I am a big, warm, kind but ferocious Bear (not a teddy bear). An equalist. Danish, well spoken, loyal, caring, history buff, spiritual, ACDF, socially anxious, musical, artistic, dog owner, married, and Jewish.
What am I about?
My life is dedicated to Tikkun Olam - Mending The World - if need be one being at a time. I don't have time for stupidity, I have no patience with arrogance, false humility, hypocrisy or intellectual dishonesty. If I think you are either of the above, I will call you on it. I will say that the Emperor is naked, even if the whole world says he is dressed and even if it hurts the Emperor's feelings.
I am very passionate about Human Rights, Children's Rights and Equal Rights, and chances are that if you are not, I am going to be up your rear with a chainsaw.
I believe that G-d, the Creator of all there is, meant us to be His hands, eyes and voice to each other in Life. That is the task we have been charged with, and that is what we are here to do. It doesn't matter to me what path you choose to do this on, as long as that is what you are doing.
In addition to being a Bear, I am also an Ogre - like Shrek - and like all Ogres I am bound to respond forcefully to kicks in the groin, burnings of my house, beating of my kids and friends. I am also VERY grumpy in the morning. I am true to myself, not to you or to social conventions. I have been through and seen so much bull crap and horse manure in my life, that I'll bet my last dime that I recognize both when they come across my path. If you poop on my floor, I will ask you to scoop it up and put it in the trash. If you do, that's the last you will hear about it, if you don't, if you don't, I'll come after to you till you do or one of us die, which ever comes first.
Here are all the blogs that I am allowed to link to on Care2:
Jay Leno made a booboo - he asked actor Ryan Phillips to give his "gayest look" on national TV and the Gay Community is up in arms demanding Leno apologize. He did.
At the same time a Trans Man (female to male transsexual) is being referred to as "she" and lambasted as "damaging the GLBT's chances of having Civil and Equal Rights by going public with being pregnant", by members of the Gay Community. Here's a quote that summarize the stance of some:
[I am] "caring deeply about what his act of self promotion has done to my fight for basic civil rights and the perception at large of our community."
This comment is trans phobic.
Why? Because the the writer fears that the fact that a trans man choosing to become pregnant and going public with it, which might actually be good for other trans people, as well as people not yet aware that they are trans people, will adversely affect how the US public will see him (the Gay writer) and the Gay Community in general. It is fully comparable to a family disowning their Gay son, out of fear of what their neighbors and neighbors' neighbors will be thinking of THEM. We all say that is homophobic. This Gay Man is doing the same with Thomas Beattie, and it is connected to Thomas being a trans man, pregnant and publicizing it. If he wasn't there would be no story and no reason for the Gay man in question to fear that he will be perceived adversely by the general Public.
The hypocrisy of Minorities is sad.
Why are members of the GLB Community allowed to be this blatantly trans phobic while at the same time demanding that non-GLB's apologize for perceived offenses against Gays?
I, as a Trans Man, have absolutely no difficulty seeing how "give your gayest look..." is offensive to Gays. However Gays apparently have great difficulties seeing that referring to a man as "she" is derogatory, offensive, and in this case trans phobic.