Do a little personal inventory of your life today and try to be objective about it. Sort through your friends, family, romance, and work goals to see what (or who) really needs your attention. It's very important to remove your emotions from the evaluation -- don't think about what you wish was working well, look at what is actually working well. And then look objectively at what is genuinely not working well. Start working on making that a bigger priority. You'll figure out how to make it better!