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Dec 5, 2009

USED vs LOVED

While a man was polishing his new car,
his 4 yr old son picked up a stone
and scratched lines on the side of the car.

In anger, the man took the child's hand

and hit it many times not realizing
he was using a wrench.

At the hospital, the child lost all his fingers

due to multiple fractures.

When the child saw his father.....

with painful eyes he asked, 'Dad when will my fingers grow back?'

The man was so hurt and speechless;

he went back to his car and kicked it a lot of times.

Devastated by his own actions..... .

sitting in front of that car he looked at the scratches;

the child had written
'LOVE YOU DAD'.
The next day that man committed suicide. . .

Anger and Love have no limits;

choose the latter to have a beautiful, lovely
life
& remember this:

Things are to be used and people are to be loved.
The problem in today's world is

that people are used while things are loved.

Let's try always to keep this thought in mind:

Things are to be used,
People are to be loved.


Watch your thoughts; they become words.
Watch your words; they become actions.
Watch your actions; they become habits.
Watch your habits; they become character;
Watch your character; it becomes your destiny.


I'm glad a friend forwarded this to me as a reminder..

I hope you have a good day no matter what problems you may face

it's the only day you'll have before it's over.

From Arv.B. 12/04/2009

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Posted: Dec 5, 2009 5:51pm
Apr 6, 2009

Beauty of Mathematics !!!!!!!

1 x 8 + 1 = 9
12 x 8 + 2 = 98
123 x 8 + 3 = 987
1234 x 8 + 4 = 9876
12345 x 8 + 5 = 98765
123456 x 8 + 6 = 987654
1234567 x 8 + 7 = 9876543
12345678 x 8 + 8 = 98765432
123456789 x 8 + 9 = 987654321

1 x 9 + 2 = 11
12 x 9 + 3 = 111
123 x 9 + 4 = 1111
1234 x 9 + 5 = 11111
12345 x 9 + 6 = 111111
123456 x 9 + 7 = 1111111
1234567 x 9 + 8 = 11111111
12345678 x 9 + 9 = 111111111
123456789 x 9 +10= 1111111111

9 x 9 + 7 = 88
98 x 9 + 6 = 888
987 x 9 + 5 = 8888
9876 x 9 + 4 = 88888
98765 x 9 + 3 = 888888
987654 x 9 + 2 = 8888888
9876543 x 9 + 1 = 88888888
98765432 x 9 + 0 = 888888888

Brilliant, isn't it?

And look at this symmetry:

1 x 1 = 1
11 x 11 = 121
111 x 111 = 12321
1111 x 1111 = 1234321
11111 x 11111 = 123454321
111111 x 111111 = 12345654321
1111111 x 1111111 = 1234567654321
11111111 x 11111111 = 123456787654321
111111111 x 111111111 = 12345678987654321


Now, take a look at this...

101%

From a strictly mathematical viewpoint:


What Equals 100%?
What does it mean to give MORE than 100%?

Ever wonder about those people who say they are giving more than 100%?

We have all been in situations where someone wants you to
GIVE OVER 100%.

How about ACHIEVING 101%?


What equals 100% in life?


Here's a little mathematical formula that might help
answer these questions:


If:

A B C D E F G H I J K L M N O P Q R S T U V W X Y Z

Is represented as:

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26.


If:

H-A-R-D-W-O- R- K


8+1+18+4+23+ 15+18+11 = 98%

And:

K-N-O-W-L-E- D-G-E
11+14+15+23+ 12+5+4+7+ 5 = 96%

But:


A-T-T-I-T-U- D-E

1+20+20+9+20+ 21+4+5 = 100%

THEN, look how far the love of God will take you:


L-O-V-E-O-F- G-O-D


12+15+22+5+15+ 6+7+15+4 = 101%


Therefore, one can conclude with mathematical certainty that:

While Hard Work and Knowledge will get you close, and Attitude will
get you there, It's the Love of God that will put you over the top!

It's up to you if you share this with your friends & loved ones just
the way I did..

Have a nice day & be blessed!!

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Posted: Apr 6, 2009 9:13pm
Mar 21, 2009
Some people just don't understand
How you can have friends in a far away land.
Some may come from France, California,
Pennsylvania, Japan, Canada or Spain,
But no matter where they are from,
The friendship remains.


People


Some are close and even from your home state,
Some are on earlier, others are on late.
An internet friend listens, suggests,
And may complain,
But no matter where they are from,
The friendship remains.


People


Some internet friends have never met,
And others met just once,
Some have joined one another for dinners,
Others have for lunch.
You are my internet friend,
We have a wonderful time.
Of the friends on the internet,
I'm glad you're mine.


People


Please stay in touch.
I am glad I am your friend
And also that you are mine!

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Posted: Mar 21, 2009 5:10pm
Mar 7, 2009

The Geography of a Woman
------------ --------- --------- --------- ---------- ---------- ---------- ------

~*Between the ages of 18 - 21 a woman is like Africa or Australia. She is half discovered, half wild and naturally beautiful with bushland around the fertile deltas.

~*Between the ages of 21 - 30 a woman is like America or Japan. Completely discovered, very well developed and open to trade especially with countries with cash or cars.

~*Between the ages of 30 - 35, she is like India or Spain. Very hot, relaxed and convinced of its own beauty.

~*Between the ages of 35 - 40 a woman is like France or Argentina. She may have been half destroyed during the war but can still be a warm and desirable place to visit.

~*Between the ages of 40 - 50 she is like Yugoslavia or Iraq. She lost the war and is haunted by past mistakes. Massive reconstruction is now necessary.

~*Between the ages of 50 - 60 she is like Russia or Canada. Very wide, quiet and the borders are practically unpatrolled but the frigid climate keeps people away.

~*Between the ages of 60 - 70 a woman is like England or Mongolia. With a glorious and all conquering past but alas no future
...After 70, they become Albania or Afghanistan. Everyone knows where it is, but no one wants to go there. 

HAPPY WOMAN'S DAY @ MARCH 8, 2009 WITH LOVE, NEG

 

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Posted: Mar 7, 2009 4:54pm
Dec 11, 2008

 Here is a story about Rosita and Pedro (it's below). 

                                      




It's a romantic full  moon, when Pedro said, "Hey, mamacita, let's do Weeweechu."

"Oh no, not  now, let's look at the moon!" said Rosita.

"Oh, c'mon baby, let's you  and I do Weeweechu. I love you and it's the perfect time," Pedro  begged.

"But I wanna just hold your hand and watch the moon." replied  Rosita.

"Please, corazoncito, just once, do Weeweechu with  me."

Rosita looked at Pedro and said, "OK, one time, we'll do  Weeweechu."

Pedro grabbed his guitar and they both  sang.....
 


"Weeweechu a Merry Christmas, Weeweechu a Merry Christmas,  Weeweechu a Merry Christmas, and a Happy New Year."

MERRY  CHRISTMAS!!!!!
 

 

 

 

 

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Posted: Dec 11, 2008 8:48pm
Aug 10, 2008

 I was enjoying life alone.
My soul was mine to control.
But then you came into my life,
now everything seems right.

In your arms, I feel secured,
and I love the feeling they endure.
Which makes my emotions go high,
I believe I can fly.

Your sweet tender kisses,
linger when you're missed.
And when we are apart,
You are still here in my heart

I never thought I could feel so whole,
when I gave away my soul.
But now I see, long ago, I was wrong
because now my heart is where it belongs

by MacLellan

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Posted: Aug 10, 2008 7:06pm
Aug 9, 2008
                                   Chance Or Choice...
 
 
*When we meet the right Person to love, When we're at the right place at the right time, That's chance.

When you meet someone you're attracted to,That's not a choice. That's chance.

Being caught up in a moment (and there are a lot of couples who get together because of this) is not a choice. That's also a chance.

The difference is what happens afterwards. When will you take that infatuation, That crush, That  mind-blowing attraction to the next level?

That's when all sanity goes back, You sit down and contemplate whether you want to make this into a concrete relationship or just a fling.

If you decide to love a person, Even with his faults, That's not a chance. That's choice.

When you choose to be with a person, No matter what, That's choice.

Even if you know there are many people out there who are more attractive, Smarter, And richer than your mate, And yet, You decide to love your mate just the same, that's choice.

Infatuation,Crushes,And attraction come to us
by chance.But true love that lasts is truly a
choice.A choice that we make.

Regarding soulmates,There's a beautiful movie quote that I believe is so true about this:& quot;Fate
brings you together,But it's still up to you to make it happen.& quot;

I believe that soulmates do exist,That there is truly someone made for you. But it's still up to you to ake the choice if you're going to do something about it or not.

We may meet our soulmates by chance, but loving and staying with our soulmate is still a choice we have to make.

We came to the world not by finding someone perfect to love, BUT to learn how to love an imperfect person perfectly.
 
From Mani to Negda
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Posted: Aug 9, 2008 7:39pm
Feb 21, 2008
Quotes have the power to change our mental state very quickly.

Just like books or movies, quotes can generate strong emotions, inspire, motivate or make us laugh – with the notable difference that we don’t need to invest hours of our time to experience the desired effect.

Quotes have the highest wisdom density you can get in a single sentence.

Moreover, you can use the quote as a shortcut for explaining your own established views to others. Having that easily communicable expression of an idea can be a springboard to start new discussions that wouldn’t happen otherwise.

I would say that a quicker way to know people is by taking a look at the quotes they collect.
Therefore I will drop you a few:

Knowledge Is Knowing That A Tomato Is A Fruit, Wisdom Is Not Putting It In A Fruit Salad.

A honest person is someone you could play checkers with over the phone

Fashion is a form of ugliness so intolerable that we have to alter it every six months.


Try not to become a man of success but rather to become a man of value.

Truth is what stands the test of experience.

Laws alone can not secure freedom of expression; in order that every man present his views without penalty there must be spirit of tolerance in the entire population.

Gravitation cannot be held responsible for people falling in love. How on earth can you explain in terms of chemistry and physics so important a biological phenomenon as first love? Put your hand on a stove for a minute and it seems like an hour. Sit with that special person for an hour and it seems like a minute. That's relativity.

By the time a man realizes that maybe his father was right, he usually has a son who thinks he's wrong.

To keep something to help you remember someone would be to admit you could forget them

Knowledge is often mistaken for intelligence. This is like mistaking a cup of milk for a cow.

We are born naked, wet, and hungry. Then things get worse

A major source of conflict in the world is the common misconception that words can be true or false.

If you never fail, you're not trying hard enough.

Always do right. This will gratify some people and astonish the rest.

When you judge others you do not define them you define yourself.

Don't part with your illusions. When they are gone you may still exist, but you have ceased to live.

Always forgive your enemies; nothing annoys them so much.

Freedom is not worth having if it does not include the freedom to make mistakes.

Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony.

I object to violence because when it appears to do good, the good is only temporary; the evil it does is permanent.

The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong.

Before you embark on a journey of revenge, dig two graves.


Forget injury, never forget kindness.

A true friend walks in when the rest of the world walks out.

Respect yourself and others will respect you.

What the superior man seeks is in himself is what the small man seeks is in others.

He who speaks without modesty will find it difficult to make his words good.

In the end, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends.

You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you.
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Posted: Feb 21, 2008 11:30am
Sep 27, 2007
Chippendale's 30th Reunion
Can you believe it, 30 years since these HOT Men! Came dancing into your lives.

 

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Then it all went wrong




 

CHIPPENDALES 30TH REUNION ...

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Sometimes life is FAIR.............................
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Posted: Sep 27, 2007 9:54am
Aug 17, 2007
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Ya' gotta' love the face on the dog!
Of all the junk we get over the Internet, occasionally we
get
something like this.
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