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Do We Age Because Of Social Conditioning?

Do We Age Because Of Social Conditioning?

Thousands of years ago the greatest of Indian sages, Shankara, declared, “People grow old and die because they see others grow old and die.” It has taken us centuries even to begin to catch up with this extraordinary insight.

As a physical process, aging is universal and, to all appearances, inevitable. A steam locomotive doesn’t wear out over time and fall apart because it sees other locomotives doing the same thing. The only conditioning that affects any machine is simple wear and tear; certain parts get worn down faster than others because they absorb the most impact or friction.

Our bodies also absorb impact and friction; various organs and tissues wear out before others. This physical picture looks so much like mechanical wear and tear that we are blinded to Shankara’s deeper point – the aging body is responding to social conditioning.

There are societies in which people share very different styles of conditioning and therefore very different styles of aging. In recent decades anthropologists have been surprised to discover how many so-called primitive peoples are immune to signs of aging that the West has long accepted.

S. Boyd Eaton, co-author of a fascinating book about early man’s health, The Paleolithic Prescription, points to at least twenty-five traditional societies around the world where heart disease and cancer, two diseases long associated with aging, are almost unknown.

These societies are our best testing ground for the hypothesis that “normal” aging is really a collection of symptoms born from abnormal conditioning.

Adapted from Ageless Body, Timeless Mind, by Deepak Chopra (Three Rivers Press, 1998).

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Deepak Chopra

Acknowledged as one of the world's greatest leaders in the field of mind body medicine, Deepak Chopra, M.D. continues to transform our understanding of the meaning of health. Chopra is known as a prolific author of over 49 books with 12 best sellers on mind-body health, quantum mechanics, spirituality, and peace. A global force in the field of human empowerment, Dr. Chopra's books have been published in more than 35 languages with more than 20 million copies in print.


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6:32AM PDT on May 9, 2013

Thank you for sharing.

2:21PM PDT on May 8, 2013

No, we age, because every living being, from the smallest to the largest, has a "lifespan". The only difference between the smallest and the largest is one of scale...

7:00AM PDT on May 8, 2013

Surely the behaviour regarded as 'appropriate' for every age group is culturally conditioned.

5:46PM PDT on May 7, 2013

I will be childish and immature forever, but darn those grey hairs give me away!!

5:34PM PDT on May 7, 2013

It also helpw when the average lifespan was only 25.

3:39AM PST on Mar 2, 2013

thanks for sharing

5:27AM PST on Feb 19, 2013

Thanks for sharing.

4:55PM PDT on Aug 10, 2012


1:58PM PDT on Aug 10, 2012

At seventy-one, I don,t feel old. I have aches and pains, but so do many younger people. I enjoy keeping fashionable too. I try to live each day fully, and even though I am now a carer, and this brings restrictions in my life, I am grateful for every new day.

7:43AM PDT on Jul 22, 2012


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So cute. Adorable.

Thanks for sharing. Wish I was happier.

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This is a disaster waiting to happen. :( Very bad decision.


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