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Dec 10, 2006

Become aware of people with the can't help it's,wouldn't help if she/he could help it stories that are circulated during the holy days this time of year.. 
During this time of holy days we all hear lots of hard luck stories from a number of  people many of which are true while there are some which are not true..Feeling pity and showing compassion are very commendable but a person must be on the alert for those who use the warm giving hearts most people have during this time of year to gain undue wealth..
Pity is an  emotion,usually resulting from an encounter with an unfortunate, injured, or pathetic person or creature. A person experiencing pity will often have compassion on the person/creature, giving them aid or money. Many people pity the homeless,orphans,the terminally ill,and victims of rape and torture and those who use the warm giving hearts of honorable loving people this time of year to obtain wealth use this to their advantage..

Because pity will result in people aiding the pitiful, most people consider it a positive thing.Philosopher Friedrich Nietzsche,  however, believed that pity causes an otherwise normal person to feel the suffering  of others; "Pity makes suffering contagious," he says  . He felt that it is important not to make oneself feel superior to the person you are taking pity on. This imbalance could result in retaliation against the help. People value their sense of pride, and pity can negatively affect the situation.

As I pointed out previously it is very commendable to help someone in need but caution must be taken before help is rendered because there are people out there who will take from the needy to line their own pockets and I recommend all hard luck stories be fully checked out before giving..

There are some people who wallow in self pity and not make much effort toward helping themselves.. Self pity is thinking you are in a hopeless situation and all you can do is feel miserable and you don't know the appropriate action to take..People suffering from self pity should be referred to a counselor rather than be given other material things because self pity is an erosion of the spirit and emotions and unless it is brought under control often leads to self destruction resulting in self harm and even death..
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Posted: Sunday December 10, 2006, 5:50 pm
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Linda M. (13)
Sunday December 10, 2006, 8:03 pm
Excellent reminder that are not ALWAYS as they seem.

Jeffrey Obst (63)
Tuesday December 12, 2006, 6:55 am
don't cash there...checks..money orders..or send the cash through "western union" either!

Jon Simms (26)
Wednesday December 13, 2006, 7:46 am
Good advice.
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Sun Slave (102)
Saturday December 16, 2006, 8:35 am
I find the bit about Nietzsche's thought interesting and plan to read more (former Philosophy major here). In my work, I frequently enounter those in "helper" roles who feel above those they "help." Very aggrivating.

And a good reminder about being wise at the holidays.

Thanks for the post.

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