A family member who has been under a lot of pressure needs some relief, and you could be the one to give it to them. If they live far away, ask them to come visit you for a while -- a change of scenery might be just the ticket to get them feeling perky again. If they live in your neck of the woods, then make a date with them. Just the two of you. It's time to reacquaint yourself with a person you've known for so long. You don't know them nearly as well as you think you do.