Do you have too much control over everyone else's lives right now? Being in charge of group social events might make you think that you are doing everyone else a favor, but that is merely an illusion. It's much more likely that you are excluding people from having a say and feeling involved in the decision-making process. Your heart is in the right place, but now you've got to step back. Let things happen the way they happen, and let other people make all the decisions for a while.