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Clear Energy Drains

Clear Energy Drains

Imagine a vase being filled with water. Imagine also that the vase has a number of little holes from which water is leaking away. We are all like that vase, receiving energy from different sources. When you are full and overflowing, then you will naturally pour out your surplus energy to nourish others and to make your contribution. However, the unsupportive environments, unmet needs, and negative situations you put up with are the holes that drain your energy. They deplete you and prevent you living your life to the full.

Find out how to repair those holes so that your energy can fill to overflowing. Here is some helpful advice:

Most of us have many things in our lives that we tolerate but which drain us of energy. These include messy cupboards, un-filed paperwork, appliances that don’t work properly, shoddy paintwork and furniture, unfinished projects, poor communication, unanswered emails, unreturned phone calls, overflowing trash baskets unpaid bills, poor boundaries, rudeness, noise pollution, cluttered rooms, living in a neighborhood or doing a job you hate, etc. etc. etc! The list can go on and on. If you really take some time to think about the different areas of your life, it is not uncommon to find scores of energy drains, some minor and some major.

When thinking about this, don’t get caught up in what you “should” want or what “should” be okay with you. Focus on what is true for you and what does or does not work for you. If you are or can be genuinely happy with a situation even when it is not optimum, it does not have to drain you of energy. Energy drains occur when you do mind about something, are frustrated or complain and yet are not doing anything about it. The solution is either to choose to accept it happily or else do what you can to change it.

Start by making a list of ten energy drains at work and ten energy drains at home or in your personal life. Keep the list handy and keep adding to it every time that you notice something. Don’t give yourself a hard time about this. You are simply raising your awareness and telling the truth about what is happening in your life.

Now begin taking action to eliminate items from your list. Where possible, eliminate an item completely. Deal with it to an extent where you can be genuinely happy with how things are and your energy is no longer being drained by frustration and negativity. Depending on your style, you may want to start by eliminating the easiest items on your list, so as to give yourself the experience of success and to build momentum. Alternatively, you may want to tackle some of the biggest energy drains first to really free yourself up. Whatever works best for you. Start today to repair the holes in your vase so that you have a more abundant reserve of energy from which to live.

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Adapted from The Self Factor, by Duncan Coppock (Findhorn Press, 2005). Copyright (c) 2005 by Duncan Coppock. Reprinted by permission of Findhorn Press.
Adapted from The Self Factor, by Duncan Coppock (Findhorn Press, 2005).

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3:52PM PST on Jan 12, 2012

easier said than done

3:57AM PST on Nov 11, 2011

Thanks for the article.

5:37AM PST on Nov 7, 2011

Homeless people have no problems with clutter, as they have nothing. LOL!

8:50AM PDT on Aug 7, 2011

Thank you

6:31AM PDT on Sep 29, 2010


6:44PM PDT on Mar 19, 2010

Great article!

6:30AM PST on Feb 26, 2008

Good point.

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