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Are You Ready To Be Your Own Superhero?

Are You Ready To Be Your Own Superhero?

Money does not make you rich, character does. There are lots of wealthy people who are absolutely impoverished in character. You cannot buy a reputation for being a person of good character. It is earned by being a respectful, kind and responsible. You are truly wealthy when you accept the greatest legacy you will ever leave is choosing how well you live.

Be genuinely grateful for what you have in life and tearing up the list of what you do not have will be gratifying. Attitude is everything. Have an attitude of lack, and life will be a never-ending search for the next ďthingĒ to fill the holes within your heart. An attitude of gratitude magically plugs those holes.

Treating other people as you want to be treated does not mean waiting for them to go first. Leaders lead by ďbeing the change they want to see.Ē Frustration, anger and disappointment come from waiting for others to go first.

You cannot change anyone other than yourself. When you change yourself for the better, the world changes for the better because your positive actions influence those who see your behavior. That is why changed people change people, without trying. They lead change by example.

Every soul is whole no matter how wounded the human being. No matter how low you have gone in life, there is wisdom and strength within you that will get you successfully to the other side. The key is to accept you are not your problems. YOU are bigger than any challenge you face.

Regardless of what happened to you in the past or how you were mistreated by others, what matters most is how you are treating yourself today. Hurting yourself will never get back at those who hurt you in the first place. The truth is that loving yourself is an excellent way to prove their mistreatment wrong.

Being gentle with yourself, other people and all life is one of the strongest things you do. Gentleness is not weakness. It takes great strength to have the self-control necessary to be kind.

You are going to lose a friend and you will find a new friend. You will lose a love and you will find a new love. You will lose a job and you will find a new job. You will lose a bad habit and you will find a good habit. There is gain through loss. Everything changes so donít get stuck in the hard parts of life. Instead view the challenges as opportunities to grow and you will blossom.

Itís okay to get angry and frustrated at times. Itís not okay to make these a lifestyle. You are responsible for your own happiness. If life is not going well then it is time for you to do something about it.

Your glass will only remain half full until you realize you are the one holding the pitcher. Donít sit around waiting for someone to rescue you. You must be your own superhero.

Regina Cates has one mission in life: she helps people connect to and lead with their heart. Please visit Inspire Me Today for more ways to connect with your heart!

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8:39PM PDT on May 7, 2015

nice article., thanks for sharing

8:24PM PDT on Aug 17, 2014

Thank you, but I'd just as soon be a financialy rich character. Haven't had a chance to try that persona yet.

12:26PM PDT on Aug 13, 2014

Thank you

2:28AM PDT on Aug 9, 2014

This puts into perspective everything that I stand for. To always look on the bright side of life, and do your best to not get put down by anything. Thanks very much for the reminder :) *clap*

4:31PM PDT on Aug 8, 2014


1:17AM PDT on Aug 8, 2014

“Being the change you want to see”.. :) invigorating, thank you :)

8:21PM PDT on Aug 6, 2014

Very true.

6:39PM PDT on Aug 6, 2014

Yeah,, like Wonder Woman...

I wonder where my keys are, wonder where I put my wallet, wonder what I was supposed to buy at the store, wonder where I left the list, etc, etc...


Love yourself, you're all you've got, at the end of the day...

6:03PM PDT on Aug 6, 2014

YES, It's big, & round, it rymes with Hero Man.

I want to be ZERO Man.

4:56PM PDT on Aug 6, 2014

Great article! Thanks for sharing ; )

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