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Aug 15, 2006
By Scott Malone Fri Aug 11, 1:35 PM ET


BOSTON (Reuters) - After 11 years of abuse, Susan Walsh knew her husband was a problem. He had threatened her, beat her and killed some of their turkeys and sheep, leaving the corpses out for her to find.


But the last straw came in 2001, when he killed her dog while she was out of town visiting family.

"He had run over my border collie, who was fairly old at that point," Walsh recalled in a phone interview. "She was blind and deaf and she never saw him coming. He just ran her over in the driveway."

Abusive spouses often use threats to pets to keep their victims from leaving, according to domestic abuse experts. To make it easier for those people to leave their abusers, domestic violence support groups and animal welfare advocates are lobbying for laws that protect pets from domestic abuse.

Maine, Vermont and New York were the first states to enact laws allowing judges to include pets in protection orders, which require abusers to stay away from their victims. The New Jersey and Illinois legislatures are considering similar measures.

"The desire to protect a pet is often a deterrent for women or victims leaving a situation like this, because they're afraid if they do, their pets will be harmed," said Sherry Lane of Caring Unlimited, a shelter in Sanford, Maine.

Despite the torment she experienced, Walsh and their two children stayed with her husband out of fear that if they left, he'd kill the rest of the animals on their 32-acre farm in Ellsworth, Maine, 250 miles northeast of Boston.

"He would use the animals and threats to them as a tool to try and control me -- 'If you try to leave, I can do this. I can do worse,"' Walsh said.

Amy, a domestic violence victim from Windsor County, Vermont, said having a pet on a protection order gets the police's attention.

After years of abuse, Amy's husband disappeared with her dog, and filed for divorce while in hiding, leaving her wondering what would befall her pet if she contested terms.

He wanted "to control me and for me to acquiesce, to say, 'Whatever you want, just give me back my dog,"' said Amy, who asked that her last name be withheld.

Two months after her husband disappeared, she learned the dog was being kept alone at an empty apartment a few miles away, fed by a local woman. She approached local police to get the dog back, but said her concerns were ignored.

"I felt that they were laughing at me, that it was, 'Come on, let's talk about what's important,"' Amy said.

She said she believes her experience would have been different if the new Vermont law was on the books then.

"If you call the police and say, 'I have an order of protection for my pet,' they are going to take it seriously because there is a reason. And without that, there's nothing," Amy said. "Is it going to protect you from a fist? No. But it's going to give you an edge."

While many women's shelters do not accept pets, programs like Pets and Women to Safety at the Animal Welfare Society of West Kennebunk, Maine, fill that void.

Steve Jacobsen, that shelter's executive director, said Caring Unlimited approached his group eight years ago, looking for a place to bring victims' pets.

His shelter now takes in 12 to 24 pets a year. Local volunteers care for them in their own homes. It's one of about 160 U.S. animal shelters that board pets of domestic violence victims, according to the Humane Society.

Domestic violence affects roughly 700,000 Americans each year, according to the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence.



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Nov 21, 2005
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The Ontario SPCA are doing really great work in Southern Ontario to bring down Puppy and Kitty Mills..Recentaly they have been able to get a law in the books for such things..

The Ontario SPCA Act clearly outlines the acceptable standar of care for anyone breeding dogs or cats for the purpose of sale.  This standard of care includes proper food, prompt and proper medical care, and clean, safe housing for the animals.

The maximum penalty for anyone who breaks this law is %60,000, up to two years in prision or both.  And they can be banned from owning animals again for the purpose of breeding for the rest of there lives.

Very proud that they have rescued thousands of dogs and puppies over the past 4 years.  But there are many thousands of helpless dogs and cats still out there - living in squalid conditions and being treated in a heartless, inhumane way.

MOre funding is needed now for the Ontario SPCA to expand their inestigations and finally put an end to this terrible business that creates so much needless suffering.

If you can help.. a donation in any way.. to help the SPCA with the care and medical needs.. the investigation cost of taking down these horrid puppy and kitty mills.. please please do.. the address is below where you can send donations.. or if you happen to be in the area, drop them off.. I am sure even non-monitary donations are greatly appreciated to help these poor creatures..

Ontario SPCA
16586 Woodbine Avenue
RR#3
Newmarket, Ontario
L3Y 4W1

Phone: 1 888 668 7722

If you would like to help by adopting an animal, you can view the animals by going to http://www.ospca.on.ca and clicking on Adopt an Animal

Thanks everyone for tkaing the time to read this.. feel free to send this to friends and family!

Martha

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