Someone has been playing games with you, and they haven't been the fun kind with dice and cards. All of this ongoing phone tag, confusing conversation and generally flaky behavior is not something you need to put up with. Today you need to put an end to it. Make it clear to this game player that you aren't interested in being a part of their plan. They'll either have to respect your wishes or move on to someone who isn't so self-assured. Either way you will be better off!