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Dharun Ravi Apologizes: Too Little Too Late? Sincere?

Dharun Ravi Apologizes: Too Little Too Late? Sincere?
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Dharun Ravi, the former Rutgers University student who was found guilty of using a webcam to spy on his Rutgers University roommate, Tyler Clementi and sentenced to 30 days in prison, apologized and said he took responsibility for what he had done. His apology came two days before he is to begin serving his 30-day sentence in the Middlesex County jail in New Brunswick, the same town that Rutgers is located in.

In a statement issued through his lawyer, Steven Altman, Ravi said:

“I accept responsibility for and regret my thoughtless, insensitive, immature, stupid and childish choices that I made on Sept. 19, 2010, and Sept. 21, 2010. My behavior and actions, which at no time were motivated by hate, bigotry, prejudice or desire to hurt, humiliate or embarrass anyone, were nonetheless the wrong choices and decisions. I apologize to everyone affected by those choices.”

After spying on Clementi in an intimate encounter with another man, Ravi joked about what he had seen on Twitter and in emails and texts. Clementi spent two days looking at Ravi’s postings on Twitter and threw himself off the George Washington Bridge on September 22, 2010.

According to the New York Times, Ravi said that “he did not want to say he was sorry during the sentencing because he thought it would sound insincere.”

This Wednesday morning, Ravi appeared in state Superior Court in New Brunswick and said that he is ready to start serving his sentence on Thursday. Ravi could end up only serving 20 days with good behavior. His sentence also requires that he serve 300 hours of community service and be on probation for three years.

Ravi’s lawyers and supporters argued throughout that he was being tried as if he were responsible for Clementi’s suicide.

The courtroom was full but not overflowing to an outer room as it had been during Ravi’s trial. Ravi’s family and supporters were present but not Joseph and Jane Clementi, the parents of Tyler Clementi.

Is Ravi’s Sentence Too Lenient?

Ravi was convicted in March of all 15 criminal counts, including second-degree bias intimidation, hindering his own apprehension and tampering with evidence. He faced up to ten years in state prison on two of the intimidation counts and also deportation as he is an Indian national.

As says,  Superior Court Judge Glenn Berman “departed substantially from state guidelines,” under which Ravi would have had to serve five to seven years in prison for second-degree crimes.

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2:17PM PST on Jan 19, 2014

Of course he's going to apologize. It's probably part of his reduced sentence. Thanks.

6:07PM PST on Dec 19, 2013

A shame it is, was, too little too late...

6:05PM PST on Dec 19, 2013

A shame it is, was, too little too late...

6:05PM PST on Dec 19, 2013

A shame it is, was, too little too late...

11:54AM PDT on May 21, 2013

Forget issuing a statement through your lawyer boy... book a primetime TV spot, paid for by yourself, and publicly restate what you've said... then people might start to believe you... then I reckon you need to go back to a correctional facility...

5:56PM PDT on Jun 11, 2012


2:49PM PDT on Jun 7, 2012

yeah, i'm sure he's sincerely sorry he got 30 days.

12:21AM PDT on Jun 5, 2012

Ravi might not have physically pushed Clementi off the bridge, but his bullying certainly contributed to Clementi's negative mental state. 30 days is not enough. There is no room for bullying!

11:50PM PDT on Jun 3, 2012

Leaning towards too little, too the bullying most certainly added to the mental state that the young man must have been in to commit suicide...

10:38AM PDT on Jun 3, 2012

While there is no doubt in my mind that it was absolutely and utterly wrong to spy on this poor man and then publicly out him in such a humiliating manner, it was still this young mans choice to toss himself off a bridge. Clearly he was not stable, and regardless of how cruel the acts of the "spy" may have been, joining the mob of people waving torches and pitchforks is ignorant and uncivilized. He humiliated the man, yes, but murder him? Of course not. Don't let your anger take you down these sort of paths. They've been the detriment of mankind in the past and we must move beyond this sort of rage induced thinking...

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