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Mar 17, 2007
the cliff’s notes version of your too brief life 

when you were born i cast your chart and trembled,
knowing what would be your worst temptation. it was all right there in that Scorpio moon, so badly aspected that an unhappy ending was inevitable.

but you grew and thrived, so smart, so quick to catch the nuances in other people’s souls so full of compassion for those who were frightened, who were lonely, who were treated unjustly. how many days, my beautiful son, did you go hungry because you gave your lunch money to the school collections taken up for those who suffered much worse hunger themselves? Why was it not surprising that children and animals, even those most wary of strangers, loved you?

those who had the sight immediately knew your soul was an old one, one that been around this circuit many times and seen and lived the lives of hundreds.

your generous heart was sometimes buried by your temper as you grew, but ask the ones who knew you best how many times you literally gave them the shirt off your back, the last dollar in your wallet (that you begged from me) so they could have some food, that ride they so desperately needed to the doctor, to the courtroom, to the dealer for that necessary score.

your angel's wings were furled but there all the same; you knew, somehow in your deepest being, that your time here would be brief. you told me so, not crying, not unhappy, just as matter-of-factly as if it was graffiti scrawled upon your soul.

you told me you felt would die soon, not long before you did, and always said that growing up was never part of what you wanted. you clung to those happiest memories of your childhood when life was no burden but an adventure to be savored.

it all came so easily to you that to do your best was never hard, although more times than i would have liked you settled for the gentlemanly C. you made your music with all that was you, except for the trumpet you ignored and only picked up to practice just before a concert or some other light occasion.

and now that the prophecy is fulfilled and you have left me lonely, missing you so deeply every day, i wonder just how many times you've nicked Gabriel’s horn to send forth that joyous music ever in your soul. 

© 2007 RC deWinter



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Posted: Mar 17, 2007 2:25pm
Feb 12, 2007

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Posted: Feb 12, 2007 6:19am
Feb 4, 2007

In the Shadow of the Lighthouse
The foghorn was blowing relentlessly, soft and sad, the night
     we first talked about forever.
Do you remember? We were at the shore.
It was an early October night, and you just weren't sleepy.
"Foghorns sound sad. How come?" you asked.
"Oh, maybe just because they have seen too many shipwrecks,"
     I answered.
You were silent for several minutes, and then you said,
     "Do you know what sailboats remind me of?"
"No," I replied. "Tell me."
You hugged me close around the neck and said,
     "Sailboats remind me of forever."
You spoke so softly in the misty, damp dark as we lay, peaceful,
     breathing in the salty air and listening
     to the the music of the crickets and the sea.
That was the night I first realized what an old soul inhabits
     your newly-minted child's body.
That was the night I discovered that you feel things like I do,
     the waves of the ages washing over you and binding you
     tightly to all time.
That was the night, lying in the shadow of the lighthouse,
     that I knew your path would be uphill, strewn with stones,
     not level, smooth as glass.
My path is rocky too.
My hand is here for you to hold when all the world seems
     gray and indecipherable, the mist too thick
     to penetrate alone.
I promise I will listen.
I cannot promise to agree, or even to always understand,
     but I can promise you I will listen.
If I can light a beacon in the woolly enveloping fog
     of the mysterious unfolding world,
     I will shine it brightly for you.
© 1998, 2007 Regina Coeli de Winter

My beloved son, Eben Lassen, died in his sleep
in the early morning hours of February 3rd, 2007.
Eben, I know you are sailing now.
I'll love you forever...


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Posted: Feb 4, 2007 5:59am
Feb 3, 2007

I treasure all your good wishes for my birthday...
Merci, Danke, Dank U, Grazie, Obrigado, ВЫ, takker De, Tack själv, Gracias, Dziękują, pasalamatan ka, Mulţumesc, Ddiolch 'ch, Muito obrigada, Благодаря ти, Hvala vam, Být zavázán tebe, Tak for lån, Kiittää te, ευχαριστώ, Köszönöm, Þakka þú, Hvala ti, eyvallah, shukria, THANK YOU!

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Sep 7, 2006
Please click this and enjoy the marvelous collection of history - I promise you will enjoy it!

You can click on the lower right where it says "lyrics" and it will display a caption and the year!


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Posted: Sep 7, 2006 4:19am
Sep 2, 2006

As reported by the AP on CNN:

Judge grants restraining order for tiny abused dog
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Posted: Sep 2, 2006 5:05am
Aug 27, 2006
From Agnes C.'s sharebook,,,,,,URGENT

I NEED YOUR HELP! SAVE ME! PLEASE, IF I DON´T GET A HOME, AT THE END OF THE MONTH I WILL BE KILLED...!


              JABAL

Hi there,You have received a message from Maiden Mary: Original Message: -----------------Original Message: -------
oh please help Jabal...one person is all that is needed...to save his life...I just talked to the guy at the shelter and many were adopted from the list though he was with people and could not tell me which he said JABAL IS STILL THERE AN URGENT...........please please....I know you do so much already......

one person...one home..is all Jabal needs!
I am giving him his own thread.....

Notes: SPALDING ID B06-550
THIS DOG IS SCHEDULED TO BE UNAVAILABLE AFTER 4:30 P.M. ON MONDAY, AUGUST 28, 2006... to be euthanized this day..please find a space in your heart and home for Jabal......


If you wish to adopt this dog, please CALL (do not e-mail) the shelter IMMEDIATELY at (770) 467-4772 to arrange for the paperwork to be filled out (in person or by fax) PRIOR to 4:30 p.m. on the dog's listed date.
Thank you!
 
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Jul 13, 2006


Thanks to Ratty for the link.

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Posted: Jul 13, 2006 5:17am
Jul 12, 2006
Iraqi Death Squad

From Regina’s Lair
Dateline:  July 12, 2006 - Middletown, CT


Donald Rumsfeld visited Iraq today and met with Iraq leaders to discuss the major escalation of civil violence in that country.

Well, guess what the outcome is?

General George Casey, the US commander in Iraq, is talking not only NO major troop withdrawals anytime soon, but also about the possibility of recalling and increasing the number of US soldiers there. The sectarian violence is so terrible that over 100 civilians have been killed in Iraq in the past couple of days by feuding factions of Iraqi citizens. Shia “death squads” are roaming freely, especially in Baghdad, killing other Iraqis with impunity.

Rumsfeld described the solution to the increasing civil violence as: as much a political as a security issue. Apparently, however, the pitiful puppet government we’ve installed in Iraq just isn’t ready to make decisions necessary to permit the United States to reduce US troop presence there. Iraq Prime Minister Nouri Maliki told lawmakers today that the government has one last chance to avert all-out civil war – the national reconciliation plan he rolled out in June.

Naturally, good ol’ Don has no prediction as to when Iraq might be able to take control of its own country. He claims that the Iraqi government is busily engaged in reviewing the entire situation as well developing and implementing ways to stimulate broader support from Sunnis and Shiites alike. To me, this is Bushspeak for “This government doesn’t know what the F**K it’s doing - so we’re going to have to stay here until officials figure out how to effectively lead a nation.”

 My take? I don’t know that there is any group in Iraq that can lead that country away from civil war – Bush’s brags to the contrary, the Iraq people have NO EXPERIENCE with democracy and no idea how to proceed to establish and nurture it. No country that is fundamentally a theocracy – again Bush’s claims to the contrary – is educated enough in diversity and freedom to understand the workings of a democratic republic. Of course, Georgie-Porgie doesn’t understand how to nurture a democracy either…hence the cursed mess we Americans are caught in.

IMHO, this latest crisis in Iraq pretty much seems to doom the chances of most of our brave and overtaxed troops returning home anytime in the near future. In fact, Iraqi war veterans may be recalled and sent out to the hellhole that Bush & Company, in their arrogance, hubris and deceit, has unleashed on the world.

© 2006 RC deWinter
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Posted: Jul 12, 2006 3:51pm
Jun 28, 2006
The following is a disquition from SNOPES on the effectiveness of e-petitions.It's a long read but worthwhile. This is kind of discouraging, but I hope you'll read this and leave your feedback here.


Claim:   Signing and circulating online petitions is an effective way of remedying important issues.
Status:   False.

Origins:   These past few years have seen the birth of an Internet phenomenon: the e-petition. It offers instant comfort to those outraged by the latest ills of the world through its implicit assurance that affixing their names to a statement decrying a situation and demanding change will make a difference. That assurance is a severely flawed one for a multitude of reasons.

Often petitions contain no information about whom they are ultimately intended for and instead are no more than outpourings of outrage. Expressions of outrage are fine and good, but if they don't reach someone who can have impact on the core problem, they're wasted. Thus, a petition that doesn't clearly identify the intended recipient may have some small value as a way for its signers to work off angst, but as an instrument of social change it fails miserably.

Even those that clearly identify the intended recipient don't come with a guarantee that the person slated to receive the document is in any position to influence matters. A misdirected petition is of no more use than an undirected one — though the voices it contains may be shouting, they won't be heard.

Even well-addressed, well-thought-out petitions have their problems, chief among them the lack of a guarantee that anyone is collecting and collating the signatures or will deliver the completed documents to the right parties. The mere existence of a petition doesn't warrant that anyone will do anything with it once it is completed.

Moreover, petitions aren't the instruments of social change we'd so dearly love to believe they are. Yes, a petition festooned with a zillion signatures can have some influence, but only as a tangible proof of a subset of public opinion, and only upon those whose welfare is dependent upon public opinion (eg. politicians). Those signatures aren't votes, and they aren't treated as such by the governing bodies that have to decide on the tough questions of our times. At best, they're seen as an indication of the public's will, no more.

Petitions calling for the erection of a firefighters memorial or to have next Thursday designated national performing arts day have some small hope of success, but all bets are off when the question becomes more complex ("Let's solve the problem of poverty in the USA") or when acts taking place on foreign soil are the subject of the angst ("Let's end child rape in South Africa"). Difficult problems don't suddenly yield up simple solutions just because a great many fervently hope they would, nor do foreign governments feel impelled to change conditions in their countries just because folks in other lands are upset by them.

All of the above applies to hand-signed and cyber petitions alike. E-petitions, however, have one further shortcoming inherent to them that entirely undercut any value the same documents might have had in paper-and-ink form.

Paper-and-ink petitions are signed in a variety of handwriting styles, each unique to its signer. Consequently, signatures on a paper-and-ink petition cannot easily be faked else certain glaring similarities would show up in one entry after another.

E-petitions, however, come with no such assurance — the same person could have generated all of the signatures. Moreover, it takes little by way of programming skills to create a sequence of code that will randomly generate fake names, e-mail addresses, and cities (or whatever combination of same the e-petition calls for). Once written, such a program can be executed with a keystroke, resulting in the effortless generation of thousands upon thousands of "signatures."

Those in a position to influence anything know this and thus accord e-petitions only slightly more respect than they would a blank sheet of paper. Thus, even the best written, properly addressed, and lovingly delivered e-petitions whose every signature was scrupulously vetted by the petition's creator fall into the same vortex of disbelief at the receiving end that less carefully shepherded missives find themselves relegated to.

Okay, so the average e-petition isn't ultimately worth the pixels it took to create it — why are they so popular?

In a world beset by complex problems, the solutions of which will take enormous amounts of time, money, and commitment, such simplification as the e-petition provides a welcome relief. Imagine having the power to solve those problems! Moreover, imagine having it merely at the click of a mouse!

Such is the appeal. A sense of powerlessness and lack of control over events played out on the grand scale becomes replaced by the certainty that real change can be brought about at the cost of no more effort than it takes to type a few characters on a keyboard, just enough to display one's name on a growing list of equally committed cyber activists. Through the magic of the e-petition, those left feeling like bystanders to important events are transformed into powerful agents for social change. It's heady stuff.

It's also illusion.

E-petitions are the latest manifestation of slacktivism, the search for the ultimate feel-good that derives from having come to society's rescue without having had to actually gets one's hands dirty or open one's wallet. It's slacktivism that prompts us to forward appeals for business cards on behalf of a dying child intent upon having his name recorded in the Guinness World Book of Records or exhortations to others to continue circulating a particular e-mail because some big company has supposedly promised that every forward will generate monies for the care of a particular dying child. Likewise, it's slacktivism that prompts us to want a join a boycott of designated gas companies or eschew buying gasoline on a particular day rather than reduce our personal consumption of fossil fuels by driving less and taking the bus more often.

Slacktivism comes in many forms (and there are many other illustrations of it on this web site; our goal was merely to offer a few examples rather than provide a definitive list), but its key defining characteristic is its central theme of doing good with little or no effort on the part of person inspired to participate in the forwarding, exhorting, collecting, or e-signing.

For many, e-petitions satisfy the need to feel they are doing good and thus somewhat quell that nagging feeling they should be doing more to make the world a better place. As such, they serve a purpose as an outlet — those who "sign" such missives experience a personal sense of accomplishment in tandem with the warming sensation of having come to society's aid. Good feels like it has been done in two directions — the signature helping a worthy cause, and the act of signing helping the person who was moved to add his name to the petition. E-petitions are sexy even when they don't have a hope in hell of helping to accomplish their stated goals because they afford us an opportunity to bestow upon ourselves a pat on the back rather than continue to feel guilty about not doing our part. That nothing is really getting accomplished is almost beside the point; we believe we've been part of something worthwhile and so feel better about ourselves.

Because e-petitions are as popular as they are, a number of web sites have sprung up to service the interest in them. That these web sites exist doesn't impart to the lowly cyber petition any more credibility than it previously had, nor does it imbue it with any more power to effect change. The presence of web sites devoted to them (even well-constructed authoritative-looking ones) changes nothing about e-petitions' inherent shortcomings. Those tempted to confuse the appearance of legitimacy with legitimacy itself should keep in mind that many a mark has been conned out of his life's savings by a smooth talker who had a fancy, seemingly well-staffed office and impressive letterhead. Looks ain't everything.

We're not going to offer an opinion on whether one site or another is legitimate (ie. the petitions it houses are actually delivered to those they were intended for and all the "signatures" visitors provide are actually appended to them). Those questions are far better directed by interested readers to the sites themselves. Rather, we're going to acquaint our readers with one further point they might not otherwise be taking into consideration.

Many of these sites display banner ads that generate revenues for the sites' operators. That means every time someone visits to view or sign a petition, the site's owners earn revenue. This happens whether or not there are any real petitions, whether or not any petitions are delivered to their stated recipients, whether or not the "signatures" collected are appended to them, whether or not only the "signatures" collected are appended (versus the site's owners adding to the list names they have generated). An entirely bogus petition site will make money for its owners just as well as a real one would because revenue is dependent on how many visit the site, not upon how many petitions are completed and delivered to the named recipients, nor upon how useful cyber petitions are.

Granted, a great many sites (e-petition and otherwise, such as this one) carry advertising banners, and granted, the revenues gained through that are often the only thing that keeps those sites operating. The presence of ads doesn't indicate anything about the quality or integrity of a site that bears them, but that those ads are there should be taken into consideration when musing "Does this site exist for the purpose I would otherwise think it does?"

No matter what else can be said against cyber petitions (and so far we've said a great deal), they do serve one actual valuable purpose: They can sometimes be useful tools with which to acquaint folks with situations they might otherwise have little, if any, knowledge of. For instance, in those days prior to the September 11 attacks and the subsequent war on the Taliban, a cyber petition decrying the condition of women in Afghanistan worked to enlighten many as to what was going on half a world away. That the premise of the petition was horribly flawed ("If only the Taliban knew they were doing a bad thing, they'd stop") doesn't change that it worked to bring information to people.
Of course, that same valid purpose could be better served by essays circulated on the Internet. Essays, at least, don't foster this growing climate of slacktivism, of participation at no cost, of lasting social change achieved through no effort.

Those truly committed to righting the wrongs of the world are encouraged to take pen in hand and craft actual letters to their congressmen or to whomever they deem are the appropriate people to contact about particular issues. Real letters (the kind that are written in a person's own words and sent through the regular mail) are accorded far more respect than form letters (let alone petitions), and that should be kept in mind by those intent upon being heard. Yes, the effort it takes is far larger. But so is the potential for making an actual difference.
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