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New Anti-Bullying Site Asks You to “Choose Kind”

New Anti-Bullying Site Asks You to “Choose Kind”

Random House, the largest book publisher in the world, recently launched an anti-bullying Tumblr site called Choose Kind. It was inspired by one of Random House’s recent children’s novels, Wonder, which tells the story of a ten-year-old boy with severe facial deformities attending school for the first time. The website encourages people who have been affected by bullying to share their stories and “pledge to Choose Kind every day” (Choose Kind).

Bullying has been covered extensively in the media over the past few years, and several children’s and young adult authors have recently stepped up and covered the difficult issue in their books. Wonder was an eye-opener and an inspiration for many at Random House. Chris Gibson, president and publisher of the division that published the book, said, “The outpouring of enthusiasm from book lovers and educators moved us to the poignant message of the novel with a wider audience. I am proud to give them, and anyone around the world, the opportunity to discover the story and pledge with us to Choose Kind” (Shelf Awareness).

What does it mean to Choose Kind?

Choosing Kind can mean many things. Standing up for a kid who is being bullied; consciously deciding to say positive things instead of negative statements; talking to your kids about the dangers of bullying. Bullying isn’t just a children’s issue. We all have the power to affect the actions of the children in our lives. Whether you are an older sibling, a teacher, a parent, or a grandparent, your own attitudes and actions provide a model for children to follow. It’s never too late to Choose Kind, even if you’ve moved beyond playground drama.

Other books about bullying

There are several great books out there that discuss bullying in a way that reaches kids and helps them understand the consequences of their actions. Here are a few:

This Is What I Did by Ann Dee Ellis

The Truth About Truman School by Dori Hillestad Butler

Amelia’s Bully Survival Guide by Marissa Moss

Blubber by Judy Blume

Bullyville by Francine Prose

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3:38PM PDT on Mar 24, 2013

Bullies need to be stopped. "Choose kind" is great, but when bullies pick on kids, the schools still act like the victim is the trouble-maker for asking for help, instead of suffering in silence...

3:33PM PDT on Mar 24, 2013

I wrote a poem:

A bully used to be the kid who always picked on the weak ones
He’d get up in our faces, shake his fist & spoil all of our fun.
He would run after us at recess yelling “I am going to catch you!”
We’d run terrified & screaming, never quite knowing what to do.

Always lurking around in the shadows, looking for someone to harm
Pushing us up against our lockers & punching us in the arms.
No! Don't ever go to the school bathroom; We'd rather hold it all day
If he catches us in there alone, there would be a huge price to pay.

Fast forward to the year 2013 & a bully’s description quickly changes
Bully’s today show no mercy & quite simply, act like they are deranged.
Who in their wildest dreams would have expected this to occur?
Do we allow them to break a young child's spirit, I say to this, No Sir!

This child that they now torture has by no means had an easy road
He is shy & he is lonely & he's tired of carrying a big load.
LIFE needs to have all bullies feel the sting of every punch & ugly word
So that they may realize the agony & everything that this poor child has heard.
Maybe then they'd see the pain that they inflicted on an innocent kid
And soon would feel remorse; trying to fix every bad thing that they did.

In today's world a bully uses deadly weapons instead of words
Even growing bold enough by bringing guns to school; Absurd!
Schools should always be a safe

12:49AM PDT on Jun 13, 2012

Thanks for the information.

3:13PM PDT on Jun 10, 2012

"Choosing Kind can mean many things. Standing up for a kid who is being bullied; consciously deciding to say positive things instead of negative statements." There are many comments on Care2 that could learn from this.

12:45PM PDT on Jun 10, 2012

Bravo

12:35PM PDT on Jun 10, 2012

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5:46AM PDT on Jun 10, 2012

I think this is a great idea!

4:39PM PDT on Jun 9, 2012

I'm glad that bullying is finally being taken seriously,but where the hell was everybody when it was happening to me? What took so long for everyone to wake up?

2:33PM PDT on Jun 9, 2012

When parents, teachers, administrators and children understand what bullying is and they all take a stand against it, maybe then bullying will stop. As a retired Family Mentor with years of experience with children and their parents, I can attest to the fact that a great many parents cannot believe their child has bullied anyone. "My child wouldn't do that!" is usually the response when a parent is notified. I actually witnessed a child doing something and let the parent know what the child had done. She asked the child and the child denied it and she believed her child! As the child left, she turned around and stuck her tongue out at me. Her mother was unaware. It was a no-win situation and sometimes, it really is a no-win. It takes drastic measures a great deal of the time to make a bully stop being a bully.

1:39PM PDT on Jun 9, 2012

When you run into bullying at school it is something that children have to handle themselves. One can get a teacher to intercede but the teacher's hands are tied as to what to do about it beyond talking to them or taking them to the principal to talk to them about it. The highest level it can go to is to the bully's parents and then they usually merely talk to the child about it or don't care or think it is some sort of virtue. The only ones who can really handle the situation terminately are the other children.
When I was in grade 5 we had a kid in grade 8 who thought he could bully around the little girls at the school. I put an end to it using force because I was a pretty good fighter after years of experience of either beating up or being beaten up by my older brother. Once the fellow saw that he was going to get beat down every time he was picking on the smaller kids he changed his tune.
While I don't recommend violence to handle such situations there are times when the only thing that the opposing side understands is force and in those situations it has to be used. If the kids don't handle it for themselves then it shows that the eductional system has totally abandoned any idea of the development of creating groups for their own protection and comradery. Something can always be done about any existing situation but it takes at least one person to stand up and say "No".

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