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After 21 years of marriage, my wife wanted me to take another woman out to
dinner and a movie.

She said, "I love you, but I know this other woman loves you and would love
to spend some time with you."

The other woman that my wife wanted me to visit was my MOTHER, who has been
a widow for 19 years, but the demands of my work and my three children  had
made it possible to visit her only occasionally.

That night I called to invite her to go out for dinner and a movie.

"What's wrong, are you well," she asked?

My mother is the type of woman who suspects that a late night call or a
surprise invitation is a sign of bad news.
"I thought that it would be pleasant to spend some time with you," I
responded "Just the two of us."

She thought about it for a moment, and then said,  "I would like that very

That Friday after work, as I drove over to pick her up I was a bit nervous.

When I arrived at her house, I noticed that she, too, seemed to be nervous
about our date.

She waited in the door with her coat on.

She had curled her hair and was wearing the dress that she had worn to
celebrate her last wedding anniversary.

She smiled from a face that was as radiant as an angel's.

"I told my friends that I was going to go out with my son, and they were
impressed," she said, as she got into the car. "They can't wait to hear
about our meeting."

We went to a restaurant that, although not elegant, was very nice and cozy.

My mother took my arm as if she were the First Lady.

After we sat down, I had to read the menu.

Her eyes could only read large print.

Half way through the entries, I lifted my eyes and saw Mom sitting there
staring at me. A nostalgic smile was on her lips. "It was I who used to
have to read the menu when you were small,"she said

"Then it's time that you relax and let me return the favor," I responded.

During the dinner, we had an agreeable conversation nothing extraordinary
but catching up on recent events of each other's life.
We talked so much that we missed the movie.

As we arrived at her house later, she said,
"I'll go out with you again, but only if you let me invite you."

I agreed

"How was your dinner date?" asked my wife when I got home.

"Very nice Much more so than I could have imagined," I answered.

A few days later, my mother died of a massive heart attack. It happened so
suddenly that I didn't have a chance to do anything for her.

Some time later, I received an envelope with a copy of a restaurant receipt
from the same place mother and I had dined. An attached note said: "I paid
this bill in advance. I wasn't sure that I could be there; but
nevertheless, I paid for two plates - one for you and the other for your
wife. You will never know what that night meant for me. I love you, son."

At that moment, I understood the importance of saying in time: "I LOVE YOU"
and to give our loved ones the time that they deserve.

Nothing in life is more important than your family.

Give them the time they deserve,  because these things cannot be put off
till "some other time."


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Posted: Monday February 26, 2007, 8:39 am
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Aaron Schifman (9)
Monday February 26, 2007, 11:41 am
Nice story...touching with a point that hits home.

Karin B. (328)
Tuesday February 27, 2007, 1:48 am
Moving and really true
Not all of us get this chance in time
Thanks for sharing it!



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