The less you have financial dealings with others today, the better. It's not that you necessarily need to save any money, it's just that your emotions are uncertain, and you could be associating buying something with solving something. Paying a problem to go away isn't the right idea -- it will only help you waste your money. You need to focus on any challenges you encounter the right way. They will take hard work, but hard work is the only way to solve things, once and for all.