START A PETITION 27,000,000 members: the world's largest community for good

How to Find Your Inner Strength

How to Find Your Inner Strength

There is a special invitation that whispers to us from the midst of our greatest challenges. It is an invitation to honor our spirit as we keep hope alive for ourselves and others.

The truth of this brilliance was brought before me the other day when a friend wrote a note distilling the lessons learned over the past year as he and his wife battled and beat back cancer.

In sharing what helped them make it through the nights of doubt, pain and uncertainty, they turned to ancient words recorded more than 1,800 years ago…

‘It is my bad luck that this has happened to me.’ No, you should rather say: ‘It is my good luck, that although this has happened to me I can bear it, neither crushed by the present nor fearful of the future.’ Because such a thing could have happened to any man, but not every man could have borne it. So why see more misfortune in the event than good fortune in your ability to bear it?

Can there be anything, then, in this happening which prevents you from being just, high-minded, self-controlled, intelligent, judicious, truthful, honourable and free – or any other of those attributes whose combination is the fulfillment of man’s proper nature?

So in all future events which might induce sadness remember to call on this principle: ‘This is no misfortune, but to bear it true to yourself is good fortune.’

~ Marcus Aurelius, Meditations

These words, as true today as when they were written centuries before, landed on a heart tender from writing the story of my life’s greatest mentor, a wise federal judge who guided my career and life as a young lawyer.

This was a man who knew loss. He lost his grandmother and other relatives in the Holocaust, saw his father paralyzed, lived through the Great Depression, several wars, and a historic flood that decimated his community, and lost his wife and two younger sisters.

This also was a man who wore his humanity lightly. He intimately taught me both sides of the coin of humanity: how to accept with grace and gratitude the things in life we cannot change…and how the quality of our life is measured by the extent to which we help others in their time of need.

If you currently are facing tough times, remember that you have within you the strength to persevere in a way that honors your spirit. As my mentor would say, “In times of great uncertainty and need, you will have doubts. Also have hopes. Have dreams.”

To all reading these words, receive an invitation passed on from a dear friend to remember that others need your kind words and thoughtful deeds today. Shine a light for those who are traveling a dark road.

Dr. Mollie Marti, founder of the Community Resiliency Project, is the author of Walking with Justice: Uncommon Lessons from One of Life’s Greatest Mentors. For more advice on dealing with tough times, visit Inspire Me Today.

Photo Credit: Max Elman

Read more: Spirit, Inspiration

have you shared this story yet?

go ahead, give it a little love

Gail Lynne Goodwin's brings the world the best of the best inspiration from people like Sir Richard Branson, Jack Canfield, Debbie Ford and more. Each day we ask our Luminary to answer, "If you only had 500 words to share, what wisdom would you want to pass on to humanity? What have you learned that matters, and what doesn't?" We share their wisdom for FREE to help our community live an inspired life, each and every day!


+ add your own
12:39AM PST on Feb 1, 2015

Thank you!

12:10PM PDT on Sep 25, 2014

Hi to everybody. If I can share I would like to say that I found an inner strenght when my former husband has packed his luggages and left with a new girl. The world just fall over me, but after 8 months I realise that I do have to raise myself. If not me nobody is going to do it for me. I'm absolutelly sure that God has helped as well. What's the inner strehght if not God?

2:27AM PDT on Sep 14, 2014

Shining a light through the darkest of times - the greatest thing we can do in this world :) ...

3:06AM PDT on Sep 4, 2014

Thank you :)

4:48PM PDT on Sep 3, 2014

I don't think we realize what inner strength we have until we're faced with diversity!

6:55AM PDT on Sep 3, 2014


5:36AM PDT on Sep 3, 2014

Thank you.

4:43AM PDT on Sep 3, 2014

thank you for sharing

3:26AM PDT on Sep 3, 2014

Very inspiring! Thank you for sharing :)

1:35AM PDT on Sep 3, 2014

No wonder Marcus Aurelius looks so handsome depicted riding his horse as seen on the prominent statue of him in Rome. Thought-provoking words of wisdom ...

add your comment

Disclaimer: The views expressed above are solely those of the author and may not reflect those of
Care2, Inc., its employees or advertisers.

people are talking

Good ideas. Thanks for sharing :)

Thanks for the info.

Of course they do ... simply because I like them. If I didn't like them, they'd be superfoods. Oh, j…

Thanks for that, fwd to my Indian Community. In India more than 60% of the population is below the "…


Select names from your address book   |   Help

We hate spam. We do not sell or share the email addresses you provide.

site feedback


Problem on this page? Briefly let us know what isn't working for you and we'll try to make it right!