Today, beware of someone who is using their sex appeal to get what they want. This person and you are both negotiating, right now, with someone is quite likely to fall for a flirty come-on over strategic, logical ideas. This certainly doesn't mean that you should add any inappropriate sizzle to your argument. However, it might mean that you should re-think how important this particular victory is for you. If the judge is so easily swayed, then what does their approval mean?