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I FOUND THE ADVICE DIFFICULT TO READ, MY MOTHER AND I NEVER GOT ON AND IM THE ONE LEFT TO CARE FOR HER DEMENTIA/ALZ....SHE IS ABUSIVE, DIFFICULT AND HATEFULL, I FEEL AT THE END OF MY TETHER, OTHER FAMILY MEMBERS ARE NOT INTERESTED IN HER, I FEEL MY LIFE HAS COME TO AN END.....

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Hey ! you won't beleive but I am taking care of 90yrs old father-in-law .I left my good pay job and now sitting at home taking care of my child (now grown up ) and my father-in-law It is not an easy job . My husband is always on tour and I am alone taking care of him .I myself suffering from high blood pressure . I have three sister's in -law (Big family) can anybody suggest what can I do to have some change in my daily routine job .

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I appreciate this article. I am taking care of my father who has dementia/Alz. He wants to fight and scream and yell everytime we engage in conversation. Sometimes I just have to leave the room and come back. I tell him I love him and everything is okay. It is hard for him to lose his mind and know that it is happening. It helps me to remember that he was my mother's love. My mother was so loving and unconditional. He and I have never had a great relationship, however, he was a good father. I take care of him now because he took care of me, always. In my heart, I have never thought differently. It is hard when they get to this stage and you can't recognize them anymore. Instead, they seem to act like trapped injured animals. Just walking away from the ugly words and coming back with love works for now.

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I can appreciate these writings quite a bit as I was care-giver for each of my parents. Each one taken care of at one and each one with complete and total different personalities as when they were young. My father was always loving, laughing full of life and an amazing mind. Driving? EZ, I simply took his keys away. Would drive him to the store in his truck, when he stopped bathing I would bathe him, walked him into the shower turned my head and would wait, when he did not wash I had to do it for him. My father died sweetly and like a child - He was loving to the end. My mother was the dark side, fought every step of the way, was mean, cantankerous and a couple of times would slap my face with a hand full of feces when I was changing her diaper. My mother died in her bed and in my arms. With all the responsibility and the agony of watching them disintegrate I do not regret one moment spent with them. They were the best parents ever and I was blessed to have them. Good and Bad, Happy and Sad...it was a little pay back to all they gave to me and our family.

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If you've had a loving parent, this helps put dealing with them getting older in perspective. Beautiful sentiments.

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older people have given more to ALL of us whom are younger, and they should be loved and admired, respected always.

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Thank You!

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