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Oct 29, 2010

Dear Reader, because at the English language there is a difference between she and he, for the purpose of writing this thing, I will use 'he' as the abuser, and 'she' as the victim. That doesn't mean that the 'he' is always the abuser, and 'she' is always the victim. The suggested law supposes that both women/men can be a victim or abuser.
                                                            

At this post I am interested to talk about Holli Kenley's model. I got her permission to use her material.

I am talking about the model of Holli Kenley that you can find in her book:
Holli Kenley:Breaking Through Betrayal: And Recovering the Peace Within, Loving Healing Press, Inc., 2009

According to Holli Kenley's model, at a given point a victim "recognizes the states of her being that she is going through her marriege", namely : she finally understands the stages of abuse she went throught her marriege.

At the beginning of her marriege, there was the stage of the confusion. At the later stage of her marriege the wife starts to feel that feeling of worthlessness. Then finally the abused wife arrived at the abusive stage where she has that feeling of powerlessness.

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