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Why Did a Woman Sit Dead and Undiscovered in Her Car for Six Years?

Why Did a Woman Sit Dead and Undiscovered in Her Car for Six Years?

We love our gadgets, don’t we? Laptop and tablet computers that go anywhere, smartphones that let us tote around the entire Internet in our pocket or handbag, abundant wi-fi available every place we go. It’s liberating to be so virtually connected to absolutely everything that’s important.

The trouble is, these gadgets don’t connect us to everything that’s important. For some, they actually separate us from other people in critical ways we may not fully grasp until it’s too late. A woman from suburban Detroit recently became the tragic poster child for the proposition that we can indeed be too connected to our automated, online lives for our own good.

The Grim and Cautionary Tale of Pia Farrenkopf

Pia Farrenkopf, 45, lived alone in Pontiac, Mich. Early in March 2014 she was found sitting in the back seat of her Jeep Liberty inside her garage with her winter coat on and the ignition in the off position. She was dead.

In fact, she’d been sitting there — dead, undiscovered and mummified for almost six years. Yes, you read that correctly.

How can this possibly happen? It’s not as difficult as you might imagine.

Farrenkopf had no husband and no kids. She was estranged from her family. She traveled frequently for her job with a Chrysler financing firm. So frequently, in fact, that neighbors saw her only sporadically. Not seeing her around the neighborhood was the norm. Even when she was at home, she was not gregarious.

“She kept to herself. I figured she traveled a lot, because she wouldn’t be home for months, then I’d see her off and on,” an unnamed neighbor told the Macomb Daily.”When I didn’t see her for a while when the economy went bad, I thought she left someone said she moved to California.”

Pia Farrenkopf

Pia Farrenkopf in an undated photo courtesy of the "Mummified in Michigan" Facebook page

In mid-2008, Farrenkopf apparently resigned from her job, according to a Facebook page reportedly set up by a relative. The last time anyone is sure she was seen alive is when she was pulled over in late 2008 by the police for having no proof of insurance and expired plates on her Jeep. She did not appear at a court hearing for this infraction in January 2009.

Though some thought Farrenkopf may have died by the end of 2008, information came to light indicating that she reportedly withdrew money from her bank via a non-automated transaction in March 2009. Oddly, there also appears to be evidence she may have voted in 2010, though election officials say that might be an administrative error.

Auto-Payments and Neatnik Neighbors Kept Pia Alive for Years

The reason Pia Farrenkopf’s death went undiscovered for so long is, in part, because all her important bills were set up online to be automatically paid. From the day she died, her mortgage, utilities and other bills were taken care of like clockwork out of her bank account.

Her home remained presentable because, unasked, a neighbor began mowing Farrenkopf’s lawn. He apparently did so believing she was always out of town and wanted to avoid living next to someone with an unkempt lawn.

No mail piled up at the house because Farrenkopf had arranged for it to be held at the post office, due to her frequent travels. To the outside world, nothing at the house appeared to be amiss.

Eventually the bills ate through the $54,000 in Farrenkopf’s bank account. Even after payments stopped, however, no one came to the home to find out what was going on. Creditors, the state and the IRS were able to file tax liens and obtain civil judgments against her for nonpayment. Of course Farrenkopf never showed up or responded to any of those legal actions.

Eventually the house went into foreclosure. A contractor sent by the bank to repair a hole in the roof during the first week of March 2014 found Farrenkopf’s mummified remains in the back seat of her Jeep. Authorities are unsure how she died. Watch a news report about this story here:

Can We Be Too Electronically-Connected For Our Own Good?

Pia Farrenkopf seems to have lived a particularly solitary life. It’s incredibly sad to imagine her body sitting there for years while her bills were auto-paid, fastidious neighbors mowed her lawn, and life moved along without her. Farrenkopf’s contact with people was so limited, no one no one at all thought to go to her front door and insist on finding out why they hadn’t heard from her.

All of the interactions between Farrenkopf and her creditors took place electronically or by mail. No one reached out person-to-person to find out what was going on with her. Her near-constant absence while alive led her neighbors to assume she was once again traveling.

Pia Farrenkopf was so successful at automating her life and keeping friendly ties to a minimum that it occurred to no one to ask if something was wrong. More than likely she didn’t do this intentionally, which makes this situation all the more heartbreaking.

The lesson here is abundantly clear. Reach out. Talk to people. Get to know your neighbors and co-workers, particularly if you have no family ties. Establish relationships with those around you so you (and they) will realize when something unusual is going on. Don’t insulate yourself from the world with a life lived only online or alone. The consequences can be tragic.

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Photo Credit: Mummified in Michigan Facebook page

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2:29PM PDT on Aug 30, 2014

What a tragedy on so many levels.

2:55AM PDT on Aug 29, 2014

very sad :(

12:33PM PDT on Aug 28, 2014

such a shame that no one even noticed or cared that she was gone. But hopefully now she can or did have a proper burial like she deserved.

9:29PM PDT on Aug 25, 2014

I don't think this could "happen to any of us". Most of us do not and could not lead such a solitary life even if we wanted to. This seems completely extraordinary to me.

1:10PM PDT on Aug 23, 2014

OMG! You wouldn't think that would be possible!

4:13PM PDT on Aug 22, 2014

This is really so sad and it's true that so many people are alone without anyone who cares if they are even alive.

To not be discovered til the place smells of death is commonplace let's be frank about it. But I suppose if you make people register to be checked on by police if they are living alone would be considered an evasion of privacy. I don't have an answer to it. .

10:22AM PDT on Aug 20, 2014

Wow, that's something. Having grown up in a neighborhood where folk looked out for one another, it is natural for me to talk to my neighbors, get to know them just enough to not be nosy.

My husband and I have been living with an Elder now for the past five years. Oh, she's pretty healthy and active yet there was a time when she fainted in the bathroom while living alone.

In the grand design she went that others may be more aware. Thank you.

10:40PM PDT on Aug 19, 2014

That could happen to any of us. People don't sit on their front porches and talk with all the neighbors anymore. Someone could disappear for years and not be missed if the bills are on autopay.

12:29PM PDT on Aug 19, 2014

There's a level of pain associated with being so insulated that you can "disappear" like that and achieve a dubious celebrity in death that was a result of her lack of notoriety in life.

Sad.

12:01PM PDT on Aug 19, 2014

Very sad.

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