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7 Steps To Love with Bedroom Feng Shui

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7 Steps To Love with Bedroom Feng Shui

By Ann Bingley Gallops, Networx

Is your love life in the doldrums? Do you crave the warmth of a lover’s touch, the sharing of fun and laughter with a trusted partner, the feeling of safety and support that only a loving relationship can provide?

If you’re looking for love, Feng Shui has ways to help you find what you’re searching for.

Start by thinking about the place in your home where you spend the most time – your bedroom. This room, where you spend fully one-third of your life, has an outsize influence on your health, your emotional well-being, and especially your loving relationships.

The more time you spend in a place, the more important it is to make sure it supports and nourishes you to the maximum extent possible. In fact, Feng Shui regards your bedroom as the most important room in your home and has developed specific ways to arrange it to help you attract love into your life.

As a Feng Shui consultant I’ve helped countless clients cultivate and nurture healthy and happy love lives. Here are my top tips to help you start turning your love life in the right direction, right now.

1. Empower your intention by considering the Primary Purpose of your bedroom. Think about it: what do you want most in this room? If the answer is “Love!” then take a look around and start sending that message to yourself and the universe by creating a sanctuary where you can create a beautiful love life.

Everything in your bedroom should be related to its primary purpose of love: get rid of work materials, exercise equipment, kids’ toys, the TV set, books and other distractions.

2. Make room for love by clearing clutter. This is #1 for good Feng Shui in any room but it’s particularly important in the bedroom, where distractions should be at a minimum.

3. Create a bit of extra room in your closets and dresser drawers. You’re much more likely to attract love when there’s literally space in your life, so make room for two! If you live in New York City like I do, spaces are small and it can be challenging to make space in your closets. Either get rid of some belongings, or call a remodeling contractor to see if you can add storage space.

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8:21AM PDT on Jul 31, 2012

Since I spend little time in my bedroom-just a mere seven hours for sleeping it can be easily ignored except for when Her Grandness curls up on her cat bed and wants some extra pettings in her Realm.

Have everything jam packed in there, large bed, large desk and everything in there is essential, all pleasant but certainly not spacious! Not one mirror in there either.
Under the bed lurks dust bunnies on occasion plus my hard copy photos and if her Tortitude finds her feline bed too hot she likes the coolness under the bed so she gives off lively feline energy under there as she snores away.
Have a lampshade made out of grapevine topped off with a crafty pumpkin made out of material and a black cat doggie toy rescued for better use to amuse my eyes rather than be worried and mauled by some canine!
Many of my journals are on the bookshelves along with treasures and my books.

10:38AM PDT on May 3, 2012

Great tips- Thanks

10:16AM PDT on Apr 22, 2012

I love my bedroom. It says a lot about me. But it took me a while to get it to that point. Fresh paint and natural scents also are inviting. I used to have a computer desk in there but it was the best moves to get it out. Thanks for the great tips!

8:33AM PDT on Apr 14, 2012

Yes, thank you, I need to get rid of 'stuff'. Closet too cluttered with things I don't wear or look at. Change just for the love of yourself and your surroundings. Very important to love to walk into your entire home not just one room. It is our sanctuary from all of the crap you just left outside. And it is a bunch of crap isn't it?

1:08PM PDT on Apr 13, 2012

thanks :)

7:21AM PDT on Apr 13, 2012


5:45AM PDT on Apr 12, 2012

Thanks for the article.

5:05PM PDT on Apr 11, 2012


11:43AM PDT on Apr 11, 2012

And get some plants :)

6:45AM PDT on Apr 11, 2012


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