Erogenous Zones: We’ve Got the Map if You’ve Got the Time

When youíre all hot-and-bothered and in the do-me-now phase of a relationship, itís easy to skip foreplay and go straight to the main event. You donít need time to get turned on and sex feels sensual enough because youíre so into the person youíre into.

Why bother touching anything else but each other?

Hereís why: Touch can make intense, delicious sex even more intense and delicious.

Your skin is the largest sensory organ you have with many erogenous zones to make you melt. Explore them with someone (or on your own) and see if it makes sex more intimate and exciting.

Everybody reacts to erogenous zones differently, so try a lot of them. Also, menís zones may differ from womenís zones. Here are some interesting ways to touch them. And here are a few decadent, sensual textures you can fool around with when youíre in the mood to play:

  • Faux fur or feathers
  • Silk or satin
  • Velvet
  • Warm water
  • Ice
  • Lotions and oils (use as is or gently warmed)
  • Liquid latex
  • Leather
  • Smooth metal, glass, or polished wood (yes, really)

As usual, make sure you have birth control covered. With so much emphasis on pleasure, things could get explosive, if you know what we mean.

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Dainy Arroyo
Dainy Arroyo4 hours ago


Ermes B.
Ermes B.9 hours ago

Thank you..

Donna T.
Donna T.7 days ago

thank you

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Pauline C.10 days ago


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Leah C.
Leah C.26 days ago

The absolute best thing for arousal is someone you trust.

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Gyan T.
Gyan T.about a month ago

This is a bit of a tease !

Kathryn Irby
Kathryn Irby1 months ago

Some things are actually "personal," and this is one of them! The author can't even show his/her name???!!! No wonder!

D Wallace
D Wallace1 months ago

And here's me looking on google bloody maps and worrying about emissions charges in built up areas, ah well, live and learn.. I think the mirrors go on the celling, smoke arrive with much friction hence the oils, or is it from the post coital puff?

Jenny G.
Jenny G.1 months ago

Where's the rest of the article?