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May 3, 2006

As a Diabled guy I have WAY too much time on my hands.
People like to have me listen to them and give them advice...which is a good thing...it's probably how I met you through the varied interests.

So as a former crisis counselor, I help out the police with www.pervertedjustice.com at times.

As a Benedictine Oblate I took a vow of chastity. So yeah, I don't mess around like that. At our age, it drives my lady friend nuts. www.osb.org

Other times I am here only as myself and representing only myself. Warts and all. Luckily, I do know that catching predators is on the uptick.

Unfortunately, there are those who are not here for the community. Please my dear friends, please be safe.


THIS IS REALLY SCARY FOR KIDS USING INTERNET MY SPACE.



Shannon could hear the footsteps behind her as she walked toward home. The thought of being followed made her heart beat faster. "You're being silly, she told herself, "no one is following you." To be safe, she began to walk faster, but the footsteps kept up with her pace. She was afraid to look back and she was glad she was almost home. Shannon said a quick prayer, "God please get me home safe." She saw the porch light burning and she leaned against the door for a moment, relieved to be in the safety of her home. She glanced out the window to see if anyone was there. The sidewalk was empty.


After tossing her books on the sofa, she decided to grab a snack and get on-line. She logged on under her screen name ByAngel213. She checked her Buddy List and saw GoTo123 was on.


She sent him an instant message:


By Angel213:


Hi. I'm glad you are on! I thought someone was following me home

today.. It was really weird!


GoTo123:


LOL You watch too much TV. Why would someone be following you? Don't you live in a safe neighbourhood?


ByAngel213:


Of course I do. LOL I guess it was my imagination cuz' I didn't see anybody when I looked out.


GoTo123:


Unless you gave your name out on-line. You haven't done that have you?


ByAngel213:


Of course not. I'm not stupid you know.


GoTo123:


Did you have a softball game after school today?


ByAngel213:


Yes and we won!!


GoTo123:


That's great! Who did you play?


ByAngel213:


We played the Hornets. LOL. Their uniforms are so gross! They look like bees. LOL


GoTo123:


What is your team called?


ByAngel213:


We are the Canton Cats. We have tiger paws on our uniforms. They are really cool.


GoTo123:


Did you pitch?


ByAngel213:


No I play second base. I got to go. My homework has to be done before my parents get home. I don't want them mad at me. Bye!


GoTo123:


Catch you later. Bye


Meanwhile.....GoTo123 went to the member menu and began to search for her profile. When it came up, he highlighted it and printed it out. He took out a pen and began to write down what he knew about Angel so far.


Her name: Shannon


Birthday: Jan. 3, 1985


Age: 13


State where she lived: North Carolina


Hobbies: softball, chorus, skating and going to the mall.


Besides this information, he knew she lived in Canton because she had just told him. He knew she stayed by herself until 6:30 p.m. every afternoon until her parents came home from work. He knew she played softball on Thursday afternoons on the school team, and the team was named the Canton Cats. Her favorite number 7 was printed on her jersey. He knew she was in the eight grade at the Canton Junior High School. She had told him all this in the conversations they had on- line. He had enough information to find her now.


Shannon didn't tell her parents about the incident on the way home from the ball park that day. She didn't want them to make a scene and stop her from walking home from the softball games. Parents were always overreacting and hers were the worst. It made her wish she was not an only child. Maybe if she had brothers and sisters, her parents wouldn't be so overprotective.


By Thursday, Shannon had forgotten about the footsteps following her. Her game was in full swing when suddenly she felt someone staring at her. It was then that the memory came back. She glanced up from her second base position to see a man watching her closely. He was leaning against the fence behind first base and he smiled when she looked at him. He didn't look scary and she quickly dismissed the fear she had felt.


After the game, he sat on a bleacher while she talked to the coach. She noticed his smile once again as she walked past him. He nodded and she smiled back. He noticed her name on the back of her shirt. He knew he had found her. Quietly, he walked a safe distance behind her. It was only a few blocks to Shannon's home, and once he saw where she lived he quickly returned to the park to get his car.


Now he had to wait. He decided to get a bite to eat until the time came to go to Shannon's house. He drove to a fast food restaurant and sat there until it was time to make his move.


Shannon was in her room later that evening when she heard voices in the living room.


"Shannon, come here," her father called. He sounded upset and she couldn't imagine why. She went into the room to see the man from the ballpark sitting on the sofa.


"Sit down," her father began, "this man has just told us a most interesting story about you."


Shannon sat back. How could he tell her parents anything? She had never seen him before today!


"Do you know who I am, Shannon?" the man asked.


"No," Shannon answered.


"I am a police officer and your online friend, GoTo123."


Shannon was stunned. "That's impossible! GoTo is a kid my age! He's 14 and he lives in Michigan!"


The man smiled. "I know I told you all that, but it wasn't true. You see, Shannon, there are people on-line who pretend to be kids; I was one of them. But while others do it to find kids and hurt them, I belong to a group of parents who do it to protect kids from predators. I came here to find you to teach you how dangerous it is to talk to people on-line. You told me enough about yourself to make it easy for me to find you. Your name the school you went to, the name of your ball team and the position you played. The number and name on your jersey just made finding you a breeze."


Shannon was stunned. "You mean you don't live in Michigan?"


He laughed. "No, I live in Raleigh. It made you feel safe to think I was so far away, didn't it?"


She nodded.


"I had a friend whose daughter was like you. Only she wasn't as lucky. The guy found her and murdered her while she was home alone. Kids are taught not to tell anyone when they are alone, yet they do it all the time on-line. The wrong people trick you into giving out information a little here and there on-line. Before you know it, you have told them enough for them to find you without even realizing you have done it. I hope you've learned a lesson from this and won't do it again. Tell others about this so they will be safe too?"


"It's a promise!"
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Posted: Wednesday May 3, 2006, 9:54 pm
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Mo AcceptNoSubstitutes (326) 		Wednesday May 3, 2006, 10:28 pm
Oh, too easy. Oh, too scary. Oh, too true.

Some years ago, I ran into a situation where my 12'ish goddaughter was filling out a questionairre with all pertinent information to find a child. I was faced with breaking confidence with her and her safety: telling her Mother. A split second hesitation. I told her Mother.

I later explained the necessity of sharing that confidence with her Mother. She graciously understood...or had the generosity of spirit to pretend..

She is now an extraordinary young woman in college.

I hope I erred on the side of caution.

NO REGRETS!

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