Being yourself is important. If you are unhappy, make yourself happy. you are the only one that can.
Listen to your innerself, Do what you beleve in, Its ok to make others happy, but not if it harms you or any others, that includes critters of all walks of life.
If you cannot fix it, find a professional, we cannot possibly know it all, research anything you have any doubts about.
I am a researcher of herbs and beliefs, I believe there is some truth to all, much danger to many. respect all peoples.
I wish for world peace, all walks of life to be safe from harm, We all need ti think more of our sacred MOTHER EARTH!!!!