You don't love me!" How many times have your kids laid that one on you? And how many times have you, as a parent, resisted the urge to tell them how much?
Someday, when my children are old enough to understand the logic that motivates a mother, I'll tell them.
I loved you enough to insist you buy a bike with your own money that we could afford and you couldn't.
I loved you enough to be silent and let you discover your handpicked friend was a creep;
I loved you enough to make you return a Milky Way with a bite out of it to a drugstore and say, "I stole this."
I loved you enough to stand over you for two hours while you cleaned your bedroom, a job that would have taken me fifteen minutes.
I loved you enough to say, "Yes, you may go to Disney World on Mother's Day."
I loved you enough to let you see anger, disappointment, disgust and tears in my eyes.
I loved you enough not to make excuses for your lack of respect or you bad manners.
I loved you enough to admit that I was wrong and ask your forgiveness.
I loved you enough to ignore "what every other mother" did or said.
I loved you enough to let you stumble, fall, hurt and fail.
I loved you enough to let you assume the responsibility for your own actions, at 6, 10, and 16.
I loved you enough to figure you would lie about the party being chaperoned but forgave you for it after discovering I was right.
I loved you enough to shove you off my lap, let go of your hand, be mute to your pleas and insensitive to your demands...so that you had to stand alone.
I loved you enough to accept you for what you are, not what I wanted you to be.
But most of all, I loved you enough to say no when you hated me for it.
I am your constant companion. I am your greatest helper or your heaviest burden. I will push you onward or drag you down to failure. I am completely at your command.
Half the things you do, you might just as well turn over to me, and I will be able to do them quickly and correctly.
I am easily managed; you must merely be firm with me. Show me exactly how you want something done, and after a few lessons I will do it automatically.
I am the servant of all great men. And, alas, of all failures as well. Those who are great, I have made great. Those who are failures, I have made failures.
I am not a machine, though I work with all the precision of a machine. Plus, the intelligence of a man.
You may run me for profit, or run me for ruin; it makes no difference to me.
Take me, train me, be firm with me and I will put the world at your feet.
Smile at a stranger. Listen to someone's heart. Drop a coin where a child can find it. Learn something new, then teach it to someone else. Tell someone you are thinking of them. Hug a loved one. Don't hold a grudge. Don't be afraid to say "I"m sorry. Look a child in the eye and tell them how great they are. Don't kill that spider in your house, he's just lost, so show him the way out. Look beyond the face of a person into their heart. Make a promise, and keep it. Call someone, for no other reason than to just say "Hi". Show kindness to an animal. Stand up for what you believe in. Smell the rain, feel the breeze, listen to the wind, enjoy the sun. Use all your senses to their fullest. Cherish all your TODAYS...!!!
Great advice for today, any day, and EVERYDAY......
Alert: PLEASE SAVE THESE SWEET DOGS. THEY WILL BE GASSED SOON ! by Marla d.
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I don't care whether it's
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read and spread far and
wide. These poor babies
need help, they will be
put down in the next few
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Nov 8
Blog: The Vow by Deepak C.
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The Vow
Deepak Chopra - November
07, 2008
Dear Friends,
On November 7, 2008, at
9:45am , I, Deepak
Chopra, took a vow of
non-violence in my
thoughts, in my speech
and in my actions. I,
then, also had an
opportunity to ask the
almost 500 peop... more
Blog: Marilyn Ferguson: An Appreciation by Deepak C.
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Marilyn Ferguson: An
Appreciation
Deepak Chopra - November
07, 2008
Reagan was on the rise,
the anti-war movement had
sunk to a low ebb, and
the New Age was barely
christened when The
Aquarian Conspiracy
appeared in 1980.
Overnight Marilyn Fe... more
Blog: Convulsions, Sobs, and Laughter by Deepak C.
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Convulsions, Sobs, and
Laughter
Deepak Chopra - November
06, 2008
An article in the
Washington Post On Faith
section in response to
their question: What does
the election of Barack
Obama as president say
about America? What does
it say to the... more
Nov 4
Alert: SUPER URGENT !!! DOGGIES ON DEATH ROW !!! WIIL BE GASSED TOMORROW !!! by Marla d.
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Dear Friends,
Sorry to disturb you
again, but this is really
SUPER URGENT!!!
I have an updated list of
the 4 doggies which will
be murdered in a gas
chamber on November
5. I know it is
election time and yo... more
Blog: The Man Who Changed the World? by Deepak C.
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The Man Who Changed the
World?
Deepak Chopra - October
31, 2008
Wanting to change the
world is different from
having to. The latter is
what's expected of Barack
Obama if he's elected.
The huge crowds he keeps
attracting aren't looking
simply ... more
Blog: Will God Stop Voting? by Deepak C.
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Will God Stop Voting?
Deepak Chopra - October
29, 2008
An article in the
Washington Post On Faith
section in response to
their question: Is there
a religious reason to
vote for or against Obama
or McCain?There never
will be, and never should
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Oct 28
Alert: WAL-MART CAT FOOD RECALL !!! SALMONELLA RISK !!! by Marla d.
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Mars Petcare US Issues
Voluntary Recall of a
Limited Number of Bags of
SPECIAL KITTY®
Gourmet Sold at Wal-Mart
locations in Fifteen
States due to Potential
Salmonella Contamination
Contact:Debra FairMARS
PETCARE US(973) 691-3536
FOR IMMEDIATE R... more
Blog: Gay Marriage and the Democratic Hazard by Deepak C.
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Gay Marriage and the
Democratic Hazard
Deepak Chopra - October
23, 2008
"Moral hazard" is a
phrase more of us know in
this era of reckless
trading on Wall Street,
and now we can apply it
to politics. Traders who
use other people's money
aren'... more