NOW IT'S TIME FOR SELF-MASTERY

Self-Mastery is being fully Self-reliant without due recourse to sources outside of Self.....for we each are all we require. Being in the transitional phase, we are not quite there yet, however.   

More and more I am realising that no "other" is required for me to Be MySelf, nor am I required to support another at any level, for to do so would deprive this other their journey....

Over the past few years I have found that the best help I can be to another is to stand back and observe their choices and watch them fall and pick themselves up and become stronger in the process. So sometimes the best help and support is doing nothing except being the observer.

I was just watching the lunchtime TV news here and it was reported how human grandparents are feeling the pinch of being breadwinners and carers for their parents, children and grandchildren...and in process being squeezed at all levels accordingly.....

Talk about making choices for creating further and future dependencies....rather than saying enough and pulling back through a tuff love hard choice and encouraging the "stand on your own feet and take responsibility for your life at last" opportunity!!!!

Accepting and allowing all to be as it is is one thing, yet the greatest acceptance and allowance choice/s relate to Self and what one is prepared to accept and allow in one's own life especially how other's treat one. No way would I accept and allow kids and grandkids to depend on me.....they don't thankfully because of a choice I made many years back.

In the end it is Self-Ishness that is first and foremost, as it is Self-Love lived wholly, completely and perfectly. And coming to a place of fully Self Loving is what the journey is all about in the end.  From the Self-love pond the ripples flow outwardly.

So yes, commanding one's mastery is sometimes tuff shyte to those around you....and in many cases those loved ones of the human blood relationship kind...for me it certainly has been, and in so doing, I have and am becoming who IAM through my own hard work with little dependency these days on any other source!! Being one's authentic Self in full sovereignty of Being, is the most loving place and space to Be.

Now I know I deserve the break of ease and grace and therefore am not available presently to be there for others who are hanging out for me to do their work for them.  The work is theirs' and I gladly hand it to them with a heart of compassionate love, knowing that those of us who have paved the yellow brick road before them as pioneers have made the going so much easier for them.

Shared with love, joy and freedom and speaking for MySelf Alone!!

Elizabethxx