my care2
make a difference

community & fun

shares

share your passions, stories, inspirations, and more

Oct 21, 2009

I have said in the past that when I run across something that I feel is worthy, I will pass it on through my blog. Well, this is more than worthy, this is great stuff.

This is something we should all read at least once a week, if not everyday!

Written By Regina Brett, 90 years old, of "The Plain Dealer", Cleveland, Ohio. Here is what she has to say: "To celebrate growing older, I once wrote the 45 lessons life taught me. It is the most-requested column I've ever written. My odometer rolled over to 90 in August, so here is the column once more."

45 Lessons Life Taught Me.

1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.
2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.
3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.
4. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and parents will. Stay in touch.
5. Pay off your credit cards every month.
6. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone.
8. It's OK to get angry with God. He can take it.
9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.
10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.
11. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present.
12. It's OK to let your children see you cry.
13. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it.
15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye.
16. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.
17. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.
18. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger.
19. It's never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else.
20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer.
21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special.
22. Over prepare, then go with the flow.
23. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple.
24. The most important sex organ is the brain.
25. No one is in charge of your happiness but you.
26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words 'In five years, will this matter?'
27. Always choose life.
28. Forgive everyone everything.
29. What other people think of you is none of your business.
30. Time heals almost everything. Give time time.
31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
32. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
33. Believe in miracles.
34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do.
35. Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.
36. Growing old beats the alternative -- dying young.
37. Your children get only one childhood.
38. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.
39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.
40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, we'd grab ours back.
41. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
42. The best is yet to come.
43. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
44. Yield.
45. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift."

Regina truly has "rare sense" indeed. Thank you for taking the time to read my blog today. Please feel free to share this post with anyone you feel would benefit from it and leave your comments.

May you be blessed always and in all ways!

Harry Shade
Author - Rare Sense, One Day It Will Be Common: A Practical Guide to a Fulfilled & Balanced Life
harry@raresenseunlimited.com
http://www.raresenseunlimited.com

Imported from external blog


Visibility: Everyone
Posted: Wednesday October 21, 2009, 8:28 am
Tags: life personal rare lessons inspiration spiritual sense growth motivation advice [add/edit tags]

Group Discussions start a discussion
Comments
Or, log in with your
Facebook account:
Compose your comment and submit:




Author

Harry Shade
Author Tools:
Compose New Share
male, age 49, married, 1 child
Dublin, OH, USA
HARRY'S SHARES
Sep
9
(0 comments  |  discussions )
As I often say, we must keep our body, mind and spirit in balance to live a fulfilled and balanced life. One of the challenges our society faces, especially in the US, is weight gain and obesity. As I stated in an earlier blog post, humans were not m...
Sep
3
(0 comments  |  discussions )
I awoke this morning to Tim McGraw's song, "Live Like You Were Dying." Here is the YouTube video of it. http://www.youtube.com/wa tch?v=XiOcW_YR1G8 It is such a wonderful song with a powerful message and it got me thinking about what topic I wanted t...
Aug
25
(0 comments  |  discussions )
For anyone who has followed me for any length of time, you know I love quotes and now I have added a thought to get you reflecting even more.Quote "Reflect upon your present blessings, of which every man has plenty; not on your past misfortunes, of w...


SHARES FROM HARRY'S NETWORK
Sep
24
(0 comments  |  discussions )
The Path into Healing by Sam Oliver is a model for healing through the feminine side of the soul. The purpose of this book is to outline a process whereby a person can understand and acquaint him or herself with an aspect of our awareness often negle...
Sep
21
(0 comments  |  discussions )
This book is about "A Fish Named Ed" by Sam Oliver who loses his mother. It goes into the process of grief in a very simple language allowing a child to comprehend where a loved one goes when they die. This is an introsp...
Sep
17
by Mark Q.
(0 comments  |  discussions )
http://www.youtube.com/wa tch?v=8jtwXnFkSLA
by Mark Q.
(0 comments  |  discussions )
Mary Travers of Peter,Paul and Mary has passed after a long battle with cancer...Thank you Mary for all the years of your sweet voice. You will be missed by many. http://www.nydailynews.co m/entertainment/music/200 9/09/16/2009-09-16_mary_t ravers_of_p...
by Mark Q.
(0 comments  |  discussions )
"Love is a powerful tool, and maybe, just maybe, before the last little town is corrupted and the last of the unroaded and undeveloped wildness is given over to dreams of profit, maybe it will be love, finally, love for the land for its own sake and f...


MORE MEMBER BLOGS
Dec 4
Blog: Kucinich on Afghanistan by Just C.
(0 comments  |  discussions ) — Dear Friends, Congressman Kucinich is making a major impact in his challenge to the escalation of the war in Afghanistan. See the following: MSNBC, The Ed Show, December 1, 2009   FOX News, The O'Reilly Factor December 1, 2009   C... more
Blog: Next-up News Nr 1132 by Team O.
(0 comments  |  discussions ) — - SFR Info : "Votre télÃ& copy;phone mobile est un mouchard... même éteint" "Un télÃ& copy;phone mobile éteint, posé sur la table d'une réunion, peu... more
Blog: Actions speak louder than words... by Defenders o.
(0 comments  |  discussions ) — For all of the talk about sensible wolf management plans in the Northern Rockies, it is becoming more apparent that Idaho will not stop until its wolf population is well below acceptable numbers. First Idaho extended the hunting season into... more
Blog: Actions speak louder than words... by Sara H.
(0 comments  |  discussions ) — For all of the talk about sensible wolf management plans in the Northern Rockies, it is becoming more apparent that Idaho will not stop until its wolf population is well below acceptable numbers. First Idaho extended the hunting season into... more
Blog: Va. Tech report details new fumbles in shooting by HM S.
(0 comments  |  0 discussions ) — RICHMOND, Va. -- Some Virginia Tech officials warned their own families and the president's office was locked down well before a campus-wide alert was issued in the 2007 slayings of 32 people, according to a revised state report that details new fumbl... more
 
Content and comments expressed here are the opinions of Care2 users and not necessarily that of Care2.com or its affiliates.
Copyright © 2009 Care2.com, inc. and its licensors. All rights reserved