, so they don'thave to stay as long.' So live like a dog: Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply. Speak kindly. Remember, if a dog was the teacher youwould learn things like: When loved ones come home, always runto greet them. Never pass up the opportunity to go for a joyride. Allow the experience of fresh air and thewind in your face to be pure ecstasy. Take naps. Stretch before rising. Run, romp, and play daily. Thrive on attention and let people touch you. Avoid biting when a simple growl will do. On warm days, stop to lie on your backon the grass.. On hot days, drink lots of water and lieunder a shady tree. When you're happy, dance around andwag your entire body. Delight in the simple joy of a long walk. Be loyal. Never pretend to be something you're not. If what you want lies buried, dig until you find it.
When someone is having a bad day, besilent, sit close by, and nuzzle them gently. ENJOY EVERY MOMENT OF EVERY DAY
Check out my Son-in-Law's artwork
(Apr 12)
My Son-in-Law just set up his first website. It is really neat and showcases all his artwork. Check it Out.
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