20 Ways to Add More to Your Life

When I qualified as a Doctor at 25 years old, I thought I knew everything there was to know about health and medicine. By the age of 30, I realized my medical training was limited and I didn’t really know much about health and wellness. So I went on a journey of discovery to expand my horizons and studied acupuncture, Chinese medicine, Functional medicine, nutrition, yoga and Buddhism. By 50, I realized my life training was limited too as my daughter (a teenager at the time) was pointing out “how stupid” I was. And now that I am 55, I realize I have amassed a lot of knowledge but have so much more to learn.

As I get older and hopefully wiser with every year, certain insights become clearer. Here are some of them gleaned from the wisdom I have gained from 30 years of marriage, having a 22-year-old daughter, 30 years of practicing medicine and being a perpetual student of life.

1. More Real Food, Less “Food-like Substances”
2. More Fruit and Vegetables, Less Sugar, Wheat and Corn
3. More Organic, Less Toxic
4. More Chewing, Less Eating
5. More Water, Less Soda

6. More Recycling, Less Waste
7. More Walking, Less Driving
8. More Exercising, Less Watching TV
9. More Outdoors, Less Indoors
10. More Sleep, Less Worry
11. More Calm, Less Chaos
12. More Being, Less Doing
13. More Consciousness, Less Ignorance
14. More Smiles, Less Anger
15. More Love, Less Hatred

16. More Play, Less Serious
17. More Letting Go, Less Holding On
18. More Forgiving, Less Blaming
19. More Generosity, Less Greed
20. More Ubuntu, Less Me!

Ubuntu means what makes us human is the humanity we show each other. It is a Xhosa (South African) word and philosophy emphasizing community, sharing and generosity.

As Archbishop Desmond Tutu says: “Ubuntu is about the essence of being human, it is part of the gift that Africa will give the world. It embraces hospitality, caring about others, being able to go the extra mile for the sake of others. We believe that a person is a person through another person, that my humanity is caught up, bound up, inextricably, with yours. When I dehumanize you, I inexorably dehumanize myself. The solitary human being is a contradiction in terms and therefore you seek to work for the common good because your humanity comes into its own in belonging”.

146 comments

peggy p.
peggy p.4 years ago

So true and honest

Jo Asprec
Jo Asprec4 years ago

wonderful ideas! Thanks for sharing!

Jessica M.
Jessica M.4 years ago

great thank you!

Howard C.
Howard Crosse5 years ago

Processed sugar is far too readily available; a chocolate bar can be bought anywhere, an apple or banana isn't as readily available sometimes not as cheap. We need to
think carefully about this if we are to look after our children's health.

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judith shiel5 years ago

thankyou

K s Goh
KS Goh5 years ago

Thanks for the article.

Gordana Roljic
Gordana Roljic5 years ago

good to know

Maira Sun
Maira Sun5 years ago

Gracias!

Jax xx
Jackie E.5 years ago

and more hugs..........

Deborah W.
Deborah w.5 years ago

I do yoga quite a few times a week and it really relaxes me and helps with my aches and pains, especially my sore back