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12 Sex And Intimacy Tips From Deepak Chopra

12 Sex And Intimacy Tips From Deepak Chopra

Dear Friends,

As part of the release of my new digital E-Book and App, “Kama Sutra & The Seven Spiritual Laws of Love,” (see below for an exclusive peak at the first chapter of the book), this Valentine’s Day I would like to once again share the following insights on Sex and Spirituality:

1. Sexual energy is the primal and creative energy of the universe. All things that are alive come from sexual energy. In animals and other life forms, sexual energy expresses itself as biological creativity. In humans, sexual energy can be creative at all levels – physical, emotional and spiritual. In any situation, where we feel attraction, arousal, awakening, alertness, passion, interest, inspiration, excitement, creativity, enthusiasm, in each of these situations, sexual energy is at work. Whenever we feel these states of awareness, we must put our attention on the energy that we are experiencing, nourishing it with our attention, experiencing it with joy and keeping it alive in our awareness.

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2. Sexual desire is sacred and chaste. The suppression of sexual energy is false, ugly and unchaste.

3. During sexual union, there is union between flesh and spirit.

4. Bliss, carefreeness and playfulness are the essence of sex. 5. To improve your sexual experiences, get rid of your expectations.

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Expectations are primarily in three areas:

1) Performance, exemplified in the question, “How am I doing?”

2) Feeling, exemplified in the question, “How am I feeling?”

3) Security, exemplified in the question, “Do you love me?”

6. In sex, as in all areas of life, resistance is born of fear. All resistance is mental. It implies judgment against what is being felt. Sex becomes a problem when it gets mixed with hidden emotions such as shame, guilt and anger.

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7. Sexual intimacy is the road to the taste or experience of true freedom, because it is the one area of life in which we can become completely uninhibited and free.

8. Sexual fulfillment occurs when the experience comes from playfulness instead of need. Frequently people bring their conflicts and needs into the sexual experience. When sex is used to fulfill needs, it leads to addiction. When sex comes from playfulness, the result is ecstasy.

9. All problems related to sex, neurosis, deviancy, sexual misbehavior, violence, abuse, can be traced to resistance, to suppression and repression, not to the sexual urges themselves. If we are allowed to discover our urges, desires and emotions, without outside inhibition, they won’t go to extremes. Extremism, in any form, is a reaction to repression, inhibition and suppression. Aggression and violence are the shadow energies of fear and impotence.

10. Sex is a means of escaping our little self or ego. It is many peoples’ only experience of meditation.

11. Meaningful sex has to be value based. Values are personal. Each situation that has sexual energy in it, involves the whole human being and their entire value system. My values may be different from yours, and I have no right to be the moral judge of anyone’s values. It is important, however, to have core values, and respect them. Without values, we become spiritually bankrupt. Sexual experience will never cause problems and will always be joyful, if lovers share the same values.

12. True intimacy is union between flesh and flesh, between subtle body and subtle body, between soul and soul. Sexual energy is sacred energy. When we have restored the sexual experience to the realm of the sacred, our world will be chaste and divine, holy and healed.

Love, Deepak Read a sneak peek of the first chapter at Intentblog here

About Deepak Chopra

Time Magazine heralded Deepak Chopra as one of the 100 heroes and icons of the century, and credited him as “the poet-prophet of alternative medicine.” Entertainment Weekly described Deepak Chopra as “Hollywood’s man of the moment, one of publishing’s best-selling and most prolific self-help authors.” Deepak Chopra is the author of more than 50 books and more than 100 audio, video and CD-Rom titles.

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Acknowledged as one of the world's greatest leaders in the field of mind body medicine, Deepak Chopra, M.D. continues to transform our understanding of the meaning of health. Chopra is known as a prolific author of over 49 books with 12 best sellers on mind-body health, quantum mechanics, spirituality, and peace. A global force in the field of human empowerment, Dr. Chopra's books have been published in more than 35 languages with more than 20 million copies in print.

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9:55AM PDT on May 19, 2012

All good advice is welcome!

Important theme. :-)

11:46AM PDT on May 4, 2012

Interesting...

4:11AM PDT on Mar 20, 2012

thanks for the list good tips

1:25AM PDT on Mar 14, 2012

thanks

12:45PM PST on Mar 10, 2012

THANKS. GOOD READ

12:31PM PST on Mar 2, 2012

thanks

1:24PM PST on Feb 29, 2012

Interesting but with wisdom

2:48AM PST on Feb 29, 2012

then evry thing will be nice

2:47AM PST on Feb 29, 2012

yep, but all these are true when you are having genuine sex..............I mean the partner should be your wife and not any thing else on earth!

7:21PM PST on Feb 23, 2012

Interesting

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