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The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life. Attitude, to me, is more important than facts. It is more important than the past, than education, than money, then circumstances, than failures, than successes, than what other people think, say, or do. It is more important than appearance, giftedness, or skill. It will make or break a company, a church, a home. The remarkable thing is we have a choice every day regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day.

We cannot change our past. We cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude. I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how I react to it. And so it is with you. We are in charge of our attitudes. written by Charles Swindoll


Posted: Wednesday November 29, 2006, 8:34 am
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Forrest C. (13)
Wednesday November 29, 2006, 8:45 am
Awesome post Bryan! I completely agree with you.

Elizabeth Feisst (1196)
Wednesday November 29, 2006, 9:01 am
Excellent Bryan.... thank you
Love Elizabethxx

Claire Bretana (3)
Wednesday November 29, 2006, 9:37 am
You are absolutely RIGHT! Attitude plus strong core values will serve as our anchor in life. Whatever happens to us, we can discern the right path to take and the right decision to make.

Vvvvvv Mmmmmmm (0)
Thursday November 30, 2006, 11:46 am
11/30/06

Cound not agree more, which is one of my reasons got writing this. Please forgive but I am at a local community reacreation center in which it took just about three months for me to get a pass word in which I used it for the first time today; ansd cannot post a "share"; which defeats my purpose in having a password because I STILL cannot communicate publically, which is one of the purposes of the internet. Please post on the share board, with the hopes that prayers will fix it so that I can continue to post my share . Thank you, Peacenowst

mahrya d. (29)
Monday December 4, 2006, 3:46 pm
I guess as of late I've been having a difficult time with being positive. I am usually a very positive, upbeat individual that people come to for cheering up. I don't think it is possible to be upbeat and have a positive attitude 100% of the time but gosh I would like to feel better about life and what's to come. How can I continue to have a more positive attitude and how can I change my slumping mood.

Lisa Northam (9)
Sunday December 10, 2006, 3:44 pm
I have often heard attitude is where it starts and where it ends. You are so right abandon all hope of a better past, meaning we can not change it, and the future is a mystery, all we have is today and the way we react to any given situation. I have been a pessimistic all my life, and that defect has caused me much pain. I am trying to see the glass half full, today, just for today, and maybe if I fake my positive attitude it will actually turn into one. Thank you for your topic. Yes we are in charge of our attitudes.

Constance Greenwell (1)
Monday December 11, 2006, 7:14 pm
Attitude is indeed capable of moving mountains or any other obstacle. The fact that one has a choice in how to approach and think about a matter is an empowering one. Since we can only control our own actions and thought, seems to me a key to greater peace of mind is the attitude one has about a matter. So what if you cannot change something, why fret over that, rearrange your attitude. Nothing is 100% anything so save your sweat for something real.

Dreemer Of Dreems (5)
Tuesday December 12, 2006, 6:13 am
I'm new here and saw your blog. Agree completely and appreciate your upbeat "attitude" very much.
Dreemer (PS: Thanks..good words)

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Thursday December 14, 2006, 9:47 am
Always keep a smile on your face,
Make your home a welcome place,
Remember never to be unkind
Keep a positive sense of mind.
Your attitude speaks the person that is you.
Our projection of ourselves is what others view. To Bryan I say, I agree with you.
Good Post!

Debbi G. (32)
Friday December 15, 2006, 12:29 pm
I really needed the words of wisdom put forth It is very enlightening and was definitely needed. I have been faced with some very tough decisions lately I couldn't agree more that embracing the right attitude can make all the difference in life changing decisions especially. Thank you again.

Chakwaina R. (141)
Friday December 15, 2006, 10:37 pm
This is absolutley right on target. Wish I had learned this particular lesson long before I did.

Mary Hernandez (6)
Tuesday December 19, 2006, 9:38 am
You are so right... This is fascinating. Thanks for writing this

Tony Guo (0)
Thursday December 21, 2006, 7:04 pm
Excellent

Candace H. (1)
Wednesday December 27, 2006, 6:15 am
Very inspiring....words to hold onto.

Marjorie Lloyd (54)
Saturday December 30, 2006, 8:08 am
thanks for the reminder ;-)
Marjorie

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Saturday December 30, 2006, 8:25 am
A good thought, but some have disorders that leave them FAR less than 90% in control of their attitude/moods. I think we need to keep that in mind too - especially when someone seems to always have an attitude problem, they may have a medical issue we are unaware of. I'm not trying to distract from your thoughts though - I think it is a good goal for everyone to do the best they can with the control they have to make their day as good as possible. (Sorry if this double/half posts, I hit a key somehow and messed it up)

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Monday January 1, 2007, 8:35 am
Bryan: very wise thoughts... Well said. I have a question: where to get the strength for positive attitude? How to cope with broken hopes, unmet expectations, vacuum of communication? Try to change your attitude to something you expect from life and never receive? How to handle loneliness? Well, there are philosophical questions, who knows the answer. I must confess, sometimes my unsatisfied attitude makes me to search for something, to improve myself, to move forward, or, am I wrong? Elena

Rena Khalaf (4)
Thursday January 4, 2007, 12:51 am
That is 100% true. I totally agree

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Friday January 5, 2007, 4:43 am
i have this posted throughout my home. first saw it a couple years ago when received from a psychiatrist. written by Charles Swindoll,a minister. i dont look at it often enough.

Sarah E. (8)
Monday January 15, 2007, 8:52 pm
=0) I love that. It is very true and you have said so beautifully!

I'm definitely waking up with a smile tomorrow! =0)

Gena D. (9)
Friday January 19, 2007, 11:40 am
Great post Bryan, I really appreciate the share.

Wayne Wilson (29)
Wednesday January 24, 2007, 9:10 pm
an attitude
of gratitude
is not a
simple platitude.

love

w

Alicia Boden (4)
Thursday January 25, 2007, 3:43 am
I'm a newbie, so hi! Thanks for posting that, I've been thinking about my childhood lately and it's been making me angry. I can't change what happened but I can change my attitude. Thanks.

Judy Munn (51)
Friday January 26, 2007, 4:34 pm
I agree with you. I think that it is up to each of us to do whatever we can, each minute, each day of our lives to do the best that we can to be positive about life, our fellow beings and help when ever and wherever we can in our lifetime. Judy Munn

Nancy Y. (1)
Saturday January 27, 2007, 11:16 am
What I wrote was.......... Our thoughts lead to words and our words lead to actions. So keeping positive thoughts and attitudes definately gives us long and happy lives.

Susan W. (0)
Sunday January 28, 2007, 10:50 am
This was actually written by Charles Swindoll, author and minister. It is pretty well known as "Attitude" by Charles Swindoll. Just wanted to say that perhaps you might put his name on here so as to let others know that this is his original quote.

http://home.xnet.com/~ansible/attitude.html

Megan Mcculloch (0)
Tuesday January 30, 2007, 8:27 am
This is very good ans so very true

Sharon C. (8)
Tuesday January 30, 2007, 12:30 pm
I AGREE ALSO ITS ONLY UP TO YOURSELF TO CHANGE YOUR OWN ATTITUDE ANDFIND NEW WAYS ON HOW TO FOCUS PROPERLY IN LIFE!!!

Mayra H. (2)
Tuesday January 30, 2007, 12:34 pm
Hi! I'm almost new on the care2 community.

Lately it's happening to me, that if I talk, read or think about a topic, everything arround, seems to be synchronized on it.

Today's topic with my boss, was: we need to work in our attitude, we need to work in how we can react over the facts.
So I'm very pleased to find out that today's action, it's linked to the blogs.. and I'm also surprised that the very first blog I find in it, it's this one... talking about attitude.

I agree with Mahrya: I'm also having problems in this period of my life, so it's being really difficult being positive.

I don't have "the answer" to Mahrya's final question, but I know also, that I'm tired of being pessimistic and discovering that i'm always right when i think negative, so just for a change, I'm gonna try to think the best. Sometimes at least ;)

Thanks to everyone, Mayra

Alexis W. (0)
Tuesday January 30, 2007, 1:33 pm
Bryan, thanks so much for your post! I need to print this out and hang it in a place to read every day. Unfortunately, when we need to remember that we have a choice by taking charge of our attitudes, we are almost beyond being able to do so during times of deep depression or chaos in our life.

Bryan H. (201)
Tuesday January 30, 2007, 1:57 pm
Alexis if your having any of that negative business about you right now .... without hesitation (((((Alexis))))) and a smile - even if I dont know you, just some positive reinforcement .... the right path to take. Annnd if you ever want to talk about it .... , anything ,anthing thats bothering you - write me. There are creeps in this world but Im not one of them Love and Blessings "this message goes out to all of you characters not just Alexis"
Full of the Love Business, cause its the right thing to do

Ann M. (6)
Tuesday January 30, 2007, 4:06 pm
Good one Bryan. Charles is a cluey guy alright. It has taken me 48 years to get my act together. I am living those words, and life is wonderful!!! It is like a domino effect, my life is just getting better and better. Happiness always.

Leta Miciak (0)
Tuesday January 30, 2007, 4:58 pm
I get so frusterated every day by how ignorant and arrogant some people get about the smallest things. Your blog helped me to realize that the only thing I can control is my own actions in any given situation, so I have stopped worrying about all of the stupid things other people do, and I am focussing solely on the things that I have power over! Thanx

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Tuesday January 30, 2007, 10:08 pm
That is very true

Deb Pursell (23)
Wednesday January 31, 2007, 8:22 am
No matter where you live, you ae born with the freedom of choice. You choose to have a positive attitude or you choose to have a negative one... Just remember, a positive attitude is just as contagious as a negative attitude, but brings more good things to your life.

Kathleen O. (26)
Thursday February 1, 2007, 7:37 am
What a wonderful way to move through life! If only everyone would only always be conscious of that, the world may a better place to live. Thanks for bringing this insight to peoples' attentions!

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Sunday February 4, 2007, 12:50 pm
life is about choices and consequences.........

Bryan H. (201)
Sunday February 4, 2007, 1:05 pm
Soooo True Sarah

Irma Staer (0)
Sunday February 11, 2007, 2:39 am
It is a good wisdom. But, isn't it true that today's life is the result of the past. So, how we react is influenced by our past, education, economy, failures, etc. It is very true that we cannot change the past, but we can learn from the past and make it better.

Bryan H. (201)
Sunday February 11, 2007, 3:05 am
Yes Irma ..... we reap what we sow (strong values) in pulling out the weeds in making a Grand Harvest

Griselda Estrada (0)
Friday February 23, 2007, 5:03 pm
very true i like the way u put it down very nice

Lena Adams (2)
Wednesday February 28, 2007, 7:05 pm
we create our own reality without even realizing it...wait, does that count as an oxymoron?

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Thursday March 1, 2007, 5:07 am
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Jacqueline Zagorski (0)
Wednesday March 14, 2007, 7:42 pm
Thank you, Bryan. This just cannot be said enough. If only we could somehow inject negative, despairing people with this truth - this could really be a wonderful world!

Gina D. (1)
Saturday March 17, 2007, 8:37 pm
attitude is everything!!!! And everybody gives us each our own , from the way your raised, to the way youve been treated!!!!!!

Betina Khoury (0)
Sunday March 18, 2007, 5:02 pm
I agree 100% and I add that we should improve our present actions instead of looking to past and regretting our mistakes. So we should live everyday as if it is our last one and try to live positively.

Marianne Covert (4)
Wednesday March 21, 2007, 4:04 pm
wow that is awesome and very true.thanks for the reminder
huggs
Marianne

Elga Mackie (3)
Thursday March 29, 2007, 6:08 am
Loved your post Bryan, it serves to remind us all to at least attempt to have better attitudes!. Like the film 'crash' message gets accross that we need to respect each other and there is no better way than having a good 'attitude'

Trisha Springstead Rn (17)
Thursday March 29, 2007, 6:49 am
I get it Friend, We have to get up every morning and Thank Our higher power for what we have. The Movie, The Secret is a bit materialistic, but it is a Great Book and Movie.
Sending Lots of Love and Light Your Way,
Trisha R. Springstead RN

Adrian T. (3)
Thursday March 29, 2007, 10:13 am
Great words of wisdom my friend...

Guadalupe B. (8)
Saturday March 31, 2007, 5:55 am
Well said Charles, if more people will keep an eye to their attitude, another life this will be. You hit right in the nail.
Keep up the good work.

Bryan H. (201)
Wednesday April 4, 2007, 10:08 pm
Character cannot be developed in ease and quiet. Only through experience of trial and suffering can the soul be strengthened, ambition inspired, and success achieved. - Helen Keller (((Pretty bright woman))) "Its all about attitude,everyones human,different in many ways but if we harness the negative attitives channeling our struggles / were all human. Talking to a friend is half the battle - get rid of fears angers frustrations
Love and Blessings Bryan

Sheila Gencalp (8)
Friday April 6, 2007, 9:32 am
Bravo! Well said.

Osama Asad (2)
Sunday April 8, 2007, 7:48 am
7 RULES 2 BE HAPPY:
1>never hate.
2>don't worry.
3>live simple.
4>expect a little.
5>give a lot.
6>always smile.
7>have a good "FRIEND" .....



like .....You

Eden M. (0)
Monday April 9, 2007, 12:19 pm
Nice post. Very very deep. i understand.

Lee B. (47)
Tuesday April 17, 2007, 10:17 am
I totally agree. Attitude is everything!!

Just Carole (327)
Monday April 23, 2007, 12:20 pm
Great message!

It's something I'm sure we all need to remind ourselves of whenever we find self-pity and negativity overwhelming our joy.

It, in fact, one of the reasons I ordered bracelets for some of my family and friends from AComplaintFreeWorld.org.

Thanks for the thought-provoker.

Shawneen Fraser (0)
Thursday May 3, 2007, 9:33 am
I think you're a 100% right.I'm just grasping the idea.It's not easy at first,but it is a choice and attitude can either make you or break you.

Satish Bhardwaj (0)
Thursday May 3, 2007, 11:13 am
You seem to be a philospher. I've no time for philosphy. I've no time for philosphy. I've a Pixels page at www.pixelblogs.blogspot.com. I spend my time promoting it. Yesterday I started a group for nusiness owners www.groups.msn.com/businessownersgroup.

I'm in a struggle to get recognition.

I hope you got your recognition.

Angela Hayden ART GODDESS (19)
Tuesday May 8, 2007, 8:41 am
Whether you think you can or can't, you're right!

Nancy Altmix (11)
Thursday May 10, 2007, 12:09 pm
THANKYOU,I AM GOING THROUGH SOME STUFF AND I AM GOING TO HANDLE IT WITH A DIFFERENT ATTITUDE THAN I WOULD HAVE IN MY PAST,GOD BLESS YOU!

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Friday May 11, 2007, 5:22 pm
This is so true. Take for example, if your in a great mood, and say you to to a drive thru, a grocery store or somewhere in a public place & you run into a person who is having a BAD day with a BAD attitude..if your not aware of the way the other persons attitude can change ours if we let it, if we let one persons anger affect our attitude in anyway. Or their bad attitude.

Ieva M. (49)
Thursday May 17, 2007, 5:07 pm
Bravo! Unfortunately, there are too many people who focuse on the bad things what happened in their past. Instead of looking forward they look back and poison their lives with negative energy. It is much easier to FORGIVE and go on!

Emad Ali (21)
Thursday May 17, 2007, 5:26 pm
ECXELLENT ABSTRACT,ATTITUDE IS REFLECTION OF PERSONALITY AND MOOD ...IT'S ALWAYS THE RIGHT SOURSE FOR CARISMA OF OTHERS ...THE IMPRESSION THAT IS INFLUENCED BY ATTITUDE IS NATURAL PHENOMENA OF HUMAN BEHAVIOUR ...THERE IS ALWAYS ACTION AND REACTION IN PHYSICAL STAT OF NATURE ,THIS IS FACT OF HUMAN DILY ACTIVITY WE SHOULD KEEP OUR LIFE FULL OF POSITIVE ATTITUDE TO LIVE HAPPINESS AND LOVE

David W. (0)
Friday May 18, 2007, 11:38 am
Charles is 100% right. I have a nephew with the most wonderful attitude and his life is one to be desired. He has everything going for him. HE has many friends, a good wife and wonderful adult children who are all doing well. He is generous to a fault and I believe all this is due to his attitude.

Tassa Rose (50)
Sunday May 20, 2007, 2:29 am
Thanks Bryan! I am in Recovery, and know that the ONLY person/Attitude that I can CHANGE is ME or my OWN. I needed this tonight~~oops, or early am! Have a Great Sunday, May 20th, 2007! Tassa

Theresa M. (10)
Tuesday May 22, 2007, 12:22 pm
beautiful, I concur!!!

Lee Campbell (0)
Tuesday May 22, 2007, 1:24 pm
Agreed. Very well said Bryan.

Laura Reisdorph (8)
Tuesday May 22, 2007, 3:43 pm
attitudes and intentions. nice.

Lalaine Baja (0)
Saturday May 26, 2007, 2:10 pm
yeah it's true....

Cindy Miller (0)
Monday May 28, 2007, 12:03 pm
What a true statement, Keep up the good attitude.

marie b. (0)
Thursday May 31, 2007, 5:08 am
All so true

Sue J. (1)
Tuesday June 5, 2007, 5:31 am
My favorite saying is... " If we have an attitude of gratitude,we can't be miserable". This is so true in my life.

yanyan Sh (623)
Tuesday June 5, 2007, 11:59 pm
Well said ! I definitely agree with you !
Thanks alot.

Rachel Weaver (78)
Saturday June 9, 2007, 11:08 am
That's very true.
You can change so much with your attitude.

Rachel Weaver (78)
Saturday June 9, 2007, 11:08 am
That's very true.
You can change so much with your attitude.

Virginia R. (4)
Monday June 18, 2007, 4:23 pm
Very excellent!I was diagnosed last March(2006) with a brain disease that is terminal.I also believe that life is 10% of what happens to us and 90% of how we react to it! We can choose to let life get to us or stand and fight to make it what we want it to be.I chose to live and be the best and do the best I could do!

christine Georgiadis (0)
Saturday July 7, 2007, 6:41 pm
l tottaly agree with you my friend....having a good attitude to get through this life is more imporant than all this negitive stuff...and only we can change our attitude..thankyou

Sonya G. (2)
Sunday July 8, 2007, 10:41 am
Wise Words Spoken !!!

Maria Magdalena Jimenez (303)
Thursday July 19, 2007, 12:03 am
It will be Onederful if everyone had the Attitude of Gratitue! Thank you for a wOnederful post.

Mary Hendrix (0)
Tuesday July 24, 2007, 9:19 pm
Thank you for this inspiring and uplifting message. Your attitude determines your altitude.
:o)

Gini Brown (13)
Thursday July 26, 2007, 8:44 am
This has always been my favorite quote and also appears on my page as well. It is a great way to experience life in this thought form.

Michele Via (6)
Wednesday August 1, 2007, 9:13 am
thanks for posting..

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Monday August 6, 2007, 9:15 pm
Very well said. You couldn't have posted the better and more appropriate quotation if you would try and try and try...:) Something that everyone should print out and frame.

Eric Chestnut (0)
Friday August 17, 2007, 8:53 pm
Charles, I THINK there are many srtings as there are many emotions all deserving and waiting to be struck, strummed or brushed by discilpline, passion, knowledge, emotion, and oh yes, perhaps, alittle attitude. Make it a fact that you're sweating, breathing heavy, and cleansed when the measure has run its course to your satifaction. Let your thoughts be foucused and resolute. Let your attitude be the product of these things. Rely on attitude too much, as if it stands alone and defines a person,your ability to effectively react will decrease. We are the captains of our own ships and we all need more than one string too convey the pitch and tones of life.90%is the wind of life blowing 10% is catching it. Is your attitude justified and dressed for the occasion? Is it thought out and earned? Is it backed by passion, facts, and the truth? and is it restrained in some way? no one wants a paper cut supplied by someone elses ego. Alot of times we can make a change in the way people act, for example guilt is a powerful weopon, as is love, as is truth.

Sravani Mylavarapu (0)
Monday August 20, 2007, 8:39 am
That was awesome.

Miriam Dodd (0)
Wednesday August 22, 2007, 5:46 am
very good really glad i found it many thanks for the great words

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Wednesday August 22, 2007, 1:41 pm
This is cool. Thanks for sharing.

Helene Crowe (10)
Saturday August 25, 2007, 3:00 am
Fantastic Bryan.Take responsibility for self and for the moment.Still practising but know that I become a better person every day.Thankyou,warm thoughts.

Cindy R. (17)
Sunday August 26, 2007, 1:11 pm
Very well put!
And so very true!

Lawrence Earl (0)
Tuesday September 4, 2007, 11:52 pm
What the hell did you do?
Check your attitude,"Killer".

Steve Claughton (17)
Thursday September 6, 2007, 9:50 am
You need to believe in genies

The Genie


A Husband takes his wife to play her first
game of golf.....Of course,the wife promptly
hacked her first shot right through the window of the
biggest house adjacent to the course.


The husband cringed, "I warned you to be
careful! Now we'll have to go up
there find the owner apologize and see how much
your lousy drive is goin' to cost us."

So the couple walked up to the house and knocked
on the door. A warm voice said, "Come on in."

When they opened the door they saw the damage
that was done: glass was all over the place,
and a broken antique bottle was lying' on its side near
the broken window.
A man reclinin' on the couch asked, "Are you the people
that broke my window?" "Uh...yeah, sir.
We're sure sorry about that," the husband replied.
"Oh, no apology is necessary. Actually I want to thank
you. You see, I'm agenie, and I've been trapped in that
bottle for a thousand years. Now that you've released
me, I'm allowed to grant three wishes. I'll give you
each one wish, but if you don't mind, I'll keep the last
one for myself."
"Wow, that's great!" the husband said. He pondered
a moment and blurted out, "I'd like a million dollars
a year for the rest of my life." "No problem," said the
genie. "You've got it, it's the least I can do. And
I'll guarantee you a long, healthy life!"

" And now you, young lady, what do you want?" the
genie asked. "I'd like to own a gorgeous home
complete with servants in every country in the
world,"she said.
"Consider it done," the genie said. "And your homes
will always be safe from fire, burglary and
natural disasters!"

"And now," the couple asked in unison, "what's your
wish, genie?"
"Well,
since I've been trapped in that bottle and haven't
been with a woman in more than a thousand years,
my wish is to have sex with your wife."

The husband looked at his wife and said, "Gee, honey,
you know we both now have a fortune, and all those
houses. What do you think?"
She mulled it over for a few moments and said,
"You know, you're right. Considerin' our good fortune,
I guess I wouldn't mind, but what about you, honey?"

"You know I love you sweetheart," said the husband.
"I'd do the same for you!"

So the genie and the woman went upstairs where they
spent the rest of the afternoon enjoying' each other.
The genie was insatiable.
After about three hours of non-stop sex, the genie
rolled over and looked directly into her eyes and asked
"How old are you and your husband?"
"Why, we're both 35," she responded breathlessly.
"No Kiddin'. Thirty-five years old and both of you still
believe in genies?"


Andrew R. (8)
Sunday September 9, 2007, 5:52 pm
OMG. i think about that and it goes really Deep!
Thnx

Cyd Colbert (20)
Monday September 10, 2007, 9:35 am
I couldn't agree more.... yes these are true words of wisdom! Thanks for sharing.

Cyd

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Tuesday September 18, 2007, 11:47 am
For Real!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
http://www.thepetitionsite.com/takeaction/7
25819003?z00m=9695865
Candace-Medford

Annie Neimand (8)
Wednesday September 19, 2007, 10:09 am
Hey man I agree.. you might want to look into the law of attraction and even some Hindu Yogas. I like to think in terms of Jnana yoga and it really helps me deal with stress that comes with this idea... ok have a good day
annie

John M D. (0)
Thursday September 20, 2007, 5:36 am
very nicely put

Andrea K. (0)
Sunday October 7, 2007, 9:47 am
Today is my first day with Care2, the website. (I thought it was just petitions that arrived in my email.) I've been exhausted and aggravated all week, and this is the first blog I've read.

I feel so much better already! Bryan, Thank-You!

Rebecca S. (0)
Sunday October 7, 2007, 2:38 pm
Positive Mental Attitude!Yes!
Leave the negatives behind and be POSITIVE!
Have faith and Believe. Be connected with your inner spirit and your maker. Can't help but be positive.

Lynn Kane (53)
Saturday October 13, 2007, 3:56 am
I've read that quote before and always felt that it was the other way around... Not that I disagree with your reasoning, yet, There are other definitions for the word 'attitude', some things in our lives are deeply engrained and it's not so simple to forget what we have gone through, as an example, One goes through a war, and comes out the other side relieved to be alive, and then another wishes he had died with his friends. Is that attitude? Some people feel so deeply about their personal experiences that they never get over them. You seem a rational individual and I value your opinion, but Attitude is a vast word that has many connontations that are misconstrued and pidgeonholed. Have a good evening, Bryan.. Thanks for letting me give my 'twist' on your topic.. Lynn M. Kane

Eve E. (19)
Thursday October 25, 2007, 1:17 am
Although I think perhaps it sounds a bit harsh to someone who is struggling to keep a positive attitude, I think there is a lot of truth in this quote from Dr Wayne Dyer.
"If you believe that you don’t choose to be unhappy try to imagine this course of events. Each time you become unhappy you are subjected to some treatment you find unpleasant. Perhaps you are locked in a room alone for long periods of time or, conversely, forced into a crowded elevator where you must stand for days. You may be deprived of all food or forced to eat some dish you find particularly distasteful. Or perhaps you will be tortured – physically tortured by others, rather than mentally tortured by yourself. Imagine that you were subjected to any one of these punishments until you made your unhappy feelings go away. How long do you think you would continue to hold on to them? Chances are you would take control rather quickly. So the issue is not whether you can take control of your feelings, but whether you will."

Christin Shiver (1)
Thursday November 8, 2007, 7:32 am
I couldn't have said it better myself. Great Job

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Saturday November 10, 2007, 9:18 pm
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Tuesday November 13, 2007, 5:02 am
You are absolutely right.

Tarcea Smith (1)
Tuesday November 13, 2007, 5:50 pm